This serial is progressive LOL - Page 4

Originally posted by: Ooolalala

Mauli should get her great love. If she does not love the other person to that extent, it is unfair to her and the other person. You cannot force love on someone. It just happens as weird and stupid as it may sound. I cannot make you love someone/something or vice versa. If Mauli does not love Ishaan, it will be wrong to show that.

Yes Mauli loved Kunal madly and he obviously did not. Which is why they got divorced. He cheated on her which was horrible and cannot be justified. But if he realizes his mistake and repent for it and most importantly learn from it, I won't blame Mauli for going back to him. If their happiness is with each other, it is probably not going to be wrong to show them stay with each other. Again, I am not justifying EMA and I won't probably forgive if it happens with me. Still, I won't blame someone if they do because humans make mistakes. Sometimes, they are too big to be forgiven but again people forgive and move on. That is life!

I understand what you're saying. If Kunal really repents, shows some guilt, regret his disgusting mistake and really shows sincerity and make it up to Mauli I can see them reconciling. I cannot really swallow Kunal with Mauli after all his bullshit. I know that there are few women who go back to their spouse, but there some who don't and find happiness elsewhere.

But I rather see her love herself and Mishti before she makes a decision to be with Ishaan or Kunal.

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn

I understand what you're saying. If Kunal really repents, shows some guilt, regret his disgusting mistake and really shows sincerity and make it up to Mauli I can see them reconciling. I cannot really swallow Kunal with Mauli after all his bullshit. I know that there are few women who go back to their spouse, but there some who don't and find happiness elsewhere.

But I rather see her love herself and Mishti before she makes a decision to be with Ishaan or Kunal.

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn

I understand what you're saying. If Kunal really repents, shows some guilt, regret his disgusting mistake and really shows sincerity and make it up to Mauli I can see them reconciling. I cannot really swallow Kunal with Mauli after all his bullshit. I know that there are few women who go back to their spouse, but there some who don't and find happiness elsewhere.

But I rather see her love herself and Mishti before she makes a decision to be with Ishaan or Kunal.

Originally posted by: Ooolalala

Thank you. I am not justifying Kunal's actions or EMA. I am just trying to look things from another perspective. I just feel love is something which you can't force on someone. That is equally wrong. I have seen women who went back to their spouses and moved on with someone else. None of them were weak by any means. It is just that their choice was different. I cannot blame them for that because I have never been in that position and honestly don't even want to be.

you know some women make bad choices 😆 ...I think many of us here feel that Mauli, choosing Kunal will be a bad choice as she deserves better...but no stress lol..😆.this is an open forum so we all can share our different viewpoints...some people here love Kunal and just want Kunal Mauli,scenes ..where as others hate Kunal and don't want a Mauli Kunal reunion..but at the end of the day it's a fictional show so they can show us anything they want..and silsila is not a show about a beautiful everlasting love story ...it's about EMA and adultery ...so it can go either way ..Kunal Mauli or Mauli Ishaan...I think it's highly unlikely Mauli,will be alone because it's ITV so they'll want to show a happy family ending ..I think..but lol you never know some shows have killed off their leads in the end 😆

Whichever way the story goes , I don't see the definition of regressive as forgiving forgetting and moving on and definition of progressive as holding on to the demons of the past and being unforgiving . Why are we so much into right and wrong , it's only our perspectives . I agree with fruitoasty here . Progressive is that mauli has the freedom to make a choice . She may choose ishan or kunal .

Originally posted by: Indira1211

you know some women make bad choices 😆 ...I think many of us here feel that Mauli, choosing Kunal will be a bad choice as she deserves better...but no stress lol..😆.this is an open forum so we all can share our different viewpoints...some people here love Kunal and just want Kunal Mauli,scenes ..where as others hate Kunal and don't want a Mauli Kunal reunion..but at the end of the day it's a fictional show so they can show us anything they want..and silsila is not a show about a beautiful everlasting love story ...it's about EMA and adultery ...so it can go either way ..Kunal Mauli or Mauli Ishaan...I think it's highly unlikely Mauli,will be alone because it's ITV so they'll want to show a happy family ending ..I think..but lol you never know some shows have killed off their leads in the end 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

Whichever way the story goes , I don't see the definition of regressive as forgiving forgetting and moving on and definition of progressive as holding on to the demons of the past and being unforgiving . Why are we so much into right and wrong , it's only our perspectives . I agree with fruitoasty here . Progressive is that mauli has the freedom to make a choice . She may choose ishan or kunal .

Fine . He insulted her he degraded her . As such moving out of a relationship is never easy, it's always bitter and many such things are said in anger and frustration . Mauli pardoned him for the affair pre leap and was ready to give him another chance ..She was desperatly hoping that kunal would come back to her but she was wrong . I totally support her decision to let go off him and lie about her pregnancy . Post leap scenario is different and I am judging it differently

I understand the hatred towards kunal but one , there is no point in showing that he "repents" or redeems himself . He or anybody cannot change his past. He is not sorry about it , fair enough , he should not be imo !! The main issue is making peace with your past , accepting it and moving on..What d ida and radhika did...Like why hold on to the hatred ? . Kunal post leap, on the basis of what I read, is the same ...Cmon he is a flawed person. He committed a grave mistake but I won't say he doesn't deserve to be forgiven as forgiveness is the highest virtue ...I don't support his efforts of bringing mauli and ishan together as it's their life and should be their decision . But I sincerely feel mauli must forgive him , talk to him like a mature person, what she feels for him, for ishan , what's best for their children , and take a decision and that will be the perfect end to this story .

