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Posted: 10 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: JayashreeV

Hi this is my 1st reply if I made any mistake please don't mind and I am a silent reader.

Totally agreed whatever written and I totally enjoy ur take on each and every episode and I like to read ur POV...



Hi Jayashree, welcome to the forum and thanks, hope to hear more from you 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: yakutamt

Aani...ur title to the post 😆

Like I already commented Aani superbly described episode...a much needed episode for the leads to move on in the direction for which v hv been waiitng for months...
Seriously agree too much bashing too much negativity...at times dnt even go thru the threads...
Its positive people like u gan, anku, kri tht maks me visit this forum...
Beautiful cast...daring scripts...a different serial ...wish it got its due respect
Though ur tk on episode hopefully will ease minds tht r so at unrest

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Thanks Yaku, well they were talking about Sex and while I dont have a problem with using the word, I was scared of my post being closed if I use it in the title in ten seconds of opening it so thought of this one glad its being appreciated 😃😆😆


And as for bashing, never been one to do it since I dont have the energy or time to waste my things I dont like at all or have no interest in, I would rather move on 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: rose35


Absolutely agree with you on every point.

Today I was remembering that song..khambe jaisi khadi hai...440 volt hai chuna hai mana..

Shagun for me has always been that 440 volt...avoid/ignore/stay away from her...but today that jolt by the volt was much needed for Ishita... and it was needed from Shagun and not anyone else. Much has been speculated over and over about Ishu's love for Raman. I don't know about others..but had Ishu not loved loved, she would have reacted the way she did today after getting that jolt from Shagun.
As for Raman... agree with all you have said.. so well described... hopefully he will receive the jolt at the party and then...kaboom...
They should fall in bed for their love, not for baby making...😊



thanks Rose 😊

@bold - that was the crux which no one was saying until Shagun said last night
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Posted: 10 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: -MS-

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Fair enough...then it's my bad. Sorry.
Differences of opinion aren't appreciated much, I've experienced it personally here in this forum,, . That's why the caution put me off.



No issues, glad we have cleared that and I am sorry you have had that experience in the forum but that wasnt aimed at you like I said, after all if I am not mistaken we havent ever interacted before this post so what grudge/issue could I have to hold against you?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Great write up as always, Aani!

I actually am happy they are bringing this into question. While this would've been more impactful a few months ago, I think this is bold to bring the idea of a woman's sexuality to the forefront.

I'm not a fan of Shagun being the deliverer of news, but I guess it had to be that way.

Both Ishita & Raman have fallen into a funk thanks to life & maybe this will be a good shock to get them to have sex or heck even kiss (per desi TV standards) 😆

All today's episode tells me is that these two have some things to sort out before they do it. Their messages are being tangled, but at the end of the day we as viewers know they love each other & desire each other. Let this be "mission just do it sirf ek duje ke liye" 😃



Thanks Krishy 😊


Well better late than never but yeah like you said, I am pleasantly surprised to see them address a woman' sexuality which I dont think has been done on any of the shows I have seen before so kudos to them for this

@bold - oh so bang on, they have got so involved in their family and all the problems, gazillions of them that come their way they have forgotten they need some 'we' some 'us' time as well. Even now when they are away from the family they are thinking about them - Ishita wants to unite everyone because it would make Raman happy while Raman wants to earn more to keep everyone happy - but in all of this where are they? The family has always taken them for granted and it has not only impacted their status in the family, their importance being considered only so long as Raman is the breadwinner and Ishita the problem -solver it has impacted their sex life too since they have time for everyone and everything else on earth but themselves but if they manage to find even some of it they are disturbed by cockblockers 😆


@blue - to me this is the way I suppose things are headed, Ishita already is egged on and angry and even Raman would hear something from Ass tonight from the looks of it which will finally make them collide and when that happens whats the result remains to be seen though we hope for the best
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .TIA.

Great post Aani 😛

I haven't seen the episode because everyone was so upset that I just couldn't bring myself to watch it 😕
When my mom said she found the episode nice, I told her ur she's a trp aunty now if she likes this 🤣 Which she actually isn't 😆
I loved what she had to say about the Epi and then I saw ur post which was very similar 😳 😳
I'm just glad that it's not completely butchered. Yes there are a few things which we can just ignore I guess like the zillion other things we have been ignoring 😆 😆
Thanks for the post 😳



Thanks Tia and so nice to know that someone older than me, who has more experience and is therefore more worldly wise too feels the same way I am not going on a tangent that is wrong somehow somewhere 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: nb.neha

So does that mean raman is unwilling to do "it" bcoz ishita doesn't excites him in that sense? She has submitted herself to him many times like u mentioned. Then why bring this topic of raman not being able to look at ishita from that angle?

