Like always [DT Note: pg-11]

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?!

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

Abhi never replaced Neil as Ruhi's father, he was living for his family all these years taking care of them and their needs, while he was on medication to survive. He is not playing any victim card with whom will he play it? He didn't ask Sharmas to come to his house, he has no way of knowing they are near him, he has just lost his will to live, this is very common in people who are on psychotropic medication. Ak and An haven't been through 1% of what Abhi has been through these years simply because they lived the life they wanted to live with Abhi's son and erased him from his son's life. Abhi made a mistake, a blunder and he is paying for it, I wouldn't deny that but that doesn't make his pain unreal, even if it was his actions on one day which led to a pain of a lifetime, his pain is very much real.

Playing victim is Akshara and Abhinav's forte, not Abhi's.

Akshara couldn't take the defeat and the very same day landed in BH after custody with that stupid hichki connection!!! She was the one who barged into BH every day and screamed and yelled at abhi and Manju.

Abhi did none of these. He is grieving in his own way!!! He didn't ask the Sharma's to be the audience. He has dignity, he didn't even bother abhir, just kept the luggage and went away!!!

It's the Sharma's who are yet again showing up at BH to show how mahaan they are, after abhi gave up on Abhir who was rightfully his!!!

Akshara didn't even had to fight for it!!! Khairat mein mil gayi usse!!!

So spare abhi!!!

Let the man cry, Nav cried so much not that long ago, just at the possibility of not being with Ak and Abhir.

Also, Abhi is not responsible for Sharma fam's actions. He never did anything to seem mahaan or anything. He just did what he had to, whatever he thought was right at the moment. Sharma fam is obsessed with mahaanta and all. Nor is he going and asking them to come to witness his ddp.

Manjari being shown worried about Abhi is also a problem. Lol, so no one should worry about a guy who could be potentially suicidal?

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Post edited to remove portions flouting IF COC

So Abhi is not allowed to be sad that his son rejected him in front of everyone and wants him to only be his friend and Docman? Yes, Abhir has always seen him like that and Abhi knows that, but it still hurts when you get rejected. And how is Abhi playing victim card, yesterday when he went to give Abhir’s thing- he quietly left it on the doorstep so he wouldn’t disturb their happy family- it’s not his fault that Akshara and Abhinav saw him. Just like today, he didn’t know they were going to come over and even while being drunk- he didn’t say anything hurtful to them. Also, Abhi has finally accepted reality and is keeping his distance, so now he can’t even be sad?

Manjiri has always been crying since the beginning- obviously her and her son’s relationship isn’t healthy- Abhi has always been her protector since childhood when it should have been her as a mother protecting her son.

The reality is that both Akshara and Abhi went through trauma in their lives and it’s been there since childhood.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Very well said!! That is the reason I can't watch this crap anymore. This victim card thing I saw in precap and was like what the hell.. Why are you behaving like kid.. Why can't he stay happy with Aarohi and Roohi.. He always run after something he doesn't have and once he gets it doesn't even value it.

Why should he be happy only with roohi and arohi??? Abhir is his son!!! Why shouldn't he be with his son???

Then let Akshara give up on Abhir and be happy with abhinav!!! Why was she crying buckets and fell sick???

Originally posted by: ExpectoPatronu

Yeah. Helping. That is getting them help. Not taking care of them entirely though their pregnancy and a difficult delivery. And also taking care of the child. That is more than basic decency. Abhinav could apnao Abhir as his own. Where Abhimanyu couldn't do that to Ruhi even with blood connection. Abhir is to the core Abhinav's son. He is happy with his son who is not blood related to him. Nor is he pestering Akshara to have his own khoon ka bachcha.

Abhimanyu also has his daughter. Roohi, whom he raised for 6 years. Why doesn't feel the same way towards Roohi like he feels for Abhir?

Having a child doesn't mean they have to biologically yours, all that matters is the love you are able to give the child you raise.

Nobody even expects basic human decency from Dr Birla. That's why the slightest thing he did, after his son begged in front of him, is considered some mahaan act. 🤪 In reality, that's the smallest thing a father could do for his child.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?! I hope there won't be a stupid argument here saying that's because Abhimanyu loves Abhir more. 😁

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

Even today in the hospital Arohi asked if Ma,Ruhi n all other family members doesn’t matter ,but he least a cares,he only wants his blood..this is the exact reason I like Abhinav Sharma and Navbhir ,I love this spl bond they share ,this man truly n heart fully accepted Abhir as his own, he doesn’t care about blood relations. I felt a bit bad for AbM when Abhir rejected to call dadda but not anymore , remember how he ignored poor Ruhi in that family summer camp ,she felt left out and this selfish ,useless man is doing the same again. Kitna bhi white washing karne ka koshish kare can’t connect to his pain.
Ak didn’t reveal the truth and she is the reason for his pain ,so he should be mad at Ak but nah later he will shamelessly run behind her and beg her to be back into his life am sure Ma bhi aa jayegi , for once I want to see him to reject Ak and find some other girl for him but nahi hoga.
Why is Ak still calling Mj as Ma ? 🤡 Stop calling her Ma or just stay away. Why do u want to be in everyone’s good books lady!

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

All of this you have written has been addressed by so many of us since season 3 started and again after the leap. About Abhimanyu's core issues and how he never improved. It is not even about rejecting Abhimanyu as Abhir's father. It's like his tantrum throwing dramatic behaviour when he doesn't get what he wants. He still has so many reasons to live. Like his mom, like his daughter samaan Roohi. For 6 years, she was the sole reason for his living. Think about Akshara who had to give up Abhir. The only kid she has. And it's not like they said he can never meet Abhir.

I didn't know for parents who have more than one children, they just wash their hands off responsibility to the other children because one wants to live with his mom

Also, no one has any issues with a man crying. Everyone should cry. But when you cry and get your sadness out, you are supposed to become a better human being. Not to keep playing victim card and make others feel guilty. That is what Manjari does all the freaking time and also Abhimanyu.

It's like ma-beta duo has separate rules.