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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


Ya, I always thought that his mom was the second woman and hence Dida was always upset with her but apparently there is something else. May be the same history, hence their reaction. His mom, I can understand but Dida reactions seemed very weird especially when she told Nandini that she should go back to Rajdeep. And now not one curse word for Nandini. Its almost seemed flat. Like when his mom told him to leave, Dida did not even object or anything. I agree on the support for Mauli from his mother side but shouldn't Dida be fighting to keep the family together as she is the matriarch of the family. If there was similar history, even then the reactions did not match as there should have been some reference. They did not even ask for an explanation like why or is it true or has there been a misunderstanding, nothing.

I saw today's episode and what felt weird is Kunal was remembering his mother's words not Mauli's. Shouldn't his guilt bring out her flashbacks, they did show a couple but it was more his mother's then hers. Its almost as if he is more guilty of hurting and disappointing his mother than Mauli.

Frankly, I just felt sad for Nandini. Sometimes some choices can be so costly and then you have keep paying its price for the whole of your life. She thought she might lose Mauli but atleast had Kunal but now she is at a point where she is not even sure if she has Kunal.

PS: Yesterday Kunal said, that those moments with Mauli were not lie and today Nandini said the same thing but it funnily enough, they were not fully true.



I feel that Dida didn't stop him because if she did then it would be wrong with Mauli. Somewhere I believe that she went through a thought process where either she could support a woman, her daughter-in-law, who had been wronged by her own grandson or she could support her own blood. But she must have felt that her morales were stronger than just choosing her blood over the right thing to do.

Kunal doesn't have one iota of guilt. Copying from another thread that I just wrote in: Kunal is stuck. He knows if he chooses Mauli, then he'll lose a sati savitri, abla nari who he can protect. Of course Mauli also has to accept him back. But if he chooses Nandini, he has to start over from scratch because in a moment of mahanta he gave back the clinic keys. And even though Nandini does some work, she probably wouldn't be able to support them both. At the same time, he'll also lose his own mother and Dida. So he's stuck. Does he go with araam and comfort or sex and love and manliness?

I feel really bad for Nandini as well. After everything she's been through, it's still not done. She now has to face society, Rajdeep's antics, Mauli's accusations, and Kunal's indecisiveness. She's already emotionally raw and I'm expecting a nervous breakdown any minute. But at the same time, I am angry at her as well. Angry that she knowingly destroyed her best friend's life and then claims that it just happened. She knowingly slept with Kunal. Mauli was right. She wasn't forced or a kid. This all happened knowingly. And that's why I can't bring myself to forgive Nandini.

What I found hilarious was how Kunal and Nandini even have the same thoughts and words. Oh the past wasn't a lie. Well of course it was. Nandini lied to Mauli whenever she met Kunal and Kunal lied to Maul whenever he met Nandini. And yet during all those moments they pretended to be Mauli's best friend and husband, respectively.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


Ya, I always thought that his mom was the second woman and hence Dida was always upset with her but apparently there is something else. May be the same history, hence their reaction. His mom, I can understand but Dida reactions seemed very weird especially when she told Nandini that she should go back to Rajdeep. And now not one curse word for Nandini. Its almost seemed flat. Like when his mom told him to leave, Dida did not even object or anything. I agree on the support for Mauli from his mother side but shouldn't Dida be fighting to keep the family together as she is the matriarch of the family. If there was similar history, even then the reactions did not match as there should have been some reference. They did not even ask for an explanation like why or is it true or has there been a misunderstanding, nothing.

I saw today's episode and what felt weird is Kunal was remembering his mother's words not Mauli's. Shouldn't his guilt bring out her flashbacks, they did show a couple but it was more his mother's then hers. Its almost as if he is more guilty of hurting and disappointing his mother than Mauli.

Frankly, I just felt sad for Nandini. Sometimes some choices can be so costly and then you have keep paying its price for the whole of your life. She thought she might lose Mauli but atleast had Kunal but now she is at a point where she is not even sure if she has Kunal.