One thing I totally dislike is Raman's impulsiveness. I guess before the party Ashok filled some poison in his mind regarding how shagun changed once she entered the world of business cum glamour -- parties. I guess it gave rise to raman's insecurities. That's why he gt angry at her for wearing that dress even when so many times he himself as told her to wear such dresses. Why does he looses his temper so easily? Why is he so impulsive?


Raman; behavior tonight cannot be commented on right now as per me because we dont know the entiretly of the situation so shall talk about this when we see things as for Raman being unwilling to do it - no thats not what I said - what I said is earlier when we saw Raman initiate anything - be it holi or the night when he wanted those papers things werent as they should have been. On holi he said he has Adi now - which is entirely irrelevant to him consummating his marriage with Ishita isnt it? Had Adi stayed with Shagun forever as it happens in the book where he is Arjun would it mean that IshRa stay as monks forever and on that night Raman seduced her to steal those papers, maybe he wanted to spend some moments with her before he hurts her so badly the next day, but that moment is tainted by the fact that it wasnt entirely desire there speaking, it had guilt muddled there along with it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#68
Aani

Lot of ppl who are tv soap veterans and don't have any connection with social media feel yesterday that ishita rants were wrong as Raman has been trying for months and it is ishita who has been running away giving excuses
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Posted: 10 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: momb24

Nice read and I agree ishita needed a jolt but what put me off was shagun giving advice to ishita because she wants her ex husband and ishita to move forward and become intimate, that to me was creepy coming from her. Why didn't ishita feel like this when shagun verbally bashed her about this before? 😕

If this reaction happened few months ago it would have been more valid but cvs made the blander of making ishra look like fools talking about babies and visiting the doctors when mature adults like them should know without any action how would they make a baby, so for me the cvs trying to show consummation happened out of passion and love to cover up their weird idea of getting intimate only because of having the baby.


I know Shagun being the messenger here is not appreciated by a lot but like I said it had to come from someone and since they were discussing sex here and not baby making they chose to do it via a woman who is unabashed about her sex life, remember she has said time and again to Ishita how Raman used to be crazy about her, she even asked Raman once how just by looking at her he gets aroused the night of the Galliyan party. Last night in essence she told Ishita what kept Raman crazy about her - it wasnt just the looks but also something else, something very vital and something thats lacking in her marriage which didnt in her's and Raman' - sex.

Also why Shagun, like I said so before, she knows Raman in a way which no one else could have apart from her and last night when Vandu asked Ishu to go see the doc, even Ishu said all this is futile unless...now she was wondering they have a non-existent sex life already then, and didnt know what to make of it, later in the same day she learns how her husband is a very sexual being and though she has seen glimpses of that side of the man to hear things which made her feels she doesnt even know he existed had to be something that had to shake her as a woman right


Like I already said everyone including Raman harps on about a baby - the destination but no one talks of the journey - the sex, which is what happened last night...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: momb24


Shagun had many times questioned ishra relationship when she was not pretending to be nice and we never got a reaction like this but now all of a sudden her words are affective. for me shagun wanting them to get intimate and motivating them towards it is creepy because it's intentional, why would shagun go to so much trouble for this.



The difference to me is then Shagun always taunted Ishita' lack of sexual appeal to Raman or her failure in arousing Raman, last night she spoke of her success regarding the same. She alluded that Raman was crazy about her always but last night in a way she said how that happened which is why perhaps this time it stung Ishita more than ever. Earlier when Shagun said those words they were heard by Ishita in those times where she wasnt herself thinking about her sexual life or the lack of it thereof. The rain dance night - Ishita didnt even think that Raman is interested in her back then or that even if he is, as she sometimes felt he has no inclination to act on the same, the next was on the night of Rinki Mihir marriage - with that disaster of Rinki' broken marriage to that guy and her sudden nuptials with Mihir, Ishita was once again not in the frame of mind to think of the lack of sexual intimacy in her own married life but last night she was - even before she went to the clinic as inferred by her scene with Vandu where she says tests and reports are pointless until and stopped and later as she was thinking about what the doctor said too.

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