Is anandi failing Shivam too?

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

On one hand ppl want to see Anandi and Shivam missing Shiv forever and feel his absence and on the other hand people have problem if Shivam says Abhi is lucky to have a father.

If Shivam is thinking that Abhi is lucky to have a father like J what does that tell?

Obviously he misses not having a father and he doesn't look at J as a replacement for father figure.

J had only taken the place of Anop/Alok and Mahi's place and Shiv's place is vacant

How does Shiv's place become vacant? Obviously because his mother had made sure that his father's place remains his father's place and not anyone else will take that place.

With Amol it is easy because he knows his father.Shivam never seen his father and yet has not given that place not to anyone else.

Obviously the incompleteness is because neither Anandi or Shivam didn't let anyone other than Shiv in their family.

WHEN THE CVS HAVEN'T EVEN STARTED ANANDI'S AND SHIVAM'S STORY POST LEAP HOW ARE PEOPLE ASSUMING THAT SHE HAS NOT TOLD HIM ABOUT HIS FATHER????

Coping with the loss is not about spending the rest of your life remembering them and drowning in memories and crying it is about learning to live with the loss and staying faithful to those memories and person is by not giving that place to anyone else.

The major problem is that people expect Anandi to forget that she has to provide a life for her kids and make sure that they grow up into responsible well balanced adults instead they want to see her sit in front of Shiv's picture and cry buckets of tears.Because that's the only way they can be assuered that Anandi is loyal to Shiv and his memories.

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-poloenigma-

@-poloenigma-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

Who expects her to cry for Shiv? I never knew that remembering someone is equal to crying...

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rohini55

@rohini55

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

I find it difficult to believe that Anandi could not return to Udaipur after regaining her composure. By staying on in BH look at the harm she is causing herself and her child.

Where is Shiv in all this? Why does she never talk to Shivam about the valour and sacrifice of his father? This is a direct result of her staying in BH where Jagya is filling in on the space left behind by Shiv. I'm not blaming J but thanks to the circumstances he is finding himself having to play foster parent to Shivam. This is unfair on Shivam, his own kid and the memory of Shiv.

Had A lived in Udaipur, Shiv would have been a presence in the background. Is it just a coincidence that Shivi who promised to be always by her side is no longer present or felt in BH? When A ver fondly put colour on J's cheeks, why did she not have a FB of her lovely holi moments with Shiv? I found the scene very jarring. And this considering the hours and days she spent in J's memory post divorce and right up to her marriage with Shiv.

Can we even believe that Shiv was the man she loved more than her life?

As for the argument that she was bound by Daddu's diktat to stay in BH, I'm sure he would have understood if she explained that she and Shivam needed their space. And what has she achieved by staying in BH. It is not as if MLA j and Ds were able to find Nandini. They have been pretty useless in this respect in fact. What stopped MLA and police from sending out sketches of Akhira
to all the districts? Akhira with his height is so distinctive. He would have stuck out wherever he went.

Finally if she could break her promise to Shiv to keep hhis family united and be both parents to their kids, ( surely he couldn't envisaged a situation where A will be separated from the family and J will be a male. Guardian of their child), and not even tell herself once that she broke the promise, why couldn't she break the promise she made to daddu to stay in Bh?

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

And where Jagya is trying to take shivam's father place in his life as people are saying shivam has not given his father's place to anyone ? No one is taking that either . Jagya is only been kind to shivam What he can do ? in front of him is a fatherless kid who definitely feels his loss when he see a father in front of him loving his children so Jagya has started to give a bit of his affection to shivam not that he is trying to take his father's place

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 10 years ago

#75

It is not as if MLA j and Ds were able to find Nandini. They have been pretty useless in this respect in fact. What stopped MLA and police from sending out sketches of Akhira
to all the districts? Akhira with his height is so distinctive. He would have stuck out wherever he went.

/QUOTE]this is a blunder from cvs to show Nandini's story otherwise in reality do you think it is possible ? In 11 years an MLA , Udaipur's collector , the commissioner have used all their power to search for Akhiraj Singh and his family yet failed ?

