Abhimaniyu is so wrong for this - Page 2

Originally posted by: maneetarhi

Actually I know a real life incident like this but ended in a disaster. She is my friend and she and her husband got into a misunderstanding like this. They were so loving towards each other and when her Mil blamed her and lied to her son. He ignored his wife's pleading and went to placate his mother. My friend got heartbroken and she got into accident while returning to her home. She was not waking up at hospital and her husband was regretting those days. When she woke up she forgave him but again after a few years her mil tried to manipulate her son my friend left everyone and is staying with her father . She has a daughter but is not in talking terms to her husband. But the sad part is she also doesn't have a mother and always thought her mil like her mother. Because nobody is there to support her and guide, her in-laws are manipulating her husband. I'm not blaming abhi or akshu but reading about precap, this incident struck me.

Misunderstanding regarding what??

This attitude of Abhimanyu is really indigestible for me. For God sake you were yearning for the same girl just to hear she loves you or not and now when she is here leaving behind her everything this is what she is getting - Your this negligible attitude.😡

Her mil wanted her son to be in her control. But when he was so loving towards his wife, she said to her son tat his wife is always disrespecting her and she does not want her to go job and wants her bahu home. My friend's fil is verbally abusive towards his wife so the son is guilt tripped towards his mom. I actually once saw how she was treating my friend in presence and absence of her son. But when I met her for first time i also thought she was so soft and was happy tat my friend got a mother. But later on it was a disaster.

Daughters who lost their mothers before marriage have a harsh reality and nobody to guide them. It is really true because my mom passed away when I was small and had a hard time adjusting after marriage but my mom's friend was there for me and she became a friend to talk to.

But my friend has no one except her father and also she is an introvert and keeps to herself. I had to literally make her comfortable to speak and open up. It was the same reason her husband was very protective of her before marriage and after she went to his home, his trust and devotion towards his mother was more. My friend is so heart broken till today because she couldn't hate her husband and also cannot be with him due to self respect. Both are separated but couldn't move on in their lives.

Originally posted by: maneetarhi

Her mil wanted her son to be in her control. But when he was so loving towards his wife, she said to her son tat his wife is always disrespecting her and she does not want her to go job and wants her bahu home. My friend's fil is verbally abusive towards his wife so the son is guilt tripped towards his mom. I actually once saw how she was treating my friend in presence and absence of her son. But when I met her for first time i also thought she was so soft and was happy tat my friend got a mother. But later on it was a disaster.

Daughters who lost their mothers before marriage have a harsh reality and nobody to guide them. It is really true because my mom passed away when I was small and had a hard time adjusting after marriage but my mom's friend was there for me and she became a friend to talk to.

But my friend has no one except her father and also she is an introvert and keeps to herself. I had to literally make her comfortable to speak and open up. It was the same reason her husband was very protective of her before marriage and after she went to his home, his trust and devotion towards his mother was more. My friend is so heart broken till today because she couldn't hate her husband and also cannot be with him due to self respect. Both are separated but couldn't move on in their lives.

@bold: typical bad FIL. Poor girl- her marriage is spoiled due to a bad mother in law. Here also it does seem like abhi will follow the same route because manjari showed her true colours very soon.

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

For people defending Abhimanyu saying he did not yell and just needed time so he put on the earphones and walked away. How hard is it to tell your crying wife who is trying to talk to you that you are hurt and in shock right now and that you do not want to lose your cool so you are leaving to find your brother and you will talk to her later? Those words would have taken him less than 1 minute to say. I am not questioning his heart or his intentions and I also understand that his anger is his defense mechanism and his trauma, so please do not give me a lecture on that. But this is not how relationships work sorry to say. You cannot just refuse to hear your partner and walk out like this. Especially when she is begging you to listen to her. And Abhimanyu always does this. It is a matter. He never believes her. I am sorry but there is no excuse for this. Trying to tag a few people.

I always love abhi's character as that looked more sensible to me but not today. Its lame he should listen to her before concluding. Yes his mom is in stress but why did she hide this truth. I do not support manjari this time. First she took away harsh's responsibilities as a father. If he knew earlier that neil is his son may be he could have planned his son's future. Not saying that if harsh makes neil doctor will shine. But he would have got best education and importance like abhi if harsh knew before. Which is like she took away neil's rights.

If she would have died without revealing neil would have forever treated as anath. Even considering properties and other things which legally should go to him will be taken away. I know neil might not be interested in that but everyone are not the same what if it was some one who needed that money to build a buisness or anything. Taking away someone's right does not make any sense to me. Neil had every right to know the truth more than abhi and harsh. Let him decide how does he want to proceed in his life. Manju took all decisions for him by considering only harsh's reputation which is wrong.

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

https://twitter.com/rain_2_sun/status/1533643339081428993?s=20&t=JqnAJikvhXNGlro8NhMOJA born what are your thoughts on parth? I saw this tweet and it made me think of him in a different way. Tagging more people too.

I have always liked his nature. He is calm and doesn't get riled up by taunts

https://twitter.com/ChoudharyAntara/status/1533686682188275712?t=_1VR1AhtDqzhqCvQgnAFNQ&s=19

https://twitter.com/ChoudharyAntara/status/1533682019321798656?t=3yg67YpgdL-rdc6zL7NVDg&s=19

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

For people defending Abhimanyu saying he did not yell and just needed time so he put on the earphones and walked away. How hard is it to tell your crying wife who is trying to talk to you that you are hurt and in shock right now and that you do not want to lose your cool so you are leaving to find your brother and you will talk to her later? Those words would have taken him less than 1 minute to say. I am not questioning his heart or his intentions and I also understand that his anger is his defense mechanism and his trauma, so please do not give me a lecture on that. But this is not how relationships work sorry to say. You cannot just refuse to hear your partner and walk out like this. Especially when she is begging you to listen to her. And Abhimanyu always does this. It is a matter. He never believes her. I am sorry but there is no excuse for this. Trying to tag a few people.

I would wait for the episode to air

Originally posted by: maneetarhi

Actually I know a real life incident like this but ended in a disaster. She is my friend and she and her husband got into a misunderstanding like this. They were so loving towards each other and when her Mil blamed her and lied to her son. He ignored his wife's pleading and went to placate his mother. My friend got heartbroken and she got into accident while returning to her home. She was not waking up at hospital and her husband was regretting those days. When she woke up she forgave him but again after a few years her mil tried to manipulate her son my friend left everyone and is staying with her father . She has a daughter but is not in talking terms to her husband. But the sad part is she also doesn't have a mother and always thought her mil like her mother. Because nobody is there to support her and guide, her in-laws are manipulating her husband. I'm not blaming abhi or akshu but reading about precap, this incident struck me.

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

As far as parth is concerned, i don't support him staying at home doing nothing. Everyone needs to do something in life. He seems sweet in general but when it comes to his wife becomes typical MCP. He should support shefali in her career. His character can grow .. i like the guy's acting.

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

For people defending Abhimanyu saying he did not yell and just needed time so he put on the earphones and walked away. How hard is it to tell your crying wife who is trying to talk to you that you are hurt and in shock right now and that you do not want to lose your cool so you are leaving to find your brother and you will talk to her later? Those words would have taken him less than 1 minute to say. I am not questioning his heart or his intentions and I also understand that his anger is his defense mechanism and his trauma, so please do not give me a lecture on that. But this is not how relationships work sorry to say. You cannot just refuse to hear your partner and walk out like this. Especially when she is begging you to listen to her. And Abhimanyu always does this. It is a matter. He never believes her. I am sorry but there is no excuse for this. Trying to tag a few people.