I'm confused, why is what Akshara doing bad? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Noorain13

And why wouldn’t someone marry Nav exactly?

Someone like AK background wouldn't. And there are multiple reasons. Most importantly because in real life no one will stay with a stranger man rather than her friend or family and like I said earlier grief k wajah se pareshani me Ghar chhod bhi Diya toh ek do weeks me they come back or at least will ask someone from the family to help and not be a burden to a stranger that too during a complicated pregnancy. Her decisions don't make sense.

In the Pakistani drama also Meerab came back after 2 years and she didn't marry the guy who helped her rather made him her brother. Which is still logical.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Akshara did not go through the same pain as Abhi. Period. Her son did not call her Jam waali aunty after she lost custody for ONE WEEK. In the one week, she met him every single day minus the actual day she was supposed to meet him, which is over the weekend. She pulled a stunt on Monday that led to the visitation rights getting cancelled and she was going through fever/abhir running away drama for the next two days. We are again in weekend now before which Abhir has told he doesn’t wanna live with his docman/dada and prefers his mom and stepdad. So no, Akshara and Abhinav did not go through the same pain as Abhimanyu. Trying to pacify him on that basis will not work…! Abhi has time and again proved that he needs space to grieve losses. Giving him the space is important as not everyone processes loss the same way. Crowding him with unwanted obligations and crying foul when things don’t go Akshara’s way has been happening for a while now.

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They should take it as a dialogue😆

Also, she needs to understand that Abhir is not accepting his father as father is because of her. So she definitely can't reduce his pain.

She gave him this pain. The only person who used to get him she took him away as well and then rest is history. She is not even remotely sorry infact she is still blaming him that his crying ways are wrong.

Why suddenly is she so worried about Abhir- Abhi relationship when she never made any efforts ever.

She could have done a lot of things differently but she didn't so this lecture of hers doesn't make sense but only shouts Hypocrisy

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Originally posted by: Needhi.A

Someone like AK background wouldn't. And there are multiple reasons. Most importantly because in real life no one will stay with a stranger man rather than her friend or family and like I said earlier grief k wajah se pareshani me Ghar chhod bhi Diya toh ek do weeks me they come back or at least will ask someone from the family to help and not be a burden to a stranger that too during a complicated pregnancy. Her decisions don't make sense.

In the Pakistani drama also Meerab came back after 2 years and she didn't marry the guy who helped her rather made him her brother. Which is still logical.

When you meet people for the first time, they’ll always be strangers. And if you watched the episodes, she was with her friend and was excited when BP came but overheard him and decided not to go back. She married the stranger after 7 months of knowing him so he was definitely no longer a stranger. In regards to background, I’ve seen a lot of successful marriages between people from different classes and backgrounds.

I’m not sure why Akshara is questioned in regards to her decision of marrying Abhinav especially when it comes to his background. If he was another doctor or son of a rich man, it’d be fine? Akshara has been the happiest she’s ever been after making the best decision of her life and that’s what the writer of the show wants us to see but we’re over here questioning and assuming stuff that’s not being shown.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

When you meet people for the first time, they’ll always be strangers. And if you watched the episodes, she was with her friend and was excited when BP came but overheard him and decided not to go back. She married the stranger after 7 months of knowing him so he was definitely no longer a stranger. In regards to background, I’ve seen a lot of successful marriages between people from different classes and backgrounds.

I’m not sure why Akshara is questioned in regards to her decision of marrying Abhinav especially when it comes to his background. If he was another doctor or son of a rich man, it’d be fine? Akshara has been the happiest she’s ever been after making the best decision of her life and that’s what the writer of the show wants us to see but we’re over here questioning and assuming stuff that’s not being shown.

It's not her decision to marry him it's her decision to change Abhir's father that is being criticised. It's okay to marry and move on it's okay to do so even if you have kids but you need stick to the truth and not make your child's life a lie! She could have told Abhir the truth he might have still chosen Nav but he should've known and also Abhi!

And logically shaadi 7 mahine nhi 4 mahine baad baad ki because she was 3 months pregnant and Abhir was born in 7th month.

And her staying with Nav in the first place was absurd. I mean which self respecting woman will become a bojh with a child in her womb on a stranger. It's not about class it's about logic.

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

It's not her decision to marry him it's her decision to change Abhir's father that is being criticised. It's okay to marry and move on it's okay to do so even if you have kids but you need stick to the truth and not make your child's life a lie! She could have told Abhir the truth he might have still chosen Nav but he should've known and also Abhi!

And logically shaadi 7 mahine nhi 4 mahine baad baad ki because she was 3 months pregnant and Abhir was born in 7th month.

And her staying with Nav in the first place was absurd. I mean which self respecting woman will become a bojh with a child in her womb on a stranger. It's not about class it's about logic.

We were not shown those 6 yrs no..

May be she would have told 6 months old abhir that his father is abhim? She's not a liar then.

