Originally posted by: OnePiece
Aani, wonderful post👏👏👏. It is always a treat to read your posts and the title is so apt😆😆Agree with the most part especially her convo with the doctor.
Hi Hema and thanks 😊
Before I update, want to let you know that I haven't seen the episode and do not intend to watch it anytime soon. My writeup is purely based on the WU. So, please to correct me if I misunderstood any part.😳
Sure and hope you see the episode, dont go by the WU 😳 sometimes things are lost in translation
As you said, the truth had to come out one day or the other and the mirror had to be shown to IshRa. I say IshRa because of the simple reason that this is something that needs to be heard by both and not just Ishita. Nevertheless, I can't digest the fact that this came through that one person from whom Ishita shouldn't have heard - Shagun. I agree that there cannot be a better person who knows what Raman is in this aspect of their life but that doesn't mean she could boast about it in front of his current wife whatever her intentions may be. There could be 2 possible outcomes of this - either Ishita would consider taking their relationship ahead all by herself or she would drown in this insult and could go back into her shell. We all know how Ishita is insecure about her womanhood and her inhibitions when it comes to intimacy. It was after many endeavours by both Raman and Ishita that she is at this stage that now she is herself willing to plunge into the territory which was considered unbreachable by her at one point of time. These words by Shagun could result in her insecurities coming to the fore again which she overcame with great efforts and backtrack her steps. I would want to look at this perspective merely due to Shagun's statement as to how Raman doesn't desire Ishita as a woman and haven't touched her over the past one and half years whereas with Shagun, he was all over her.
I understand that yes both need to be shaken here and believe that Ass will do that to Raman today. As for your words about this having an adverse effect on Ishita, I concur that could have happened too but then perhaps that too would have had the outcome necessary for them to have the talk - if Ishita had retreated into a shell, it would have been apparent on some level and Raman who has other problems at hand might have initially not noticed them BUT in the absence of their family surrounding them always and his own admission he has no one but her how could that have been prolonged, so either way it could have been a win-win, only be thankful she didnt get depressed else this already slow journey would have been slowed down even more
I see traces of this in the latter part of the episode where she says that Raman isn't interested in taking her to the party as she feels he doesn't fancy her. This stems from the hurtful words hurled at her by Shagun. Until now, she knows Raman wants her and might have never even considered all the baby talks that he does whenever he speaks about taking their relationship to the next level. But after this, what if she starts believing that Raman wants to do IT only for the sake of baby? What if she really feels that he doesn't crave for her as a woman? Wouldn't that be disastrous? Also, when it comes to ex-es there would be a sense of insecurity or uncomfortableness associated whether it is a man or a woman. So, Ishita would always be anxious around her. When such a woman is speaking to her about something which is lacking in her life, there are bound to be unforeseen consequences which could prove to be catastrophic.
I concur, that was anger talking there, she even blews some steam and stormed at that random taxi driver, which was no filler - it was to show her state of mind, how a usually calm Ishita is incredibly angry and hearing Raman always talk about babies has made her think he wants to do it for purely that one reason, so when Shagun said he used to be all over her that had to hurt, cause indirectly what Shagun said was you want a baby when your husband doesnt even touch you but when he was with me he wouldnt keep his hands off me and we didnt always do it for making babies
If it was from someone like Vandita, then the chances of Ishita backtracking would almost be nil. And I would have appreciated that. The sisters share an excellent bond and if the words were a little harsh and rude too, they would do only good. It's just that I can't make myself to hear them from Shagun and that is my only complaint.😳
Sometimes you need to hear some really crude things too Hema, and Vandu could not have been as crude as was needed, like I have said earlier to Gan and even Aru, even her focus is on baby making when she talks with Ishita and not about if Ishita even has a sex life with Raman at all, which is what was discussed yesterday
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