PS: Yesterday Kunal said, that those moments with Mauli were not lie and today Nandini said the same thing but it funnily enough, they were not fully true.




@bold -- exactly! felt the whole interactions really weird because no one is expressing shock or disbelief. wouldn't that be the first reaction? to "wait, what?? are you sure? maybe you misunderstood mouli?" -- won't that be the type of questions?... and even the mom's anger was slightly weird in that rather than disappointment, she was angry like kunal had rejected her, rather than mouli. and even in that scene where he was walking in a daze and got beaten by rajdeep, he was thinking of his mom. and yea, even in the car, it was more the mom. so perhaps, he was fully prepared for mouli's reaction but not his mom and that has really hurt him...

but @naq5 mention of kal ho na ho made me wonder -- what if kunal is actually the stepchild? the child of the mistress and his mom is actually the first wife and stepmom? if so, it would explain so much about why he was attracted to nandini. always felt that so odd given mouli is more like the mom and most men are attracted to women (they marry) who remind them of their moms in some say (well that is the saying anyway)... in that case, it would not be a case of anything mouli did but simply he was attracted to someone who reminded him more of his bio-mom. it would explain the mom's anger as well as the dadi's very flat reaction.

if this is the track that CVs intend, then am going to be entertained. frankly the 3 of them constantly going rona dhona is wearing on my nerves and making me feel claustrophobic. I need some other masala to keep me entertained.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


Makers did do a huge blunder with the use of whole silence and expressions. I do like the mystery of it but not to the extent where I am totally confused on whats happening. Even now they are not trying to improvise because they not telling us what is going on in Kunal's head. Like is he actually having conflicting emotions or is he just sad that he broke Mauli. I guess they are just testing the waters to see which way the wind is blowing. But if he decides that Nandini was just a distraction, that would be like total character assassination especially when he was the one who initiated the whole thing and they went with the whole divine connection blah. blah story.

Ya, apparently we have grown up, ITV is still in "Kyunki" era where on the name of love, they are selling us anything and frankly there are shows where I am still buying it for pure entertainment purposes. 😆😆.

PS: The Radha-Krishna idol just made me shake my head yesterday. It was so coincidental.


Yep, it would be total character assassination, if he decides now that Nandini was just a distraction. And after showing all the divinity crap, I don't think they would go down that route. Even after watching yesterday's episode Kunal's thoughts are not very clear. It looks like he was more affected by his mother's words because that is what he kept recalling while he was driving. He did recall Mauli's reaction but it looked like he was upset and disappointed that he had become this man who cheated on his wife. My question is, after being with Mauli for 7 years and having lived with his family all his life, just what kind of reaction had he been expecting from them. The guy is a grown ass man, not a teenager who didn't know what the consequences of his actions were going to be.
Bold - oh! I can do that too😆 but not here when it an EMA and with no problems whatsoever in the marriage.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5


Dida has always been angry with kunal's mom for some reason blaming her for things . i cant remember properly what she said but i felt EMA was involved there when Dida was blaming her.
Sort of that kal ho na ho story where the FL's dadi blames her mother for her sons death

I haven't watched KHNH 😆 but I get what you are saying. There are lots of stories going on about this. I guess the revelation won't be very far. But first, Kunal has to stop getting hurt and falling unconscious , so that we'd know whatever the hell it is that he wants to do with his life.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Someone tell me , in yetserday's episode when Nandini was at home and worrying about Kunal (before the temple confrontation) did she actually say something like, "I hope Kunal aur Mauli ke beech sab kuch teekh ho" I don't know if I heard it wrong, because it just doesn't make sense at all.
And my God whatever Nandini told Mauli in the temple. I had to face palm. "Humein nahin pata tha ki humari chahat ka silsila tumhari dehleez par aa kar khatam ho ga." isn't that what she said ? And I was like, " woman!! It all started from her dehleez. You didn't have a roof over your head to begin with.!!!" In contrast Mauli got such AMAZING lines. For me Mauli is that FL, probably the only FL on ITV who speaks the exact same lines that we women in the audience want to hear.
I really believe makers can do better than this for Nandini. Why did they have to make her say that all those moments with Mauli were true. It wasn't...right? And I felt terrible for her when she said, "Kisi ko paana ya khona itna asaan nahin hota" and that she doesn't know whats going on in Kunal's mind, though she shouldn't have said it in front of Mauli. I hope that man got hit in the right place on his head and I hope he will have some sense when he wakes up.

