I'm confused, why is what Akshara doing bad? - Page 4

After everything AK has done and all the flipping she has been doing one day saying he is a bad father next day he is good. With the amount of lies she has told to every one including AB just so she could hide the fact that Abhir is his son how can one say she was not lieing she she said her marriage to him was umerkhaid just to hurt him. Just cause she said it doesn’t mean it’s true she has being lying about everything. She just wants to hurt him any which way and she is continuing to do it. She will say just about anything for that. She lied about her happy family in kausauli for 6 years when there was nothing between her and Nav but a contract marriage at that time. To believe that she meant her marriage was umarkhaid and justify her action just cause of it doesn’t seem to make sense when one can’t be sure if she was lying or not.

Originally posted by: leafy2022

roaming around with legal documents like divorce papers, custody papers and charges for murder is what Birlas do.

Originally posted by: Fatima_Khan

Sorry, I might get some hate for asking this but I'm genuinely curious. She sees somebody going through the same pain as her and is trying to make it better.

When Akshara was going through this pain, she would have killed for someone to arrange an outing where everyone can be together a bit longer. She was not allowed even small moments of meeting Abhir with Manjari. She also had to endure Abhir's hate for the stupid stunt she pulled with him. I think she is doing what anyone who is empathetic would do, is to try to help Abhi see his son still loves him and not rip the banaid off so suddenly by doing an outing. She also wouldn't stop Abhi from seeing his son as much as possible. I just don't understand how the outing is like rubbing salt in his wounds.s

DT Note: Personal/fandom remarks edited

It’s not wrong at all, but the collective here hate Akshara. She has made many mistakes, but right now trying to soothe Abhimanyu’s rejection from Abhir is not one of them in my opinion. Anyway we are getting a set up now of a warmer relation between the two to prepare us for the future track, which will finally reunite Abhimanyu and Akshara. You are so right that she is doing what wasn’t done for her. She could have totally cut him off like Manjari cut her off, but she isn’t doing that.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Definitely! Everyone had the right to move on with another man but Abhimanyu is not just “another man”. For her, her relationship with his EX man was “umarkaid “ for her , after feeling it umarkaid, she will fall in love with that man again ! Wowww 😂

ANOTHER MAN ke sath fir se pyar hota toh itna senseless nahi lagta jitna ki “umarkaid “ wale man se fir se pyar and intense romance karegi tab lagega! Fiction lead character ki dhajjiya udegi jab another man ke badle fir se ex man se pyar karegi.

Rajan shahi pata nahi itne desperate kyon hai jo Akshara ke widow banne tak bhi wait nahi kiya and Akshara ko umarkaid mai he wapas pyar ho jayega yeh announcement kar diya.

I’m sure Abhir will be the biggest reason for her going back to him thinking no other man would love Abhir like his own father will. Everyone around her will start saying that too lol but I can already imagine Abhimanyu saying I want you to come back for me and not for the sake of our son 😂. Ab sab men Nav ki tarah father ji to nahi ban sakte na. He will always be one of a kind.

FOR ONE WEEK. Two days was spent in bad decisions on goenkas and Abhinav part for taking her back to Kasauli when clearly Abhimanyu was just happy to bring over Abhir. One day was spent in back and forth drama and they found Abhir the same evening. She did not see her son for 3 days. Abhimanyu did not know he had a son for 6 years.

Originally posted by: LoLo

It’s not wrong at all, but the collective here hate Akshara. She has made many mistakes, but right now trying to soothe Abhimanyu’s rejection from Abhir is not one of them in my opinion. Anyway we are getting a set up now of a warmer relation between the two to prepare us for the future track, which will finally reunite Abhimanyu and Akshara. You are so right that she is doing what wasn’t done for her. She could have totally cut him off like Manjari cut her off, but she isn’t doing that.

There is a genuine reason for the hate she has gotten since the leap. I used to like Ak and def have written several posts defending her, even when she was illogical and made mistakes in the past. After the leap, I was really rooting for her to defend herself and her decision, to bash Abhi for not coming after her and everything. But.......temple confrontation changed everything. Slowly she is the one who rewrote the narrative. She declared a relationship that she repeatedly chose, as umarkaid. She broke Abhi down, not just to show him how he had hurt her, but she basically removed all of his self worth.

Fine. That might have been necessary to remove him from his delusions. I will agree to that. But then, why not tell him about the kid? Her decisions to keep Abhi away from Abhir, to act like Abhi is the worst person, and that she was forced into a relationship and forced into having a kid with him? That's the issue.

The issue is that she broke Abhi down repeatedly, called him a bad father, and finally only rested when he himself accepted it. His position right now is not the same as hers in any situation. No one has called her a bad mother; no one has ever said she doesn't deserve to be a mother.

