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Originally posted by: Kabhi18

First, I didn't say that you said that, however other people in the forum DID SAY that.

Second, the Manjari and Abhi relationship is far from beautiful and "pseudo-diagnosis" isn't a thing. You just made that up lmao. If you think the relationship is beautiful, you clearly lack an understanding of healthy relationships. Imagine thinking that these two are defining of mother-son relationships. That's disgusting. Seriously there's a frickin reason that enmeshed relationships between mother and son are legitimately an issue in desi communities. Because people like yourself (and the people that liked your comment) romanticize this crap. Incredible. Just wow. Smh.

Do you even have idea what romanticize means. What abhi and manjiri has, definitely it's not epitome of mother son relationship. Whatever there is between them is because of the past they have faced together. I have written somewhere else also,and I am writing even here too that abhi somewhere consider himself for the sufferings of his mom at the hands of his dad,hence is guilty towards her just as ak is for aarohi.we as an outsider know how manjiri is affecting him,but as a character he can only see one thing that apart from his mom,there is no one else who thinks about him. Ak even after knowing all the kaands of aarohi,can still stick with aarohi and that will be labled as love but abhi who is with his own mom, is considered as sick.

Idk about anything else,but if abhi and Manju relationship is toxic then ak and aarohi also had same toxic relationship. no one is milk washed in this show. So please don't compare with real life.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?!

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

So a father crying for his son is also a problem now because it is Abhimanyu. He shouldn’t and can’t even be sad. It was ok when Akshara and Abhinav cried and expressed their sadness on losing custody, but if Abhimanyu cries he is playing victim card.

Woah there you have to be careful with what you are saying. Being suicidal doesn’t equal to someone lacking maturity- just saying be careful what you state or it can taken the wrong way. The guy was drunk, meaning he is not in his sense. People do crazy things while drunk. After Akshara lost custody, she was imagining Abhir outside the court and also fell on the floor remember? Also, she was walking towards where pots were thrown and everyone around her was staring and was calling her crazy. How can people not see that makers made Abhi today a parallel to Akshara after losing custody. She also said how am I supposed to survive without Abhir despite getting weekend visitations.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

The over the top crying on the roadside and going for suicide can be attributed to his lack of maturity. He is not capable of leading a balanced life and cannot think beyond himself ( not even Ruhi ).

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

He can cry any where ! In the hospital or on the street on road tell his " the ultimate victim story"

Up to him !

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By this theory abhinav was also playing victim card, emotional manipulation, mental abuse etc etc etc when he was being insecure and even crying pouring water over himself.

Please get the defination of what is victim card playing. If he would have knowingly cried in front of abhir or ak , i would have understood but when the man itself has no idea that the abhir is gonna come,how come he can play mind games with abhir and victim card.

( I don't agree to that,the post is sarcastic over the above reply. I can understand abhinav's pain but I can understand abhi's pain too)

Originally posted by: Anu234

Then abhir is not gonna like her anymore.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

This rejection isn’t any normal rejection, this rejection is from his own son and not only that his son also said can I call you Docman instead of Dada. Did Abhi react awfully when Abhir requested that no, he agreed and smiled at him. He had a call and went outside and that’s when he broke down- he didn’t do it in front of anyone- Akshara came outside on her own.
He hasn’t displayed his pain in front of Abhir, today they came to Birla house and Abhi was drunk- he didn’t know they were coming.

But Abhimanyu chose to give Abhir himself. No one forced him nor any court orders he had to follow? I’m not saying he shouldn’t cry out his heart, he has emotions, he is a human, he loves his son and did it for his happiness but when Akshara and Abhinav break down because of Abhir, why are they made fun of? Abhir slept on his father’s chest for 7 years but his emotions are a joke. A mother went through so much to give Abhir birth and raised him but her sickness, hiccups, and wanting to see Abhir was melodramatic? I’m just confused why emotions are reserved for a few people and not everyone.

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Originally posted by: R.G.C

I don’t know if he is manipulating or not but definitely the situation is quite ironic. Manjari did not like Akshara visiting her son post winning the custody and Abhimanyu too said that because Akshara comes back again and again it is increasing Manjari’s insecurity Vs the Sharmas trying to be the ones bringing Abhir to Abhimanyu because they are aware of his pain and understand it. What I didn’t like in today’s episode though is a child getting exposed to alcoholism like that. Also, Manjari continues to be a hypocrite as always.

Now I am also intrigued to see if Abhinav dies by the hands of an alcoholic Abhimanyu? Is that why Akshara is shown blaming him of pushing and still not him shown going to jail? I mean if they think Abhinav died accidentally so it makes sense ki Goenkas kuch na kare against Abhimanyu, but if they are under the impression that he purposely pushed Abhinav they will at least file an FIR or something?🤔

Poor Abhir got so scared of his loving dida when she walked towards his mom. How can she raise a kid like that? Abhir is not used to such behavior because his father didn’t even raise his voice at his mother so poor child will have to get used to this because a fight breaks loose every other day at the Birla mansion.

I’m sure they’ll show Abhi trying to save Abhinav. There’s no way he’ll actually be responsible for his death. His proving himself innocent will pave way for the reunion and intense romance lol.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

How did he guilt trip them? He was drunk in his own house, didn’t know they were coming. In his drunk mode thought he was their imagination. Didn’t even say anything hurtful. So you can’t use a world like guilt trip- that would be done intentionally.

I’m sorry what?!😂. I don’t know if this comment is sarcastic or not. Abhi is intoxicated- how is he supposed to be composed, he is hallucinating because he is overly intoxicated. He was drunk in his house, not theirs.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Its not the responsibility of sober parents to take son away from witnessing such a scene. The intoxicated one had should be careful about remaining composed and he shouldn’t have been hallucinating.