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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


For me, I just felt his leaving was very abrupt. Both times, his mother asked him to leave and he just went. He did not even try to explain or put his side of things, not even to his mother. Infact, when I look back, not once did he try to reconcile, try to explain nor his body language gave that indication. It was as if he was already prepared and ready for the aftermath. I thought his silence was his acceptance of his crime but I think it was also a sign of his helplessness because of his feelings. They have shown us many times that he cannot lie, even yesterday and hence I guess he could not tell Mauli that is Nandini who holds his heart and not her so he was silent.
I also like the fact he did not go immediately to Nandini which shows that Mauli devastation did have a impact on him and he is not an insensitive brute.

Yes, I think during the whole confrontation as @mango_pudding said, Mauli was only thinking that it was fling, physical attraction, a mid-life crisis on his part and hence I guess she was ready to forgive him. I think the whole family thought that they will reconcile as if its a glitch in a marital life. Yes, Kunal has made a mistake but lets forgive and forget for the greater good. Even Mauli was coming to terms of it. I think if it was only phone call, the damage would have been Ok but the password was the last straw. It actually screamed at her that he had seriously replaced her in his heart. HIs leaving home was the final nail in the coffin. Yesterday, in true sense, she broke completely.

Frankly, the more I see their reactions, the more I feel that we missed out on the path that CV's were taking. Like, I said before, it seems like the confession was not the start but the end and hence we did not see the guilt or those conflicting emotions at all on both of them. But, as you say, now that they have seen the impact of their actions, I want to hear that self talk or a conversation between them on the next steps and what they are thinking.

I do not like Rajdeep's character at all but his dialogues do make me laugh. Mauli's mom is another type of person that I hate. She is the perfect reflection of all those women, who just do not want to change with time. Like, who blames your own daughter for your SIL misdeeds man. Its the attitude, right, someone is already broken, break them more and they take pleasure in it. I would have expected that from the MIL but here too CV's have shown the exact opposite which is a welcome change.

Rajdeep is going to get that "Mahila morcha" to Nandini house. I hope this time they show her standing up for herself and not wait for Kunal to come and save her.

PS: Also, I was reading that one of the sublines of this show is that "'Pyaar ek se zyada logo se ho sakta hai..par Aashiqui sirf ek hi se hoti hai'".
I guess this is what they following and if I see the show from this perspective, leaving the EMA aside, it does make sense.




You're right about his body language and demeanour. Had it been a fling he would have tried everything to explain it to her. But it is not a fling and there's no way he could have said that to her without breaking her completely.
And I don't think WE have missed out on anything . The makers have simply failed to show Nandini's (and Kunal's) journey from seeing Kunal as Mauli's husband to just Kunal. Sigh ! No point talking about it now.

That Aashiqui wala line wiuld have worked for me probably 7 years back, not now 😆 . Btw I see some very weird spoilers doing the rounds. I really really hope it is not what people are making it out to be.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06

@mango_pudding @summerrain7

Just to keep the conversation going, wanted your views on Kunal leaving the house.

Was this always his intention or was he reacting to the situation?

Based on the cafe conversation, one would think that this was always his intention but his reaction from past couple of days showed something different so let me know your thoughts...



kekeke... so saw today's episode and one would have thought he would run off to nandini but did not... instead he is driving around and lost...

side note #1: he must have one good head in terms of bone. he is forever getting his head bumped by something and wearing a bandage. 🤣

side note #2: am so glad they stopped the colour co-ordination! yay! were they peeking into the forum and getting a whiff of how silly we found it? 😆 however, I do wish that given the strong feelings of some viewers, they would have mouli-nandini interactions/fights/explosions in neutral places without any religious undertones in future.. that would help folks just focus on the story even if they hate it!

now back to Q -- I was more intrigued by the reaction of kunal's mom. am not sure why but there was something a bit off about how she and dadi reacted. one of the things she says is mouli worked so hard to provide/build clinic, so how could do this -- or something like that. found that odd because it is not like a financial transaction where he owes her money and so owes her his loyalty. if she had gone on and on about how mouli loves kunal, that would have made more sense but instead there was a tad more focus on mouli's contribution which I wasn't expecting. also, I found dadi's reaction a bit strange in that she didn't seem to find it surprising that kunal did it and rather her sadness is that it happened and he has to leave. nowhere, does dadi say "but my child is innocent!!" or something...