Just some fun thought -

If this was an Ekta Kapoor serial, Kunal would wake up with short term memory loss, with no recollection of anything that happened with Nandini. And on doctor's advice everyone will act normal around him, until one day when he gets knocked on his head again and will go in search of Nandini who would have gone away by then. It would then be revealed that Nandini had also given birth to his baby. He would then bring both of them back, and Mauli would have turned into a full blown vamp by them, who would scheme and plot to get Nandini and her baby killed. All this could go on for a few years easily, with many time leaps in the story and with all of them looking much younger wIth age.😃
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Posted: 7 years ago

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If this was an Ekta Kapoor serial, Kunal would wake up with short term memory loss, with no recollection of anything that happened with Nandini. And on doctor's advice everyone will act normal around him, until one day when he gets knocked on his head again and will go in search of Nandini who would have gone away by then. It would then be revealed that Nandini had also given birth to his baby. He would then bring both of them back, and Mauli would have turned into a full blown vamp by them, who would scheme and plot to get Nandini and her baby killed. All this could go on for a few years easily, with many time leaps in the story and with all of them looking much younger wIth age.😃



🤣 hahahhaa... sometimes you have to watch serials like this one to appreciate these ekta kapoor type serials which are all sorts of crazy but in a weird way, highly funny and entertaining. there is no way to even get aggravated because you just can't take it seriously. 😆



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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

what is this kal ho na ho
i dont got it even after reading wekipedia



@gaushiv13 -- so its been quite a few years since I watched kal ho na ho. so if I get some details messed up, oops! hahahha...

so in the movie, preity zinta's character is really cynical on love. she lives with her mom, dadi and 2 younger siblings and there is a huge age gap (10 years plus) with her younger siblings. so the dadi hates the youngest child who is adopted. basically the dad was depressed and the mom adopted this child and the dad then committed suicide. the dadi blames the mom for the dad's depression and the child for not being desi and bringing bad luck into the house. both mom and priety pretty much ignore the dadi's rantings... by the end of the movie, you find out that the child is actually half-indian and is priety zinta's half sister. so, the dad had an affair and wanted a divorce. for whatever reason, the girlfriend decided to dump him as well as give up the baby she was pregnant with. the mom decided to adopt the baby because it is still her husband's and she didn't want the child to end up in foster care/orphanage. the dad was depressed and this added to his guilt and so he killed himself. dadi in the end finds the whole story and apologizes.

not sure why it was some big secret but that was the background to preity zinta's character in the movie.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Someone tell me , in yetserday's episode when Nandini was at home and worrying about Kunal (before the temple confrontation) did she actually say something like, "I hope Kunal aur Mauli ke beech sab kuch teekh ho" I don't know if I heard it wrong, because it just doesn't make sense at all.

And my God whatever Nandini told Mauli in the temple. I had to face palm. "Humein nahin pata tha ki humari chahat ka silsila tumhari dehleez par aa kar khatam ho ga." isn't that what she said ? And I was like, " woman!! It all started from her dehleez. You didn't have a roof over your head to begin with.!!!" In contrast Mauli got such AMAZING lines. For me Mauli is that FL, probably the only FL on ITV who speaks the exact same lines that we women in the audience want to hear.
I really believe makers can do better than this for Nandini. Why did they have to make her say that all those moments with Mauli were true. It wasn't...right? And I felt terrible for her when she said, "Kisi ko paana ya khona itna asaan nahin hota" and that she doesn't know whats going on in Kunal's mind, though she shouldn't have said it in front of Mauli. I hope that man got hit in the right place on his head and I hope he will have some sense when he wakes up.