The problem isn't that Abhir chose his parents - cause of course he did. The problem is that Ak didn't let Abhi bond with his son at all. Even after Abhi got custody, her entire focus was on breaking him so that he will give Abhir back. This is emotional manipulation of the worst kind. She made him believe he is not worthy of her or of her son.

Abhi isn't just sad cause he misses his son (like Ak was); he is sad because he has lost in life. He is sad because he feels unworthy of even living - because of Ak. How does she expect to resolve this? How is making him spend time with his son when he is going through an emotional breakdown going to help anyone?

Akshara ka koi barosa nahi. U all trust her too much 🤣 she has a clear track record of easily starting jaap to the first person who helps her or she feels indebted to or to whoever keeps bringing out their insecurities to her repeatedly. She becomes mahaan murthi and does their jaap loyally!

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I’m sure Abhir will be the biggest reason for her going back to him thinking no other man would love Abhir like his own father will. Everyone around her will start saying that too lol but I can already imagine Abhimanyu saying I want you to come back for me and not for the sake of our son 😂. Ab sab men Nav ki tarah father ji to nahi ban sakte na. He will always be one of a kind.

I am doubtful. Seeing that stupid " I understood the meaning of love speech" I think Abhi will accept Ak back however she wants to come back and won't have any expectations from her.

The only way ABhi can be saved is if Arohi and Ruhi put a stop to it and tell him he deserves more than to be someone's second choice. I really hope that happens, this guy needs someone to be on his team and support him too.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

There is a genuine reason for the hate she has gotten since the leap. I used to like Ak and def have written several posts defending her, even when she was illogical and made mistakes in the past. After the leap, I was really rooting for her to defend herself and her decision, to bash Abhi for not coming after her and everything. But.......temple confrontation changed everything. Slowly she is the one who rewrote the narrative. She declared a relationship that she repeatedly chose, as umarkaid. She broke Abhi down, not just to show him how he had hurt her, but she basically removed all of his self worth.

Fine. That might have been necessary to remove him from his delusions. I will agree to that. But then, why not tell him about the kid? Her decisions to keep Abhi away from Abhir, to act like Abhi is the worst person, and that she was forced into a relationship and forced into having a kid with him? That's the issue.

The issue is that she broke Abhi down repeatedly, called him a bad father, and finally only rested when he himself accepted it. His position right now is not the same as hers in any situation. No one has called her a bad mother; no one has ever said she doesn't deserve to be a mother.

The problem isn't that Abhir chose his parents - cause of course he did. The problem is that Ak didn't let Abhi bond with his son at all. Even after Abhi got custody, her entire focus was on breaking him so that he will give Abhir back. This is emotional manipulation of the worst kind. She made him believe he is not worthy of her or of her son.

Abhi isn't just sad cause he misses his son (like Ak was); he is sad because he has lost in life. He is sad because he feels unworthy of even living - because of Ak. How does she expect to resolve this? How is making him spend time with his son when he is going through an emotional breakdown going to help anyone?

So ? So what if she said it was umarqaid? Abhim said worse things to her on wd , why was he running behind her later on?

So what if she said abhir won't call him father ? Now she's trying to make amends and even for that she's bashed .

She was bashed for not saying / feeling sorry , now she said it explicitly and admitted her mistake , she is being bashed for saying sorry .

She was bashed for not making abhir a part of abhims life, now also she is bashed.

Saying that she is taking revenge and rubbing salt on his wounds is baseless and illogical.

Initially she didn't want to be around abhimanyus space. Where is the revenge ? If she wanted revenge she would be in goenka house and file a custody +, dv case.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I’m sure Abhir will be the biggest reason for her going back to him thinking no other man would love Abhir like his own father will. Everyone around her will start saying that too lol but I can already imagine Abhimanyu saying I want you to come back for me and not for the sake of our son 😂. Ab sab men Nav ki tarah father ji to nahi ban sakte na. He will always be one of a kind.

@bold1 This itself shows how messed up Akshara is. That she is going around marrying men only so that her son can have a father. Abhir, who was told everyday that Abhinav was his father ji, will now be told that Abhimanyu is his real father, so he needs to accept him and forget Abhinav. Do everything to introduce identity crisis in your son’s life, and then do everything to try and reverse it. Akshara does only what is convenient for her, baaki sab bhaad mein jaaye.

@bold2 What is wrong with this? I really don’t understand how hard it is for people to accept that two people need to marry each other only if they truly love eachother. Not because they only want to give their child a father/mother. That is the most ridiculous reason to marry someone, even if it is your son’s father.