Abhimaniyu is so wrong for this - Page 3

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly…but this is his general character I find ..where he always thinks he’s right and that he knows everything..also I find he makes decisions for akshara and Also can be quite forceful..remember even before marriage the way he pushed her into revealing her feelings… he’s too pushy. And the other day he tried to tell the doctors at the state hospital how to run their hospital…so he is arrogant and full of himself and thinks he’s always right..and even in instances when he was right…it’s just not on to interfere in other peoples businesses..you need to stick to boundaries..🤷🏻‍♀️..but he’s been written like this and Naira was written like this as well…but sadly she never handled her marital relationship well..

If i was in ak's place i would have never agreed to marry abhi right from the start only because he exerted control on akshara's life..remember how he forced her on his bike when he was having engagement with Aarohi..that itself was so intrusive and creepy.. men like that are a threat..and ak had her reasons clear in beginning that aarohi is a better match in birla family as harsh uncle likes her and birlas don't like her.. so similarly if i had a sister who wanted to marry abhimanyu i would have let her even if i had some feelings for abhimanyu because I know i can't adjust in a family jaha daily tamasha ho... Even husband who claims deep love, madly in love constantly gets annoyed with me for some reason and gets instigated by his mom..

Abhi's character has too many flaws... Always tod phod angry, aaj ka truck scene was too much

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly…but this is his general character I find ..where he always thinks he’s right and that he knows everything..also I find he makes decisions for akshara and Also can be quite forceful..remember even before marriage the way he pushed her into revealing her feelings… he’s too pushy. And the other day he tried to tell the doctors at the state hospital how to run their hospital…so he is arrogant and full of himself and thinks he’s always right..and even in instances when he was right…it’s just not on to interfere in other peoples businesses..you need to stick to boundaries..🤷🏻‍♀️..but he’s been written like this and Naira was written like this as well…but sadly she never handled her marital relationship well..

And what's so hypocritical is that abhimanyu can interfere in goenkas family matters by calling out aarohi in front of goenkas and threatening her not to hurt akshara, remember how he told in mehendi function that aarohi emotionally manipulates akshara. But when it comes to Abhimanyu's family matters akshara can't interfere... She can't even tell Neil the truth calmly but abhimanyu can say whatever he feels like to akshu's sis aarohi and even kairav..

Basically expecting wife to do pati Pooja but he can treat the in laws in whichever way he feels like...remember how he talked to bade papa too when he was not agreeing for the proposal

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i agree that was rude. Everyone are under stress akshu too. Shadi kyun kiya when you cant share your pain with your so called wife.

I always love abhi's character as that looked more sensible to me but not today. Its lame he should listen to her before concluding. Yes his mom is in stress but why did she hide this truth. I do not support manjari this time. First she took away harsh's responsibilities as a father. If he knew earlier that neil is his son may be he could have planned his son's future. Not saying that if harsh makes neil doctor will shine. But he would have got best education and importance like abhi if harsh knew before. Which is like she took away neil's rights.

If she would have died without revealing neil would have forever treated as anath. Even considering properties and other things which legally should go to him will be taken away. I know neil might not be interested in that but everyone are not the same what if it was some one who needed that money to build a buisness or anything. Taking away someone's right does not make any sense to me. Neil had every right to know the truth more than abhi and harsh. Let him decide how does he want to proceed in his life. Manju took all decisions for him by considering only harsh's reputation which is wrong.

I’ve not seen today’s episode as it’s later on in the day here but whenever I see posts like this I think of Abhi as mature enough to marry but not mature enough to deal with situations. He is either in controlling mode, angry mode or run around his mum mode, with all these behaviours being supported by his mum.

As lovely as everything else is about him that all gets overshadowed by these negative traits for me and makes me ask why would anyone want to marry him??

Originally posted by: Indira1211

well manjeri didn’t really want to adopt Neil…she said that abhimanyu insisted..and she was hoping the family would refuse..but also I suppose it hard for a woman ..a wife especially to welcome her husbands illegimate child..and that too one that was conceived after marriage, because everytime she looked at Neil she sees her husband cheating on her….Anyway I hope there is some backdrop to dr. Avni…e.g. that she was Harshs love and he knew her from before he met manjeri and that he was forced to leave her and marry manjeri.then it will be easier to accept him… because him just having an affair and then leaving the woman when she was pregnant is very hard to accept..it makes him a really horrible man,.🤔

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

yes manjari was so selfish i agree she used to visit orphanage but hiding the truth from neil and making him listen all the orphan talks was very absurd. She could have interrogated harsh koi bhi aake bolega ki main harsh ki bacche ki maa banne wali hun kya ye maan legi 🤣 has see seen harsh romancing her or was she is the one who replace avni as the land belongs to manjari's dad. It might be his condition he can only give land to one daughter only if both gets married to same family..

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

I’ve not seen today’s episode as it’s later on in the day here but whenever I see posts like this I think of Abhi as mature enough to marry but not mature enough to deal with situations. He is either in controlling mode, angry mode or run around his mum mode, with all these behaviours being supported by his mum.

As lovely as everything else is about him that all gets overshadowed by these negative traits for me and makes me ask why would anyone want to marry him??

His behavior was genuinely toxic this time..🤨🤨he needs to stop believing his mother blindly..😏