Raman's guilt and Ishita's losing hope...*UPDATED*

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..
I'm sorry, I may sound different to you people. But I'm totally angry at Ishita's behaviour today. Her reaction was fine till yesterday as she was shocked after the fraud but today, she went over broad. I know she is angry with Raman of what he did. She sould be but atleast try to understand his condition also. He is also going through the same thing. Ishu is only loosing Ruhi but Raman is in a edge of loosing both his kids. He loves both and he can't simply choose one over other. She should support Raman and should try to find a solution of this problem. Both of should fight together for Ruhi's custody. Later, you can take out your anger but right now at this stage you both need eachothers support.

And apparently has lost his wife too!! He has lost the most, is hurting the most! But the cvs are busy somewhere else. The story has to have both povs! Not just Ishitas😕

And one more reason why her running away is stupidity!!

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Anjali

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: Veeann

Word, arshi.

Word!

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya
Running away is a very rash decision on Ishita's part, which is understandable coz she's very much hurt, but it brings into focus the line she said today that their is no 'us' without Ruhi. She kind of drove the nail home there. They both are devastated, heck the whole family is! But running away was no solution. It might make matters worse!

Also if Shagun wud've taken Ruhi for the weekend, where was the harm in that?? On monday when the courts opened, Raman cud've easily got a stay order on that contract, or cud've proved Shagun a fraud! She cud've shown some faith in Raman and the Bhallas!! Like they will let that woman take away their daughter! She had sent Ruhi to stay at Shagun's place during her wedding AFTER she had tried slapping Ruhi! It wasnt as if she was eating her baby! This running away, i think is only to increase the drama quotient.

But at last, Ishita is making a mistake...a big one at that...questioning their relationship!!! She'll really have to ponder on that, and work to make amends too!

Ok since we're counting mistakes in uttered words or impulsive actions in the relationship here...let me ask you how do you defend Raman's words to Ishita the day he told (during the fight about Sarika) that Ishita destroyed his life.

I defended Raman's action (going against the folks in my own thread) that day and I do her action today. I'll put forward my defense for both...but please tell me how was Raman's action justifiable that day? Since it has come down to Raman's and Ishita's love quotient..let's compare.

Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Ok since we're counting mistakes in uttered words or impulsive actions in the relationship here...let me ask you how do you defend Raman's words to Ishita the day he told (during the fight about Sarika) that Ishita destroyed his life.

I defended Raman's action (going against the folks in my own thread) that day and I do her action today. I'll put forward my defense for both...but please tell me how was Raman's action justifiable that day? Since it has come down to Raman's and Ishita's love quotient..let's compare.

Gandhari..i'm not counting anyone's mistakes. Raman has done many..i'm just saying Ishita is doing one now! If Cvs go logically it can cost her Ruhi's custody too!

I guess u have been defending Ishita against many people today, so u are doing that here too. When did I ever say the thing in bold???!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

Gandhari..i'm not counting anyone's mistakes. Raman has done many..i'm just saying Ishita is doing one now! If Cvs go logically it can cost her Ruhi's custody too!

I guess u have been defending Ishita against many people today, so u are doing that here too. When did I ever say the thing in bold???!!!

@part in red..that is about their relationship right?

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Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Instead of Ishita vs. Raman & right vs. wrong, why don't we shed light on the hurt every single character (including Shagun) is experiencing. I still haven't processed today's episode but there is sheer brilliance we saw today...

We see a mother's plight over losing her daughter.
We see a father's plight over losing both his kids and being the cause of his wife's breakdown.
We see 2 elderly parents seeing their children and grandchildrens lives falling apart.
We see Bhalla siblings seeing their brother who just recently came out of darkness plunge back into it.
We see the Iyer sisters & Bala see their sister plunge into desperation and all her insecurities ripped out in the open again.
We see an adopted brother see his sister creating havoc yet again in his father-like brother & adopted sister's life.
We see a vicous woman using her children as a pawn (one who she does have an ounce of love for) because she has been rejected twice over and left to try.
We see two young children on one side being used as pawns in a sick game and on the other side being shielded from the ugly side of a divorce.