even when his mom asks kunal to leave, it seemed like she did it to stop mouli from leaving because if she did leave, then there are fewer chances of reconciliation. but with kunal leaving, perhaps, he can eventually come back -- maybe that is her idea? and dadi was more worried about kunal's welfare that she doesn't hesitate to call nandini -- there is no shame, hesitation or even anger. why? she doesn't launch into a lecture or voice her disappointment or that nandini broke their house etc. instead, she just wanted to talk to kunal. thats it.

now it could very well be that CVs were showing a supportive family for mouli but somehow, found these few details so odd that it made me wonder about kunal's dad instead and whether this was a case of past repeating itself. and perhaps, his mom's reaction felt more like disappointment that he is following his father's footsteps.. does anyone know what happened to the dad? dead? alive?

so regarding your Q pamk06 -- it looks like all 3 characters are confused on what it is they want. kunal wants nandini but now the guilt of breaking mouli and hurting his family is washing over him. mouli is torn between wanting to clobber him and wanting him back. nandini has no idea whats going on and what her future holds...
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Posted: 7 years ago
Mango_pudding1 - Hehe...hurt his head again? What is the point but? Sense toh pehle hi kho chuka hai. 😃
Anyways, I have had a very strong feeling for sometime now, that Kunal's dad has also done some kind of kaand. If that really is the case, then it will be revealed soon.

Dida softening her stance could be because of something related to that or just genuine concern for her grandkid.

And it looks like they want an element of divinity everywhere possible. I haven't watched the epi yet, but when I watch, I am going to look for that Baba. Usko pakade do chaar lagaana hai. Maybe Rajdeep should start looking for that Baba. 😆
Edited by SummerRain7 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

You're right about his body language and demeanour. Had it been a fling he would have tried everything to explain it to her. But it is not a fling and there's no way he could have said that to her without breaking her completely.

And I don't think WE have missed out on anything . The makers have simply failed to show Nandini's (and Kunal's) journey from seeing Kunal as Mauli's husband to just Kunal. Sigh ! No point talking about it now.

That Aashiqui wala line wiuld have worked for me probably 7 years back, not now 😆 . Btw I see some very weird spoilers doing the rounds. I really really hope it is not what people are making it out to be.


Makers did do a huge blunder with the use of whole silence and expressions. I do like the mystery of it but not to the extent where I am totally confused on whats happening. Even now they are not trying to improvise because they not telling us what is going on in Kunal's head. Like is he actually having conflicting emotions or is he just sad that he broke Mauli. I guess they are just testing the waters to see which way the wind is blowing. But if he decides that Nandini was just a distraction, that would be like total character assassination especially when he was the one who initiated the whole thing and they went with the whole divine connection blah. blah story.

Ya, apparently we have grown up, ITV is still in "Kyunki" era where on the name of love, they are selling us anything and frankly there are shows where I am still buying it for pure entertainment purposes. 😆😆.

PS: The Radha-Krishna idol just made me shake my head yesterday. It was so coincidental.


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Mango_pudding1 - Hehe...hurt his head again? What is the point but? Sense toh pehle hi kho chuka hai. 😃

Anyways, I have had a very strong feeling for sometime now, that Kunal's dad has also done some kind of kaand. If that really is the case, then it will be revealed soon.

Dida softening her stance could be because of something related to that or just genuine concern for her grandkid.

And it looks like they want an element of divinity everywhere possible. I haven't watched the epi yet, but when I watch, I am going to look for that Baba. Usko pakade do chaar lagaana hai. Maybe Rajdeep should start looking for that Baba. 😆


Dida has always been angry with kunal's mom for some reason blaming her for things . i cant remember properly what she said but i felt EMA was involved there when Dida was blaming her.
Sort of that kal ho na ho story where the FL's dadi blames her mother for her sons death
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Posted: 7 years ago
And today nandani she was telling something like i dont know what kunal wants, what place i hold, im not sure of anything. that too in front of mauli who has just lost her husband to EMA😆 tht means even after this mess she still wishes for kunal to come to her
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5


Dida has always been angry with kunal's mom for some reason blaming her for things . i cant remember properly what she said but i felt EMA was involved there when Dida was blaming her.
Sort of that kal ho na ho story where the FL's dadi blames her mother for her sons death

what is this kal ho na ho
i dont got it even after reading wekipedia
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1



kekeke... so saw today's episode and one would have thought he would run off to nandini but did not... instead he is driving around and lost...

side note #1: he must have one good head in terms of bone. he is forever getting his head bumped by something and wearing a bandage. 🤣

side note #2: am so glad they stopped the colour co-ordination! yay! were they peeking into the forum and getting a whiff of how silly we found it? 😆 however, I do wish that given the strong feelings of some viewers, they would have mouli-nandini interactions/fights/explosions in neutral places without any religious undertones in future.. that would help folks just focus on the story even if they hate it!