Just some fun thought -

If this was an Ekta Kapoor serial, Kunal would wake up with short term memory loss, with no recollection of anything that happened with Nandini. And on doctor's advice everyone will act normal around him, until one day when he gets knocked on his head again and will go in search of Nandini who would have gone away by then. It would then be revealed that Nandini had also given birth to his baby. He would then bring both of them back, and Mauli would have turned into a full blown vamp by them, who would scheme and plot to get Nandini and her baby killed. All this could go on for a few years easily, with many time leaps in the story and with all of them looking much younger wIth age.😃


@bold. yes she shouldnt have said it in front of Mauli the one whom she has cheated and wrecked her home. It looks very insensitive of her to say that. And weather kunal comes back to her or not one thing is for sure that it has destroyed kunal-mauli relation. And she should know that EMA always is a risk. the man may always choose his family and never come back.
i would like to know what kunal may have done if he had a kid in their lives. weather he would have gone after nandani or not
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Posted: 7 years ago

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@bold. yes she shouldnt have said it in front of Mauli the one whom she has cheated and wrecked her home. It looks very insensitive of her to say that. And weather kunal comes back to her or not one thing is for sure that it has destroyed kunal-mauli relation. And she should know that EMA always is a risk. the man may always choose his family and never come back.
i would like to know what kunal may have done if he had a kid in their lives. weather he would have gone after nandani or not

If you ask me, Nandini actually isn't in a state of mind to get into any relationship. She needs time and probably some therapy to understand her self-worth and to accept herself. Someone who doesn't have any self-worth will only accept whatever comes their way. She accepted Rajdeep's abuse earlier and now she accepted Kunal's love without bothering to think of the consequences. Not justifying her, but that is what has happened. She is rejecting Rajdeep now repeatedly and without any hesitation. Hopefully, if the makers want to give her an identity that goes beyond Kunal's love interest then we may get to see a Nandini who makes informed decisions and right choices.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7


Just some fun thought -

If this was an Ekta Kapoor serial, Kunal would wake up with short term memory loss, with no recollection of anything that happened with Nandini. And on doctor's advice everyone will act normal around him, until one day when he gets knocked on his head again and will go in search of Nandini who would have gone away by then. It would then be revealed that Nandini had also given birth to his baby. He would then bring both of them back, and Mauli would have turned into a full blown vamp by them, who would scheme and plot to get Nandini and her baby killed. All this could go on for a few years easily, with many time leaps in the story and with all of them looking much younger wIth age.😃




Ooh better yet. Mauli turns vamp because she thought everything could be okay but it wasn't and Kunal loves Nandini more than her. Then she joins hands with Rajdeep and this unknown personality to get Nandini and said baby killed and soon it is revealed that the unknown personality is actually Kunal's mother, who isn't his mother, but a doosri aurat herself. She had an affair with Kunal's father and he married her and made her Kunal's mother, ousting the real mother. And this doosri aurat has Kunal's mother imprisoned for the past 20 years because she's afraid that if K's real mother gets out then Kunal will leave her and she'll lose her status in society. And then Kunal finds out about this and tries to get his real mother back, but in the process, she ends up "dying" by falling off a cliff that actually Yamini pushed her off of. But it turns out that Kunal's mother survives the fall and is in coma and with Nandini who was kicked out of the house by Mauli and Yamini for suposedly trying to poison the family. Now Kunal is searching for Nandini in Canada (who knows how they got there) and there is a dil se dil connection and finally Kunal sees Nandini, but it is too late because Mauli and Yamini reach there as well and take Nandini away. And...well you get the point. 😆

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