I'm confused, why is what Akshara doing bad? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

So now we are talking about what they have shown but this argument started with logic and what happens in reality. In reality it would have become a crime patrol episode! Good for her that she's happy! Bas! It's her best decision to marry Nav! Everyone should do that! Thank you for opening my eyes to this greatness!

No worries, you’re welcome!

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

.hit and run, hide some one who is criminal in the eyes of law, forge passport and bc, hide important info, abuse on duty doctors and take law in hands

And all deeds goenka's have done in s2 is what goenka's do.

Which is much better than divorcing and blaming some one for murder.

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

behen you said nobody will go back to abhimanyu in real life, uska reply kisi ne Diya nobody will marry acha admi in REAL life.

Fiction hai kuch bhi ho sakta hai, but aapne real life example Diya tha.In real life a woman won't return to a guy like Dr. Birla likewise, no woman will marry a random stranger that too who is walthy af.

Can you Imagine some one like Isha Ambani marrying her uber driver?

And no one wants to talk to you in the tone you’re talking in.

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

It's not her decision to marry him it's her decision to change Abhir's father that is being criticised. It's okay to marry and move on it's okay to do so even if you have kids but you need stick to the truth and not make your child's life a lie! She could have told Abhir the truth he might have still chosen Nav but he should've known and also Abhi!

And logically shaadi 7 mahine nhi 4 mahine baad baad ki because she was 3 months pregnant and Abhir was born in 7th month.

And her staying with Nav in the first place was absurd. I mean which self respecting woman will become a bojh with a child in her womb on a stranger. It's not about class it's about logic.

Agree with all your viewpoints...per my opinion..she didn't differentiate between two relations Abhi as husband and Abhi as father..her anger as a wife may be justifiable and she was chose a stranger..it is still arguable...but she changed father on legal document ..max she could have left father's name blank..I know real people who don't use last name..to change it was lie...she used Abhir as a tool for her anger towards Abhi...what she did was so twisted and complicated..that if this was a really deep and well made show..they could show an entire season of its consequences on everyone involved..lying about father was ethically wrong at all levels...she just took a decision on base of Abhir..and if u talk about being happy..she dreaded that day Abhi will come to know about Abhir and kept preparing for it with law studies...still she didn't prepare Abhir or Abhinav that this day might come when everyone gets to know truth...what did she expect no one would ever know...and as per Akshnav as couple ..she was perfectly fine with status quo of being friends with Nav that she didn't even think of what he deserves as a couple from her...after Abhi came in picture..she ran towards him...her love was exposed and everyone forced her to move on...Abhinav starting talking of leaving that she tried to or forced herself to move on for him..twisted at every level dont u think...pardon my facts as I missed some scenes in between..but this is what I understood happened from what I watched

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

Agree with all your viewpoints...per my opinion..she didn't differentiate between two relations Abhi as husband and Abhi as father..her anger as a wife may be justifiable and she was chose a stranger..it is still arguable...but she changed father on legal document ..max she could have left father's name blank..I know real people who don't use last name..to change it was lie...she used Abhir as a tool for her anger towards Abhi...what she did was so twisted and complicated..that if this was a really deep and well made show..they could show an entire season of its consequences on everyone involved..lying about father was ethically wrong at all levels...she just took a decision on base of Abhir..and if u talk about being happy..she dreaded that day Abhi will come to know about Abhir and kept preparing for it with law studies...still she didn't prepare Abhir or Abhinav that this day might come when everyone gets to know truth...what did she expect no one would ever know...and as per Akshnav as couple ..she was perfectly fine with status quo of being friends with Nav that she didn't even think of what he deserves as a couple from her...after Abhi came in picture..she ran towards him...her love was exposed and everyone forced her to move on...Abhinav starting talking of leaving that she tried to or forced herself to move on for him..twisted at every level dont u think...pardon my facts as I missed some scenes in between..but this is what I understood happened from what I watched

I agree with evey word you said

Honestly I never connect to one dimensional characters like Nav. I find them bland. I like and relate to flawed characters they are difficult to like. But they're realistic and reasonable that's why I was with Nav initially and him being in the background but they started glorifying him via Mrs. Sharma's verbal diarrhoea I was done with him. I don't know if it's the writing, the character or the acting but Ak's confrontation scenes don't hit . Naira was really good at such scenes.

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Originally posted by: Needhi.A

I agree with evey word you said but according to some bhakts of her she is always right and Nav is God so we should all hail Nav and Ak!😂

Honestly I never connect to one dimensional characters like Nav. I find them bland. I like and relate to flawed characters they are difficult to like. But they're realistic and reasonable that's why I was with Nav initially and him being in the background but they started glorifying him via Mrs. Sharma's verbal diarrhoea I was done with him. I don't know if it's the writing, the character or the acting but Ak's confrontation scenes don't hit . Naira was really good at such scenes.