Good you brought this point up... I was exactly thinking about the same thing. What with the bandage. May be they got it in wholesale and are trying to use or trying to advertise a new bandana.😆😆. His head does seem to be strong because inspire of so many hits, every other week, its still intact. May be the injury is internal, hence the impact on his decision making capability.😆

side note 2: Initially, for confrontation, Nandini was wearing a green dress same as Kunal. I saw pictures in Instagram and then later they showed her in a different saree. When i saw that change, I remembered our conversation on that color-fabric co-ordination and did think that it might have had an impact. It almost stopped around the same time . 😆😉


Both their confrontation happened near the temples and Nandini journey started from there. I started thinking, may be now Nandini will tell Mauli, "Its not my fault, Baba told me its my destiny. Lets find that baba and ask him why" or may be the CVs were thinking if its near the temple, the baba himself will come and explain it to Mauli, the whole destiny angle 🤣🤣
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1



kekeke... so saw today's episode and one would have thought he would run off to nandini but did not... instead he is driving around and lost...

now back to Q -- I was more intrigued by the reaction of kunal's mom. am not sure why but there was something a bit off about how she and dadi reacted. one of the things she says is mouli worked so hard to provide/build clinic, so how could do this -- or something like that. found that odd because it is not like a financial transaction where he owes her money and so owes her his loyalty. if she had gone on and on about how mouli loves kunal, that would have made more sense but instead there was a tad more focus on mouli's contribution which I wasn't expecting. also, I found dadi's reaction a bit strange in that she didn't seem to find it surprising that kunal did it and rather her sadness is that it happened and he has to leave. nowhere, does dadi say "but my child is innocent!!" or something...

even when his mom asks kunal to leave, it seemed like she did it to stop mouli from leaving because if she did leave, then there are fewer chances of reconciliation. but with kunal leaving, perhaps, he can eventually come back -- maybe that is her idea? and dadi was more worried about kunal's welfare that she doesn't hesitate to call nandini -- there is no shame, hesitation or even anger. why? she doesn't launch into a lecture or voice her disappointment or that nandini broke their house etc. instead, she just wanted to talk to kunal. thats it.

now it could very well be that CVs were showing a supportive family for mouli but somehow, found these few details so odd that it made me wonder about kunal's dad instead and whether this was a case of past repeating itself. and perhaps, his mom's reaction felt more like disappointment that he is following his father's footsteps.. does anyone know what happened to the dad? dead? alive?

so regarding your Q pamk06 -- it looks like all 3 characters are confused on what it is they want. kunal wants nandini but now the guilt of breaking mouli and hurting his family is washing over him. mouli is torn between wanting to clobber him and wanting him back. nandini has no idea whats going on and what her future holds...


Ya, I always thought that his mom was the second woman and hence Dida was always upset with her but apparently there is something else. May be the same history, hence their reaction. His mom, I can understand but Dida reactions seemed very weird especially when she told Nandini that she should go back to Rajdeep. And now not one curse word for Nandini. Its almost seemed flat. Like when his mom told him to leave, Dida did not even object or anything. I agree on the support for Mauli from his mother side but shouldn't Dida be fighting to keep the family together as she is the matriarch of the family. If there was similar history, even then the reactions did not match as there should have been some reference. They did not even ask for an explanation like why or is it true or has there been a misunderstanding, nothing.

I saw today's episode and what felt weird is Kunal was remembering his mother's words not Mauli's. Shouldn't his guilt bring out her flashbacks, they did show a couple but it was more his mother's then hers. Its almost as if he is more guilty of hurting and disappointing his mother than Mauli.

Frankly, I just felt sad for Nandini. Sometimes some choices can be so costly and then you have keep paying its price for the whole of your life. She thought she might lose Mauli but atleast had Kunal but now she is at a point where she is not even sure if she has Kunal.

PS: Yesterday Kunal said, that those moments with Mauli were not lie and today Nandini said the same thing but it funnily enough, they were not fully true.


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

And today nandani she was telling something like i dont know what kunal wants, what place i hold, im not sure of anything. that too in front of mauli who has just lost her husband to EMA😆tht means even after this mess she still wishes for kunal to come to her


Nandini is going towards a guilt-induced breakdown. Mauli's harsh words today, Kunal's aloofness, mahila morcha thing happening, and Rajdeep antics are all going to have severe impact on her '. If Kunal does not buckle up by that time and make a stand either ways, Nandini is definitely going to lose it.

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