I feel the same thing...I feel there is no point in showing Kunal repent or regret because to me that would make no sense. He chose nandu and left Mauli..and so far he was happy with nandu and has a child ...niw that nandu is dead ..he's back..how can he show regret or repent when he had been happy with nandu..he's only back because nandu is dead if she was alive he would be living happily with her ..but yes Mauli does need to forgive him so she can make peace with herself ..and move on to whatever destiny has for her ...

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

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Thank you for making this thread. I was also feeling annoyed seeing those ridiculous posts. I thought most probably the CVs are bribing to make this. 😉😆 I also read this serial is highly appreciated in overseas. I also live there...but I am not impressed. 😆 Itne bakwaz serial about EMA. 🤢

The main reason behind this serial was to make another hit serial like Ishk mein mar jawan. Running for many months...still confused what they will show in that serial and when TRP is dropping they are using bed scenes or semi nude dresses. But aisa hua nehi. No one supported the concept. So they had to change the whole plan. Or else they would not hire DD to be the EMA girl. 😆

About this show. Nothing at all is progressive. Mauli shouldn't help N at the first place. A woman who can't call a mechanic and fix her own lock...should not divorce her husband. N used and wanted Mauli as more like her hubby. OK I divorced Rajdeep...Mauli you should do my husband's work now. Mauli" Am I your hubby?" 😆😆
I am against woman abuse. Woman should raise their voice . But they should do it because they want to. I have bitter experience like Mauli. I was 12 at that time. I tried to help a woman like Nandu. I talked with a social worker and send her to that lady's home. That social worker called her parents and they came to take that N home. But that N was not ready to leave her hubby. Because..."I can't live with my parents , they are so poor. I can't find a work. I am illiterate. How will work as a cook or crafting...I am a wife of a Doctor? I have two sons. Who will take care of them? I can't feed them and I am not ready to take their responcibility ...not even ready to try." The social worker left there. And advised me..."Help only those who wants help. Let this women suffer. Shayad thappad and lath is all they deserve." When I saw N...she reminded me of that lady. What progressive in N? She was more like a parasite. She left her first host Rajdeep and then get another host Kunal.

Mauli an independent girl was tortured by her hubby and still behaving like a slave of that guy. What progressiveness is in this? They have made Mauli in to a Gopi bahu. It is a progressive story...but in a negative way. It is not progressing high...it is progressing down. Making a girl believe that no matter what you are Doctor or Engineer...you are still woman. And man will decide your fate. As you are weak to decide a man too. I am not understanding to please whom this writer is writing this story?

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Thank you for making this thread. I was also feeling annoyed seeing those ridiculous posts. I thought most probably the CVs are bribing to make this. 😉😆 I also read this serial is highly appreciated in overseas. I also live there...but I am not impressed. 😆 Itne bakwaz serial about EMA. 🤢

The main reason behind this serial was to make another hit serial like Ishk mein mar jawan. Running for many months...still confused what they will show in that serial and when TRP is dropping they are using bed scenes or semi nude dresses. But aisa hua nehi. No one supported the concept. So they had to change the whole plan. Or else they would not hire DD to be the EMA girl. 😆

About this show. Nothing at all is progressive. Mauli shouldn't help N at the first place. A woman who can't call a mechanic and fix her own lock...should not divorce her husband. N used and wanted Mauli as more like her hubby. OK I divorced Rajdeep...Mauli you should do my husband's work now. Mauli" Am I your hubby?" 😆😆
I am against woman abuse. Woman should raise their voice . But they should do it because they want to. I have bitter experience like Mauli. I was 12 at that time. I tried to help a woman like Nandu. I talked with a social worker and send her to that lady's home. That social worker called her parents and they came to take that N home. But that N was not ready to leave her hubby. Because..."I can't live with my parents , they are so poor. I can't find a work. I am illiterate. How will work as a cook or crafting...I am a wife of a Doctor? I have two sons. Who will take care of them? I can't feed them and I am not ready to take their responcibility ...not even ready to try." The social worker left there. And advised me..."Help only those who wants help. Let this women suffer. Shayad thappad and lath is all they deserve." When I saw N...she reminded me of that lady. What progressive in N? She was more like a parasite. She left her first host Rajdeep and then get another host Kunal.

Mauli an independent girl was tortured by her hubby and still behaving like a slave of that guy. What progressiveness is in this? They have made Mauli in to a Gopi bahu. It is a progressive story...but in a negative way. It is not progressing high...it is progressing down. Making a girl believe that no matter what you are Doctor or Engineer...you are still woman. And man will decide your fate. As you are weak to decide a man too. I am not understanding to please whom this writer is writing this story?

lovely post...this is exactly how many of us feel here...thank you,.

Show could only be progressive ifactually Mauli got the chance to decide what she wants in life. Whether she wants to go back to Kunal or whether move on with Ishaan It should be her decision only not anyone else that can only come if other party ask for it but Kunal never showed that he wished to get back together. So here is no point of it as her decision because till now what they have shown everything is under Kunal's control. It is he who is deciding the future of Mauli not her.