Totally agree
why people are blaming Jagya ? What he can do ?Its actually he who landed into a bad situation and it is taking to his son ending up misunderstanding him His son is getting affected and his wife is also . and wait Anandi's kid will get hurt even more now when she will realize what abhi is going through and i am sure then she will try to leave but in all these 11 years how much shivam has grown fond of Jagya i could see in these 5 episodes Won't it hurt him now to leave the place ?
i wonder why Anandi never thought she is bringing her kid into a house where there is a couple staying The kids have their father Won't shivam feel his loss more when he has lost his father even before his birth and where she is taking him there is two kids living a blissful life with their father with them?
What she expected from Jagya when she was questioning him my stay won't affect you and Ganga and i want to move out because of that ?He and Ganga does not consider this within their rights to ask her to leave because she comes there with her relationship equation with Dadisaa Why she could not go to Dadisaa straight away and convince her Why to drag Jagya and Ganga in it Just say i want to give my child upbringing in the house where their father lived i will keep in touch with you guys if i ever needed help Simple. If one day Dadisaa wont listen other day she will but she did a few minutes drama in front of Jagya and made JaGan guilty as if they are reason she cannot stay in her sasural cum maika and one day tried in front of Dadisaa and thats it? Done and she is staying in BH
She cannot see her son is growing more and more closer to Jagya and calls kakusaa even if he wants to eat ice cream not ask his mother who is sitting all free in home but he will call Kakusaa who is busy in office because he has started seeing him as a fatherly figure and asks things from him just like kids do from their fathers and surprisingly she is ok with that Not for onc she said to shivam wait don't disturb him i will bring ice cream for you
i feel bad for shivam as well how he will feel when reality will struck him he is suppose to keep some limits or will have to leave the house as i saw him waiting excitedly when Jagya will apply color to him Just look at his expressions He was all excitedly waiting and was so happy and giggling when he did after applying to his kids
How one can fault Jagya in this ? Is he wrong to give affection to shivam ? A kid who have not been lucky enough to get his father's love but on daily basis sees other children getting their father's love living under same roof with him ? Can Jagya really push away this kid ? No Any kind hearted person will do what Jagya is doing with shivam i will do
His son has a tiff with shivam In that Jagya cannot scold shivam because that will make Anandi and Shivam feel bad He cannot push away shivam from him because that will shivam feel bad and that is making his own son feel bad and even his wife as they think in his sympathy for shivam he is ignoring abhi which he is not but a misunderstanding has come
Just like you said why Anandi cannot see this suffocation Jagya and his family is going through ? what she expects from JaGan to continue like this Why she thinks its ok from her son to keep increasing his expectations from Jagya Does she want Jagya to keep doing duties for her son ? People in support of Anandi are saying why Jagya is doing this but one cannot see what he can do ? Wont same people be calling him rude , mean , cruel heart less person if he starts to ignore shivam , scolds him and the kid gets hurt? Yes they will be Jagya cannot kick shivam out Jagya cannot kick Anandi out but yes Anandi sensing the suffocation her and her kid's presence is causing in BH can move out but she is perfectly fine and ignorant to this despite everything is so clear in front of her
How people are saying it is not Anandi's problem what Jagya's son is going through when all Jagya's son is going through this because of a random kid s unnecessary presence in his father's life and that random kid is no one else but Anandi's son Shivam? Why Abhi's upbringing is questioned and Jagya's role as a father ? What we expect Jagya to do ? Abhi by no way looks to me a spoilt brat His problem is in his father's life there is random kid who by no means is related to his father but he has to bear scoldings of his father because of tiff with that random kid where his father does not say anything strictly to that random kid He is too young understand this why his father does not scolds shivam when shivam initiates fights with him as Anandi too accept Shivam is not milk washed but Jagya cannot scold Shivam to behave because that is not his right and Anandi and Shivam will feel bad and unwanted people in the house if he does this and that's burden on him Why Anandi cannot to see this ? that because of her kid Jagya has to scold his kid Why she does not think both kids need space Abhi certainly does not like shivam around so why don't she move out making some other excuse rather than taking abhi's name and his issues and making Jagya and Ganga guilty ?