From all the complaining we did during the Sautan Sagas...I for one am grateful the CVs are giving this beautiful and old-school YHM like story.

I haven't been this moved by a YHM track in while, and while I have trouble watching all this hurt on screen...it's beautiful at the moment.

Yes we still see some OTT stuff at times but they need that for shock and awe, and the core of the story is still very YHM-esque!

Just my two cents though! Love everyone's POV here...y'all rock! 🤗

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

@part in red..that is about their relationship right?

It is about their relationship yes but not about who loves whom more,no comparison there. A dialogue like that can have dire consequences if taken seriously. And Raman is already in a guilt ridden state. That is just what i mean.

calm down

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

and goodnite

i wasnt here to bash Ishita or fight.😒

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Hi Gan... Let me begin by saying that your collages and insights are fabulous... i am a regular "silent" reader of your thread and i love the fact that this is one place where i get to view a scene from different perspectives... i love the balance in the discussions here... something clearly lacking in the forum these days which clearly reached a new high (or should i say "low) today... hence couldn't stop myself from commenting... so bear with me...

coming to today's episode... it was a great episode... because it had the undercurrents of vintage YHM... to me YHM has always been about two very realistic and flawed characters... Raman and Ishita... they each have their beliefs, their moral compasses, their passions and obsessions... and this story has been about them accepting, changing or adapting to each others flaws...

Ishita's outburst and anger was as justified and real as Raman's pain and regret... in a span of a a few hours the main catalyst that pushed them and invariably guided them to accept and love each other was ripped apart from them and so they both hurt...

Ishita deserves a break... in the last one year she has been given the best gift possible in the form of her daughter and husband but at the same time she has been through a lot... and losing her daughter was the last straw... and so she lashed out... she lashed out at the person closest to her... who unknowingly and unintentionally is the cause for the loss of her daughter... her reaction to me was human... and her statement "Ruhi hai toh Hum hai"... i think makes perfect sense... in no way did she mean that their relationship wouldn't exist without Ruhi... what she probably meant was that the scars of losing their child would change them... as individuals, as life partners and as parents... it changed Raman once when he lost his son... and it could change them now if they lost their daughter... Ishita and Raman will not be Ishita and Raman if they lose their daughter... so the idea of them as a couple will also change...

at the same time Raman's plight brought me to tears... a man who was dreaming of a happy life with his wife and both his children is on the verge of losing everything... and the worst part is that the one person who was had become his strength in the last one year... supporting him directly or indirectly in all situations... is disintegrating right in front of him... he needs to draw strength from his wife but right now she is too broken and hurt to be his strength...

i am excited to see how these two individually face their demons to then come together and find the strength in each other... because for once they will have to do it for themselves and for each other so that they can fight for their daughter...

My heart goes out to Ruhi and Adi... children are supposed to be loved, cherished and nurtured... but these two have become victims of a situation where a father's desperation to protect his son and an opportunist mother's desperation to hold on to the last semblance of being important in the lives of others is costing them their childhood...

Sorry for the long rant but just could not stop myself today...

Edited by mujna - 10 years ago

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Anjali

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Posted: 10 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: beckysharp

I feel for Raman. He needs support too, and the person who is his biggest support has turned away from him. He is feeling lost and once again at a point where he does not know what is in store for him with regards to the woman he loves so much.

That is my worst fear...In all this wondering what Raman's future equation with regard to the woman he loves gives me the chills...He looked so lost today...the woman who stood by him whether he wanted her or not is no longer there...it was truly devastating.

But I am being positive!!! Or forcing myself to be...I want IshRa to join forced to bring down Shagun once and for all. Bas bohat hogaya woth her getting the upperhand every single time