Originally posted by: pamk06
Ya, I always thought that his mom was the second woman and hence Dida was always upset with her but apparently there is something else. May be the same history, hence their reaction. His mom, I can understand but Dida reactions seemed very weird especially when she told Nandini that she should go back to Rajdeep. And now not one curse word for Nandini. Its almost seemed flat. Like when his mom told him to leave, Dida did not even object or anything. I agree on the support for Mauli from his mother side but shouldn't Dida be fighting to keep the family together as she is the matriarch of the family. If there was similar history, even then the reactions did not match as there should have been some reference. They did not even ask for an explanation like why or is it true or has there been a misunderstanding, nothing.
I saw today's episode and what felt weird is Kunal was remembering his mother's words not Mauli's. Shouldn't his guilt bring out her flashbacks, they did show a couple but it was more his mother's then hers. Its almost as if he is more guilty of hurting and disappointing his mother than Mauli.
Frankly, I just felt sad for Nandini. Sometimes some choices can be so costly and then you have keep paying its price for the whole of your life. She thought she might lose Mauli but atleast had Kunal but now she is at a point where she is not even sure if she has Kunal.
PS: Yesterday Kunal said, that those moments with Mauli were not lie and today Nandini said the same thing but it funnily enough, they were not fully true.
I feel that Dida didn't stop him because if she did then it would be wrong with Mauli. Somewhere I believe that she went through a thought process where either she could support a woman, her daughter-in-law, who had been wronged by her own grandson or she could support her own blood. But she must have felt that her morales were stronger than just choosing her blood over the right thing to do.
Kunal doesn't have one iota of guilt. Copying from another thread that I just wrote in: Kunal is stuck. He knows if he chooses Mauli, then he'll lose a sati savitri, abla nari who he can protect. Of course Mauli also has to accept him back. But if he chooses Nandini, he has to start over from scratch because in a moment of mahanta he gave back the clinic keys. And even though Nandini does some work, she probably wouldn't be able to support them both. At the same time, he'll also lose his own mother and Dida. So he's stuck. Does he go with araam and comfort or sex and love and manliness?
I feel really bad for Nandini as well. After everything she's been through, it's still not done. She now has to face society, Rajdeep's antics, Mauli's accusations, and Kunal's indecisiveness. She's already emotionally raw and I'm expecting a nervous breakdown any minute. But at the same time, I am angry at her as well. Angry that she knowingly destroyed her best friend's life and then claims that it just happened. She knowingly slept with Kunal. Mauli was right. She wasn't forced or a kid. This all happened knowingly. And that's why I can't bring myself to forgive Nandini.
What I found hilarious was how Kunal and Nandini even have the same thoughts and words. Oh the past wasn't a lie. Well of course it was. Nandini lied to Mauli whenever she met Kunal and Kunal lied to Maul whenever he met Nandini. And yet during all those moments they pretended to be Mauli's best friend and husband, respectively.