,Abhi has to share his father's love with shivam why Anandi cannot see Jagya is forced to give fatherly love to her child Can we fault Jagya in this ? No . In front of him is a kid who does not have a father won't it be inhuman of him if he ignores this child and bring stuff for his children Give them love and this kid keeps watching them ? Why Anandi cannot see this Jagya is forced to foster her child and her child has also started seeing him more than Kakusaa He has started seeing him as fatherly figure therefore he asks things from him not from his mother ? Is Anandi so naive she cannot see and understand this ?
What we expect from Jagya here ? what he should make his son understand that why he does not scold shivam and who is shivam and what exactly he is doing in their house ? I read some people comparing this with Sugna if widowed sugna would have come instead of Anandi and then Jagya would be same with her kids Yes Jagya would be same with her kids in fact Sugna's kids are pretty attached to Jagya even when he himself was a kid but at least if his son has issues with them he and Ganga can explain to him as who they are and why their father loves them and they are his cousins his elder brother and elder sister He should respect them ? Here I cannot even understand what he should say ? Here they are so forced to call shivam a brother to abhi to set a relationship equation his mind which is totally awkward and weird ? and what abhi should get and understand from it but obviously Anandi cannot see that either ?
11 years ago the question she asked from Jagya my stay here won't affect your relationship with Ganga what she expected him to answer ? Does she not know she comes to BH with her relationship equation with Dadisaa and Singhs and JaGan respect her relationship status with them They cannot ask her to leave ? They did not bring her here on their wish its Dadisaa who did . What Jagya was supposed to answer her then? He said to her we wont have rest talk to Dadisaa Obviously he cannot say we will be having issues , my life will tangled please leave ? Ganga what is she suppose to answer to it How can she say i will be having issues so please Dadisaa ask her to leave ?Obviously Ganga does not want to break her relationship with Singhs and she is coming and staying nights there before Ganga was Jagya's wife? Really JaGan were in no position to ask her to leave They just can't It was between her and Dadisaa She if was so concerned for JaGan and the three of them and their lives and their kids lives won't get tangled in a mess because of her presence she would convince Dadisaa ? This is so lame once she tried and Dadisaa bullied her and she was ok I will stay here ? Come on she could talk to Dadisaa in some other day in calmer tone No need to take Jagya and Ganga's name and make them guilty just tell her I want to have some space of my own and why Dadisaa won't be convinced she will be convinced because same Dadisaa stopped her search mission of Jagya when he left for laxmiganj and agreed to give him space when Bhairon explained to her he needs time and space of his own Give him that It was only Anandi who could not be convinced and dragged him back otherwise Dadisaa agreed Same way she would have agreed here but it s obvious Anandi did not try in all these 11 years and its totally untrue Dadisaa will have heart attack if she did The time Dadisaa had heart attack it was not because of Anandi leaving the house she saw her family breaking Father and son against each other , her ladesar slapped all her ill deeds on her face she could not take that and suffered heart attack but later she was fine Anandi could leave when her parents were asking but if she did not leave that's for her own reasons but she never left Here Dadisaa was living a peaceful life with her grandson and his wife and kids without Anandi Why she will suffer a heart attack if Anandi would have asked her she wanted to have some space of her own ?
and now I am quite sure she will try to be great soul and leave the house when she will come to know the suffocation Jagya and his family is feeling because of her and her son s presence in the house but really all she needed is Jagya and Ganga to show issues in front of her so that she can leave ? She will be making Jagya and Ganga guilty It will look like it is because of them Really I feel sorry for Jagya and Ganga its unfair with them and people are saying they are creating drama for Jagya and Ganga its all for Anandi and fix her stay in BH
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