Originally posted by: Missesha
How can Jagya or Ganga be faulted at all? What should they do? Should they have told Dsa or Anandi, that Anandi is not welcome here because our lives will get entangled.
And how should Jagya treat Shivam? First of all Jagya is being indirectly forced to foster a child. If he becomes rude to Shivam (even for his fault), Anandi will not like it. (Every parents want to keep their child in check, but the same parents will object if 'others' start keeping their child in check)
Similarly, if Jagya tries to be lenient with Shivam (because technically he can't afford to get angry), then his own son is getting affected. Due to this even his wife is getting affected.
What should anyone do in Jagya's place? Should he just ignore Shivam and Anandi, yet when they are all living in the same house?
Shivam is not Jagya's son and that's why Jagya has keep in limits, which is what he is doing.
Everybody needs space. Doesn't Anandi need one, and shouldn't Shivam get one? Then why doesn't Anandi move out? Why can't she realise that she is the cause of suffocation that J and his family are going through.
It appears that Anandi is helpless because daddu asked her to move back to BH, but in real sense JaGan are helpless because they can't draw away Anandi, and are finding it hard to maintain a family based relationship with her as well
Anandi may have showed concern initially regarding JaGan, but what was J supposed to say when she asked him ' will this affect you and G?'
Totally agree
why people are blaming Jagya ? What he can do ?Its actually he who landed into a bad situation and it is taking to his son ending up misunderstanding him His son is getting affected and his wife is also . and wait Anandi's kid will get hurt even more now when she will realize what abhi is going through and i am sure then she will try to leave but in all these 11 years how much shivam has grown fond of Jagya i could see in these 5 episodes Won't it hurt him now to leave the place ?
i wonder why Anandi never thought she is bringing her kid into a house where there is a couple staying The kids have their father Won't shivam feel his loss more when he has lost his father even before his birth and where she is taking him there is two kids living a blissful life with their father with them?
What she expected from Jagya when she was questioning him my stay won't affect you and Ganga and i want to move out because of that ?He and Ganga does not consider this within their rights to ask her to leave because she comes there with her relationship equation with Dadisaa Why she could not go to Dadisaa straight away and convince her Why to drag Jagya and Ganga in it Just say i want to give my child upbringing in the house where their father lived i will keep in touch with you guys if i ever needed help Simple. If one day Dadisaa wont listen other day she will but she did a few minutes drama in front of Jagya and made JaGan guilty as if they are reason she cannot stay in her sasural cum maika and one day tried in front of Dadisaa and thats it? Done and she is staying in BH
She cannot see her son is growing more and more closer to Jagya and calls kakusaa even if he wants to eat ice cream not ask his mother who is sitting all free in home but he will call Kakusaa who is busy in office because he has started seeing him as a fatherly figure and asks things from him just like kids do from their fathers and surprisingly she is ok with that Not for onc she said to shivam wait don't disturb him i will bring ice cream for you
i feel bad for shivam as well how he will feel when reality will struck him he is suppose to keep some limits or will have to leave the house as i saw him waiting excitedly when Jagya will apply color to him Just look at his expressions He was all excitedly waiting and was so happy and giggling when he did after applying to his kids
How one can fault Jagya in this ? Is he wrong to give affection to shivam ? A kid who have not been lucky enough to get his father's love but on daily basis sees other children getting their father's love living under same roof with him ? Can Jagya really push away this kid ? No Any kind hearted person will do what Jagya is doing with shivam i will do
His son has a tiff with shivam In that Jagya cannot scold shivam because that will make Anandi and Shivam feel bad He cannot push away shivam from him because that will shivam feel bad and that is making his own son feel bad and even his wife as they think in his sympathy for shivam he is ignoring abhi which he is not but a misunderstanding has come
Just like you said why Anandi cannot see this suffocation Jagya and his family is going through ? what she expects from JaGan to continue like this Why she thinks its ok from her son to keep increasing his expectations from Jagya Does she want Jagya to keep doing duties for her son ? People in support of Anandi are saying why Jagya is doing this but one cannot see what he can do ? Wont same people be calling him rude , mean , cruel heart less person if he starts to ignore shivam , scolds him and the kid gets hurt? Yes they will be Jagya cannot kick shivam out Jagya cannot kick Anandi out but yes Anandi sensing the suffocation her and her kid's presence is causing in BH can move out but she is perfectly fine and ignorant to this despite everything is so clear in front of her
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