Me too🙌 I too root for flawed characters more than all good ones..I relate to Abhi more..i can understand his anger where it comes from...i don't justify his blasting in anger ..but I understand..he is true..cannot tolerate lies...no manipulation...and Harshad brings Abhi to life with his acting...he makes you feel his every emotion..you can see him trying to overcome his biggest weakness anger...Nav has been written almost one dimensional and it irks me when they called him only Acha Aadmi..he was as selfish as anyone else .he saw a chance for his own family in someone else's wife and child and took it...nothing wrong with it but if he accepted that I respect him a bit more..I never related to Aksharas character from day 1..she seemed goody two shoes initially...makes blunders..Akshara has been made too negative most leap ..they give her worst dialogues...I rooted for her initially as an angry wife who her husband sent away...but what she did with father lie I lost all respect and sympathy for her...and she has like endless hate for Abhi...no realization of anyone else's pain ..she doesn't feel sorry for her kid or Neil's loss ...no guilt nothing...no dilemmas..no.tussle between love hate anger hurt..she doesn't remember any positive moments with Abhi...she hasn't softened slowly when she saw Abhi changing..when he saved Abhir in surgery...that endless hate and being selfish to core post leap made me lose all connect..she was pained on WD but in her hate she has done a lot more damage to Abhi .

Originally posted by: Fatima_Khan

Sorry, I might get some hate for asking this but I'm genuinely curious. She sees somebody going through the same pain as her and is trying to make it better.

When Akshara was going through this pain, she would have killed for someone to arrange an outing where everyone can be together a bit longer. She was not allowed even small moments of meeting Abhir with Manjari. She also had to endure Abhir's hate for the stupid stunt she pulled with him. I think she is doing what anyone who is empathetic would do, is to try to help Abhi see his son still loves him and not rip the banaid off so suddenly by doing an outing. She also wouldn't stop Abhi from seeing his son as much as possible. I just don't understand how the outing is like rubbing salt in his wounds.s

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Sorry to say Akshara is not bad, she is the worst 😔

Just watched Kairav ka brainwashing Akshara scene, seriously she doesn’t have her own thinking capabilities and doesn’t use her brain in any situation!! When Abhi was planning birthday party she was having doubts about Abhi’s intentions.

When in first place, she went and gave bashaan to him to accepting Abhir’s love in current form and what not.

And now when he has done that, she is doubting him because others said so!!

Pathetic really!

2 paise ka khud ka brains nahin hai!!

Originally posted by: Krinya

So ? So what if she said it was umarqaid? Abhim said worse things to her on wd , why was he running behind her later on?

So what if she said abhir won't call him father ? Now she's trying to make amends and even for that she's bashed .

She was bashed for not saying / feeling sorry , now she said it explicitly and admitted her mistake , she is being bashed for saying sorry .

She was bashed for not making abhir a part of abhims life, now also she is bashed.

Saying that she is taking revenge and rubbing salt on his wounds is baseless and illogical.

Initially she didn't want to be around abhimanyus space. Where is the revenge ? If she wanted revenge she would be in goenka house and file a custody +, dv case.

Abhi def said worse things to her on white day but that doesn't change what she said and did. That doesn't change the impact of her words. Esp if her words are what she really feels instead of just things she said in anger and grief over Neil's death. The timing matters acc to me at least.

She apologized for the fact that Abhi had to give up Abhir. Not for calling him a bad father. And she didn't say Abhir won't call him a father, she said she would ensure that Abhi can never be his father because he doesn't deserve it.

Honestly it's been pretty systematic - her breaking down Abhi. Maybe the character did not have that intention, but the story has portrayed it that way. First she blamed him for being a bad husband and not caring for her etc etc. Called their whole relationship, not just that one day, whole relationship as wrong. She took away any self confidence he had. Then again on finding Abhir truth, she told him he is a bad father. Abhi has been strong and has been trying to show that he is not a bad father. Has been trying to at the least get his existence acknowledged. It's too much for anyone.

I am not saying white day wasn't bad. But it was one day under undue stress and grief. And Ak obviously got over it. She doesn't herself believe any of those things. But here she brought Abhi to the point of believing those things about himself. Now he is ready to even accept scraps of affection and pity, whatever he gets. Why? Because she told him to. Everything is because she told him to. If people say he gets brainwashed by his mom, the extent to which he gets brainwashed by Ak is way higher.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

When Abhi was planning birthday party she was having doubts about Abhi’s intentions.

But her doubts were cleared at very first chance it had... She genuinely went and thanked him yaar... What more can she do to prove she trusts his changed behavior... Plus makers are hell bent on creating MU even among audience toh kya kare...

Kairav is stupid... He blabbers alot and today he was inline with Surekha... 🤣 Which is even funnier because no one should take her seriously...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

But her doubts were cleared at very first chance it had... She genuinely went and thanked him yaar... What more can she do to prove she trusts his changed behavior... Plus makers are hell bent on creating MU even among audience toh kya kare...

Kairav is stupid... He blabbers alot and today he was inline with Surekha... 🤣 Which is even funnier because no one should take her seriously...

Sorry but it just looks like lip service thank you, when they show her thinking about the doubts.

I agree Kairav is stupid, and for that matter all of Goenkas. But my point is why doesn’t Akshara use her brain and assert/act on her view.

And today wasn’t the first time.

Bade papa started custody, she went along, after custody when visitation rights were cancelled and Abhinav and rest said go back to Kausali, she went along, and again today AbhiM literally said same words in different form that Akshara told him but she still doubts his intentions because Kairav said so. May be Kairav didn’t know about Ak-AbhiM conversation but Akshara knew and could have explained it to Kairav but no instead she deliberates on those doubts in her mind.

Even if all this is used as plot device but from story perspective it just seems that the girl can’t use her own brain. Jisne jaisa bola woh uss taraf ho gayi 🤷‍♀️