Is anandi failing Shivam too?

Anandi without Shiv.

Somewhere she lost the balancing factor in her life.

Whenever she had a problem, Shiv used to be her listener and her advisor.

Whenever there was a crisis, both used to face the crisis.

Shivam has good meaning people around him but he looks like a boy without much confidence. He seems sort of lost in that big haveli with distant relatives.

Amol had the good fortune of interacting with both father and mother.

If Anandi had died and Shiv was alive with two kids, how life would have been?

Then the children would not have been at the mercy of others.

Ira and Meenu would have taken anandi's role in the twins lives.

The father would have given them everything love, discipline, status and dignity.

If anandi had a good regular job in Udaipur, she would have handled her life differently inspite of Shiv's death. She could have just supervised others instead of participating in social work.

I feel sorry for the kids. Anandi is feeling bad for her lost daughter. But what sort of life she is giving to Shivam? A house which he cannot call his own. No one from his father's family. Not even his nana is with him.

I don't think Shivam comes across as under confident person at all.

Children are very sensitive. Usually they realise if there is something wrong inspite of their happy dispositions.

It will be interesting if there is some conflict between mother and son. Why we are not living in our father's house? I would like to visit Singapore to see my grandparents. How did my twin sister was lost?

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi without Shiv.

Somewhere she lost the balancing factor in her life.

Whenever she had a problem, Shiv used to be her listener and her advisor.

Whenever there was a crisis, both used to face the crisis.

Shivam has good meaning people around him but he looks like a boy without much confidence. He seems sort of lost in that big haveli with distant relatives.

Amol had the good fortune of interacting with both father and mother.

If Anandi had died and Shiv was alive with two kids, how life would have been?

Then the children would not have been at the mercy of others.

Ira and Meenu would have taken anandi's role in the twins lives.

The father would have given them everything love, discipline, status and dignity.

If anandi had a good regular job in Udaipur, she would have handled her life differently inspite of Shiv's death. She could have just supervised others instead of participating in social work.

I feel sorry for the kids. Anandi is feeling bad for her lost daughter. But what sort of life she is giving to Shivam? A house which he cannot call his own. No one from his father's family. Not even his nana is with him.

@ bold - What stopped Ira Meenu and Alok from staying back and helping Anandi looks after the twins?

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Children are very sensitive. Usually they realise if there is something wrong inspite of their happy dispositions.

It will be interesting if there is some conflict between mother and son. Why we are not living in our father's house? I would like to visit Singapore to see my grandparents. How did my twin sister was lost?

I think there is a difference between a single working mother who lives in her own house and a single non working mother(social service is muft service for anandi) living in unrelated people's home. As a sunny child, Shivam is ok now. But afterwards?

Whatever little I have seen of Shivam is enough for me to feel that something is lacking.

Anandi will be judged because she takes certain decisions with some consequences.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I think there is a difference between a single working mother who lives in her own house and a single non working mother(social service is muft service for anandi) living in unrelated people's home. As a sunny child, Shivam is ok now. But afterwards?

Why don't we watch and see what happens??

I am not thinking about Abhi and Shivam. I am thinking about Shivam.
Children are very inquisitive. When are we going to see that inquisitiveness?
I dont care for ice cream wars. It is natural in every home.

Instead of concentrating on Shivam, they are giving more importance to Nandini's physical and mental torture.

You are saying if Shiv had been a single father things would have been different.