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Cherry

@chirpy_life19

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Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Stalwart.

@ Bold very nice. but no hopes...who knows? Anandi might marry them off to rescued balika vadhus living in Shiv Nikethan.

Else CVs will show Amol and Shivam falling in love with once upon a time child brides...previously we have seen na?

Already Pooja is ready for Mannu. Recently Anandi rescued a child bride who was being married to an old man.

Till now all ideal women they showed us in this serial were village folk. Almost all the city girls in BV turned out to be selfish, spoilt, mannerless etc. Atleast in future I wish to see a smart, decent & educated city girl.

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-poloenigma-

@-poloenigma-

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#77

@rohini : Couldn't have put it in a better way...If she could break her promise to her DYING HUSBAND, why couldn't she take a firm stand infront of Daddu? Shiv's last wish has been made into a living joke...feel sorry for Shiv.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: SPuja

When did anandi was praised unanimously? She was criticised more than was or is praised.
When we praise a character, we indirectly praise the creatives.
We also first blame the characters and then start blaming the creatives.
In the first case, creatives dont get mentioned and in the second case they get mentioned because they start butchering the characters and situations. They made anandi to go to BH due to pressure which they could have avoided and the character could have stayed in Udaipur. They made anandi take a sick child to the scene of action instead of dropping the child at home by introducing pressure situation.
CVs will definitely be blamed when we dont like the story taking a direction which is not palatable to us. We know characters are puppets either way. Good things we take for granted and bad things we dont. We start blaming fate or something else. That is human nature.
I will blame the CVs for making anandi not becoming a working woman, for taking bad decisions and I will praise anandi if she shows some spark. I will not praise the creatives.
One cannot apply the same rule for everything. That is taking the extreme argument.
It is like saying that if one kills a goat for food, that person should be killed to provide food for the tiger. This is a just argument but not practical.

Though I say it is CVs fault, ultimately I endup being harsh on the character, if you had noticed.
It is like saying without prejudice.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago

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Stalwart.

@Stalwart.

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: Cool-n-Fresh

Till now all ideal women they showed us in this serial were village folk. Almost all the city girls in BV turned out to be selfish, spoilt, mannerless etc. Atleast in future I wish to see a smart, decent & educated city girl.

Be it village or city women with good sense are always preferable. Being sensible is absolutely necessary. No need to fake greatness.

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Stephi

@Stephi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#80

Anandi has always done what she wanted to do.

She refused to go home with her parents after Jagya left her.
She refused to divorce.
She refused Ira's request to choose between her ex sasural and them
She refused to do a pag phere because Jagya wasn't in BH (I wonder why)
She wanted to adopt a child even though her family wanted the biological grand child first
She wanted to sit in Jagya 's room during his amnesia and pretends to be his wife although Bairon was against it, plus she was engaged
She wanted to dragg Jagya home although Bairon said that they should give him a little space and time on his own
Singhs wanted to give the inheritance to their son (no matter why) she tore the papers
She took her sick daughter in a dangerous action even though Ira said to bring the child home
She refused to go with Shekars in Singapore and the list goes on...

She easily forgot the last wish of her husband to be strong, to take care of his family and to be a mother and father to their children.
The only thing she said to Jagya was to help her not to live in BH because she do not want to cause any problem between him and Ganga. Instead of that why she didn't ask Jagya to help her not to live in BH because she wants her sons to grow up in the house of their late father, which rightly belongs to them and that she also wants to take her life into her own hands without depending on anyone. She's not homeless, not financially dependent. She did not think about a better future for her children, better education, better life for them nor about Shiv's last wish.. Her only concern was that she could be the cause of Jagya and Ganga problems. She didn't even think that her children may feel as refugees.despite having their own home. Her real father was again forgotten. The creatives or not, that's what we 're watching. Or it seems that some people think poor Anandi would do things properly but evil creatives wont allow her unlike other characters who do exclusively what they want to do.

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