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

It's not her decision to marry him it's her decision to change Abhir's father that is being criticised. It's okay to marry and move on it's okay to do so even if you have kids but you need stick to the truth and not make your child's life a lie! She could have told Abhir the truth he might have still chosen Nav but he should've known and also Abhi!

And logically shaadi 7 mahine nhi 4 mahine baad baad ki because she was 3 months pregnant and Abhir was born in 7th month.

And her staying with Nav in the first place was absurd. I mean which self respecting woman will become a bojh with a child in her womb on a stranger. It's not about class it's about logic.

Your previous post was criticizing her decision to marry Abhinav so that’s why my answer was based on that. Again, it doesn’t matter when it was but after living with him, he wasn’t a stranger.

Also regarding her not telling Abhi, she called him and tried to talk to him but he was not ready to listen. I never said Abhi should’ve never known that his child was alive. As a father, it’s his right to know that but it was shown that she tried to contact by the makers so we shouldn’t assume she could’ve emailed, texted all that kind of stuff. Then after that she was so happy in her life yet was afraid that Abhimanyu will come take her son from her one day and her fears came true when he did. Again, this is what makers were trying to show. If they wanted to show Akshara’s decision of getting married to Abhinav wrong, they would have made him a horrible person no? They have shown Akshara to be grateful for her family all along. If they didn’t want that, they would have shown her miserable no? They would have shown her still loving Abhi and being jealous of his marriage with Arohi no? The didn’t even show her cheating and belong disloyal to her husband with Abhimanyu because they didn’t want to.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Your previous post was criticizing her decision to marry Abhinav so that’s why my answer was based on that. Again, it doesn’t matter when it was but after living with him, he wasn’t a stranger.

Also regarding her not telling Abhi, she called him and tried to talk to him but he was not ready to listen. I never said Abhi should’ve never known that his child was alive. As a father, it’s his right to know that but it was shown that she tried to contact by the makers so we shouldn’t assume she could’ve emailed, texted all that kind of stuff. Then after that she was so happy in her life yet was afraid that Abhimanyu will come take her son from her one day and her fears came true when he did. Again, this is what makers were trying to show. If they wanted to show Akshara’s decision of getting married to Abhinav wrong, they would have made him a horrible person no? They have shown Akshara to be grateful for her family all along. If they didn’t want that, they would have shown her miserable no? They would have shown her still loving Abhi and being jealous of his marriage with Arohi no? The didn’t even show her cheating and belong disloyal to her husband with Abhimanyu because they didn’t want to.

So now we are talking about what they have shown but this argument started with logic and what happens in reality. In reality it would have become a crime patrol episode! Good for her that she's happy! Bas! It's her best decision to marry Nav! Everyone should do that! Thank you for opening my eyes to this greatness!

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

It's not her decision to marry him it's her decision to change Abhir's father that is being criticised. It's okay to marry and move on it's okay to do so even if you have kids but you need stick to the truth and not make your child's life a lie! She could have told Abhir the truth he might have still chosen Nav but he should've known and also Abhi!

And logically shaadi 7 mahine nhi 4 mahine baad baad ki because she was 3 months pregnant and Abhir was born in 7th month.

And her staying with Nav in the first place was absurd. I mean which self respecting woman will become a bojh with a child in her womb on a stranger. It's not about class it's about logic.

Also, means galati BP ki hai. As clearly AbhiM said ap jaake lekar aayeye. He didn't said the things BP was telling her friend. LoL even her friend didn't even asked for any details he just said it on the go.

And when he came back he lied to AbhiM stating they met Akshara and she is happy, she doesn't want to come back to him. Hence, he decided to focus on his mother (which i don't find mummy k wjh se kuch hua any guy or girl after loosing a sibling and watching how their mother is not well will take care of their parents)

As per Akshara and audience this narrative that he choose his mother over her is wrong. Who wouldn't.

Overall this is BPs doing and it's never going to come out now and BP and goenkas are going to behave as if everything is Birla's fault.

When in reality their one daughter married for power and money and due to other things has always gone wrong in the family.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Also, means galati BP ki hai. As clearly AbhiM said ap jaake lekar aayeye. He didn't said the things BP was telling her friend. LoL even her friend didn't even asked for any details he just said it on the go.

And when he came back he lied to AbhiM stating they met Akshara and she is happy, she doesn't want to come back to him. Hence, he decided to focus on his mother (which i don't find mummy k wjh se kuch hua any guy or girl after loosing a sibling and watching how their mother is not well will take care of their parents)

As per Akshara and audience this narrative that he choose his mother over her is wrong. Who wouldn't.

Overall this is BPs doing and it's never going to come out now and BP and goenkas are going to behave as if everything is Birla's fault.

When in reality their one daughter married for power and money and due to other things has always gone wrong in the family.

Exactly! And the whole situation is such a sham!