Raman's guilt and Ishita's losing hope...*UPDATED* - Page 7

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Ishita is reacting as a mother on the verge of losing her child. It is the same for Raman. Did he not react exactly in this same manner lashing out at Ishita when Adi and Shagun moved out ? They are humans, their reactions are close to exactly how a parent behaves under untenable situations like this. Neither is right nor wrong. Ruhi defines Ishita's existence. And yes, their relationship is because of Ruhi. She is first Ruhi's mother, then she became Raman's wife !

Originally posted by: Anuhyaa

That was the irrational fear of Ishita that if Ruhi is taken away from her , every good thing that happened to her also leaves her...

that is the reason I think she lashed out on Raman...fear of loosing him,fear of loosing them...

because Ishita attributes every good thing that happened to her- Raman, family, love - to Ruhi...

Originally posted by: stylish_VJ

Bingo becky...

Those who even try to look for right and wrong in this scenario should just switch channels...because there is no right or wrong... True Raman did sign those papers but crucifying him for that is downright insensitive. I just updated my status with the same lines...Ruhi defines Ishita's existence...her second innings at life...She is the biggest truth of Ishita's life...So I don't get the whole halla behind her saying the simple truth that she is Ruhi Mom's first then Raman's wife.

Originally posted by: Veeann

This thread was our safe place. Am sad the Ishita bashing has entered into our sanctuary.

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

Running away is a very rash decision on Ishita's part, which is understandable coz she's very much hurt, but it brings into focus the line she said today that their is no 'us' without Ruhi. She kind of drove the nail home there. They both are devastated, heck the whole family is! But running away was no solution. It might make matters worse!

Also if Shagun wud've taken Ruhi for the weekend, where was the harm in that?? On monday when the courts opened, Raman cud've easily got a stay order on that contract, or cud've proved Shagun a fraud! She cud've shown some faith in Raman and the Bhallas!! Like they will let that woman take away their daughter! She had sent Ruhi to stay at Shagun's place during her wedding AFTER she had tried slapping Ruhi! It wasnt as if she was eating her baby! This running away, i think is only to increase the drama quotient.

But at last, Ishita is making a mistake...a big one at that...questioning their relationship!!! She'll really have to ponder on that, and work to make amends too!

Originally posted by: beckysharp

How exactly can Ishita react rationally under these circumstances ? She is on the verge of losing her identity. Ishita's reaction was that of a mother whose very existence is being threatened and challenged ! Raman too lashed out n the same way when he found Adi and Shagun missing from Bhalla house. Neither Raman nor Ishita are wrong. And yes, Ishita is first Ruhi's mother then she is Raman's wife. That does not mean she does not love Raman. There should be no comparison in love.

Absolutely, she is questioning the relationship, this is the most important track. Ruhi is the foundation of their marriage. To find out the fundamentals of Raman and Ishita's relationship. If Ruhi is taken out of the equation will they survive ? Or will they crumble ?