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sweetzzz

@sweetzzz

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#21

Wow!!!!

Way to attack people for a tv show. BTW I am neither of them but thanks for letting me know that I am not the only one who thinks this way...

Do you realize that different people interpret different scenes in different ways?

One interpretation is that Pari is annoying because she didn't include Ishaan in her family and hurt him.. That's OK.. Because a 4 years old is supposed to add someone she has no emotional or any connection with in her family just because he took care of her... Makes total sense...

That's what we all do, no? Ask young kids to let everyone who is good to her in her close circle and if she doesn't she is annoying and should be slapped... Again this makes sense too...

Ishaan felt bad because Pari didn't include him in her family list, I see it as a grown up 30 years old man making feeling bad/sulking over a 4 years old spending some time with her family...

Pari is just 4, since when kids are selfless, they don't even share chocolate...

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Ishaan isn't sulking. After he heard what Pari said, he thought if Mishti also feels the same way and if she had to choose her biological father over him for whatever reason, he wouldn't be sad.

As far as Pari is concerned, I would still say the same thing. No child would call his/her friend's family hers because they don't have a mom/dad. I meant in case of children raised by single parents

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

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Posted: 6 years ago

#22

Pari's family -

Mishti - Half sister

Dida - Great grand mom

Radhika - Grand mom

Kunal - Father

Mauli - Masi (After Nandini's CD)

She is not calling someone else's family hers, this is her family, she referred to Mauli as Mauli aunty, Mauli loves her too, how can anyone expect that a 4 years old will include a man she has no connection with in her family?

Mishti is at least connected to Kunal by blood but none expects her to include Kunal in her family, even I don't...

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sweetzzz

@sweetzzz

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#23

Similarly, Mishti's family -

Mumma

Popsi

dadi

Dida

Why would her popsi be excluded from her family?

I understand that we are discussing a 4 yr old, but then she doesn't even know how they are related. If you remember when she asked radhika why Kunal is calling radhika ma, she said just like everyone call dida, dida; Kunal calls me ma. But no one told her that it's kunal's family, unless I missed something

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#24

Exactly!!!

Ishaan is Mishti's family and they should stay together, I am not against it or anything...

She knows that they are related, Mishti told her the truth about Kunal and herself

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sweetzzz

@sweetzzz

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#25

Mishti told her that Kunal is her father, but where did Dadi, dida come from?

And Pari only knows that mauli is her mom's best friend. She can't really ask her family to be hers!!

Even if we agree for a moment that she know all the complicated relations, how can she include Mishti in the family and not her father ishaan? How's that possible?

Looks like the writers are trying to build a story for s2 with Mishti and Pari and end up with either of them being negative. Else I don't see a reason adding that scene 😕

Edited by sweetzzz - 6 years ago

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Sapna

@NainoMeinSapna

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#26

You're just contradicting yourself.

If you're gonna say that Mauli is Pari's massi, then Ishaan is Pari's massa. I know they're not married but in Indian culture as soon as someone's rishta is fixed they are family. And Pari has accepted that MauHaan are going to get married so if she's going to consider Mauli her family, by extension Ishaan should also be her family.

You also said that Mishti is Pari's family because she is her half-sister and Pari knows very well that for Mishti, Ishaan is her popsie, so if Mishti is her family, so is Ishaan through Mishti. In Indian culture everyone you're somehow related to is your family, even your cousins Mama becomes your Mama, so once again it doesn't make sense for her to exclude Ishaan.

Also, Ishaan was literally sitting right beside her and going through the pictures with her so how could she not mention him?

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#27

I am not contradicting myself, Pari has no emotional connection with Ishaan, she has that emotional connection with Mauli and if that emotional connection is not enough then Pari is connected to Mauli through Nandini...

Tell me one thing, why is it mandatory for Pari to consider Ishaan her family?

Mishti doesn't consider Kunal her family even though Kunal is her biological father and that's okay but Pari HAS to include Ishaan in her family?

Someone doesn't consider someone her family, it's her personal life and her personal matter, what exactly is the logic behind this? Moreover she is 4, a 4 years old doesn't think like that... When did she have that emotional connection or bond building with Ishaan? Did they ever show Pari and Ishaan loving each other, they don't have a connection...

In real world, you warn little girls against getting close to people outside their trust circle, they don't include everyone they meet in their family list, who does?

Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago

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Sapna

@NainoMeinSapna

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#28

Mishti never said that Kunal isn't her family. In fact when Pari said that the six of them are a family she agreed. If she didn't consider Kunal family, she wouldn't've agreed with Pari.

If Pari doesn't trust Ishaan, why is she living in his house?

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#29

That scene was just a part of Ishaan is mahan theme, that's why I am saying that there was no proper build up to that particular scene, bus add kar diya aur bachi ko gali pad rahi hai...

I think it was given that Dida and Radhika are her family, that's why Dida and Radhika were having the funeral for kunal, Pari knows that Radhika and Dida are Kunal's family...

Mishti is Pari's half sister...

Take Phoebe from FRIENDS for an example, Phoebe considered her half brother, her father her family but did she include her half brother's mom in her family? She met her once, she didn't have any emotional bond with her whatsoever ..

I don't understand one thing that none is expecting Mishti to accept Kunal as her family even though he is her biological father but Pari has to accept Ishaan, even though he is not connected to her in any way, why?

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#30

Because her father lost his memory, she has no other place to live, do you realize that she is 4?

I keep seeing that people don't like her when she acts older than her age but people expect a 4 years old girl to be selfless, add Ishaan in her family even though she has absolutely no connection with Ishaan...

I won't advise any girl to trust anyone outside her close circle that's very basic and when it comes to kids they do have sleepovers, due to some circumstances Pari has to live with Ishaan but she obviously wouldn't live with him if Mishti wasn't there

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