Using hatred for a child to gain sympathy - Page 5

Originally posted by: sweetzzz

If ishaan is not family to her, mauli is not too. Pari doesn't have a blood relation with either of them.

Just like Nandini is not family to Mishti.

Pari and mishti are step sisters and the only common connection is Kunal! I don't understand this step mother is my family, and her would be husband who takes care of me doesn't exist!!

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Are yaar

Mishti and Kunal have blood relationship, but he is not family to Mishti

Pari and Ishaan do not even have any connection, so he is not a family to her

Sabka apna choice hai, she loves Mauli, doesn't love Ishaan, loving Ishaan is not mandatory

Originally posted by: sweetzzz

Just because we love someone they can't be a family right!! If we consider that, we should consider everyone related to them

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

But for Pari, Mauli is her family, she said that in the episode, you don't want Mauli to be Pari's family, right?

Mauli doesn't have to be her family, she said it, she was reliving her happy family moment, the scene was from her perspective not from Mauli's perspective, the scene was part of Pari's character, it doesn't have anything to do with Mauli. ..

If I say Shah Rukh Khan is my family, doesn't mean I am family for him too, he doesn't even know me 😃 Faltu example hai, but a girl can wish *Cries*

Originally posted by: sweetzzz

😆your example

Ok, u can't say that shahrukh is your family but Gauri isn't right? If not for the crazy fandom on him 😃

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I don't even know Gauri or his kids.. . They mean nothing to me 😆

I don't thing the writers need to use a child or anyone to gain sympathy for Ishaan. The writers have decided that Ishaan is the good guy in the show and Kunal is the idiot. So whatever Ishaan does just makes everyone love him more ...and whatever Kunal does just makes us dislike him more. So thats how the characters are written. Kunal gets zero sympathy ..no matter what the situation because they've made him to be a basic jerk. Like in today's episode he's so selfish ...He did not consider the children for one moment ..yes you can say he does not know they are his children ..but that's just the point. He's selfish ..he does not do anything for anyone ..it's always him first. Then look at Ishaan ..he's taking such good care of some one else's children. For people who love Kunal it may be hard to watch their favorite being portrayed as a selfish man...but that's the reality of the characters ..Kunal is a selfish loathsome man and Ishaan is the good guy...just like in real life where we get the good and bad people ..so in the show we have the good guy Ishaan..and the bad Kunal 😆...and good people don't get sympathy ..they get love and admiration ..

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I don't thing the writers need to use a child or anyone to gain sympathy for Ishaan. The writers have decided that Ishaan is the good guy in the show and Kunal is the idiot. So whatever Ishaan does just makes everyone love him more ...and whatever Kunal does just makes us dislike him more. So thats how the characters are written. Kunal gets zero sympathy ..no matter what the situation because they've made him to be a basic jerk. Like in today's episode he's so selfish ...He did not consider the children for one moment ..yes you can say he does not know they are his children ..but that's just the point. He's selfish ..he does not do anything for anyone ..it's always him first. Then look at Ishaan ..he's taking such good care of some one else's children. For people who love Kunal it may be hard to watch their favorite being portrayed as a selfish man...but that's the reality of the characters ..Kunal is a selfish loathsome man and Ishaan is the good guy...just like in real life where we get the good and bad people ..so in the show we have the good guy Ishaan..and the bad Kunal 😆...and good people don't get sympathy ..they get love and admiration ..

Look. Mishthi loves ishan as her own father bcoz she saw him as Father figure since day one. Pari had seen Kunal as her father and Mauli as mother figure, so for her they are her family. Both have their own perception of family. Pari didn't included ishan bcoz for her he is her guardian. She likes him but cannot consider him as Father. As for Mauli, pari now knows that her dad was once married to her so she wants her as mom just like mishthi wants her popsie. Both are right in their view.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I read your post and your personal attack quite clearly, putting that aside...

The point here is simple if Ishaan wasn't upset because of Pari or he wasn't sulking because of Pari, why is Pari being bashed for hurting him?

If her excluding him makes her annoying for you then Ishaan getting hurt over a child thinking about her family and not including him is bizarre to me...

No one is bashing Pari because Ishaan got hurt. I think it has got more to do with how selfish her whole character is coming across and that is causing people to dislike her.

Also I don't buy the 4 year old explanation because it's quite clear that she's being showed quite mature in the show. Basic 4 year olds just want candy and occasionally gets embarrassed for peeing on the bed. But that's not how Pari is. She is v v v smart and conveniently turns herself around according to the situation that wil benefit her aka from can't share Kunal to I want Mauli as Mumma lol.

Ishaan is legit trying his level best to just help. He's only a human and can get thoughtful about things the kids say but he still does the best he can for them to his ability. And then people bring out the most ridiculously stupid things to bash him. Weird.