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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


Thank you, that was exactly what I was thinking when I wrote that. In no way, I am calling her a Radha.

Also, I think, for Nandini, the only thing left is his love and thus for her his happiness is the most important as they showed us when she was praying during the Ganesh festival. So, I do think if she does get an inkling that his happiness lies with Mauli, she will walk that path.

Anways, for Kiunal, I do feel that the angle, they are going is that he fell out of love which came out yesterday when he said that , he was happy and they were perfect but he did not realize when he turned away from her and there was emphasis on the past tense.

Having said that, do you ladies think that is that the only explanation we will be getting about Kunal perspective? That he doesn't know how it happened? Because this is the third time he is saying this, that he doesnt know how it happened, he stopped himself, he tried etc.

Hard to say actually. If it was only about EMA, then why the fate love story narrative in the beginning? Is it possible that they changed course midway? I think we need a few more episodes to understand this.
I also need something more from Nandini. As of now, it looks like she will let Kunal choose and will be accepting of whatever decision he makes. But it would be like keeping his heart and letting his body go back to Mauli.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


I know you people cannot say such a thing 😆


But seriously , why do you think she has bare minimum expectations from him and she will sacrifice him for mauli if he wishes ? She cant stop herself for a minute to text him and talk to him . ...whats the point of her thinking "if someone else reads the messages ..no i should not sms , and then she calls"...She thanked ganpati bappa because he gave her "kunal" . . And that she doesnt need anything else besides kunal.



@bold: Ganpati prayer was that she wants only his happiness. The one that you mentioned was Janmastami prayer or may be I am getting confused with all this prayers 😆😆
It was continuation of the discussion of why she left him home and did not take him back with her and also that she asked him to be with Mauli and take care of her. Hence, we kind of came to that conclusion.
Generally, EMA that I have seen, real or reel, the other girl and woman are very selfish and insecure except for one real life one where the girl is happy with the status quo like Nandini. But., I digress. At least now, we do not see those traits in her, hence we were wondering on the "Why".

You are right, why would she call when she knows its unwelcome but well, Kunal is hurt and Mauli is broken. I guess, it came down to impatience and curiosity and al need to know, that the two most important people of her life are Ok or not, even though she is responsible for it..

But the timing was all wrong, I really wanted to hear Kunal's answer to the reconciliation branch that Mauli was going to extend.



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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: FruitToasty





Kunal would have consummated after confession but Mauli interrupted, then when it happened it was Nandini who initiated it, so I guess he needed a push, Kunal didn't have a problem being intimate with Nandini, but his regret after sleeping with Nandini indicates his emotional bonding with Mauli, why would he regret if he was emotionally and physically invested in Nandini, if he was as emotionally connected to Nandini, I think he would have been as happy as Nandini was, Nandini is committed to him emotionally and physically, but that's not the case with Kunal. If I put myself in his place, I think first thing I would do for my love, who has been through trauma of abuse for years, is taking him to a shrink, maybe he believes that he will heal her but I think I would have needed the security of assurance that I am not just a rebound for him. Nandini is still Rajdeep's wife, what I am trying to say when you are emotionally attached to someone you make sure they won't face problems, but Kunal is not doing that for her, he's not trying to ease her problems, he is there to protect her but he's not looking for a deterrent.


Physical relationship isn't only about sex, they are comfortable physically with each other, like Nandini rests her head on his shoulder, they hug each other but they do not talk


@bold 1: No, Kunal was leaving. He only stopped because he saw that she was sad and he decided to wait for sometime and asked her to make the world-famous Kheer 😛

@bold 2: Yes, I was mad at that time on, how in the hell knowing Nandini, can she initiate it. But now, I have theory that can be crap, like may be, at that point she was not seeking comfort but giving comfort. I say this because that abuse scene must have been as disturbing for Kunal as it was for Nandini especially as he must have never witnessed the extent of abuse a human being can inflict on another person. It must have shaken him and she might have sensed it and hence stopped him. As I said, its crap but just a different perspective.

@bold3: Yes, but the CV's in the latest fight with Rajdeep, basically gave the message that Nandini is fully recovered and there is no abuse or trauma sign in her. Standing and facing your abuser is almost the last step of recovery and she is done it twice now. This thread has those discussions, where we think that her recovery was done before she acknowledged her feelings. We can say the love was the result of that recovery whether its rebound or temporary, I do not know.




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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Hard to say actually. If it was only about EMA, then why the fate love story narrative in the beginning? Is it possible that they changed course midway? I think we need a few more episodes to understand this.
I also need something more from Nandini. As of now, it looks like she will let Kunal choose and will be accepting of whatever decision he makes. But it would be like keeping his heart and letting his body go back to Mauli.


I was thinking they might go that route but Nandini chooses it, not Kunal. But for that we need to see a strong Nandini, They cannot use the abuse crap now, after the fight with Rajdeep, to show her as a week dependent woman. I want that Nandini back who stood up to Rajdeep and to Kunal when she decided to leave the house and of course, Mauli who does not take Kunal back.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1



interesting... there were quite a few 80s movies where the guy ends up with 2 wives and he supposedly loves both of them. made me roll my eyes and shake my head when I see those old movies... given today's context, if CVs followed that technique, would it make the backlash less? or more?


previous serial [dil se dil tak ] at 10 pm slot shown polygamy and backlash from public very high -even in this serial [DSDT] perfect married couple broken - wife character sidelined and killed to unite lovers..

when silsila started people who disliked dsdt started to hate silsila from day one..and .started to support mouli from day one -- backlash for silsila increased too high when serial shown sex between leads to sideline wife character just like DSDT...
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1


what was also clear is that mouli and kunal's mom assume that this is a fling or a moment of lust he had. they have no idea how serious these two actually are about each other and that is going to come as a huge shock. this whole divine angle perhaps was to show that this isn't a fling but a far more serious breaking of relationship.

and yea, I don't think he feels his love for nandini a mistake at all because he is even muttering her name in his sleep. and when the phone rings, his entire body language is completely focused on the phone much to mouli's shock and anger. you can almost see him battle his urge to pick up the phone vs keeping the peace with mouli.



Sorry, I have taken two of your posts and merged it here but I just wanted to say that you were bang on about the above.

His mom and Mauli did not realize how serious he is and that he will actually leave his house (I was surprised too). I think today Mauli actually broke, as all her hope in the possibility of a reconciliation completely died. It was heartbreaking to see that and Aditi portrayed it so well.

Regarding the phone call, I did not notice the body language yesterday but today when I saw him making the call, your words just came to me.



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Posted: 7 years ago
@mango_pudding @summerrain7
Just to keep the conversation going, wanted your views on Kunal leaving the house.

Was this always his intention or was he reacting to the situation?

Based on the cafe conversation, one would think that this was always his intention but his reaction from past couple of days showed something different so let me know your thoughts...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Pamk06 - He has left the house, but what surprised me was the fact that he has not gone to Nandini (as mentioned in the precap) . Did he go off somewhere to do some contemplation?
This is what I wanted to see him do long back. Isn't it a little too late to be doing this now? But then again, had he gone straight to Nandini I still would have cursed him for chucking Mauli out of his life so easily. I think all that conflicting emotions that we wanted to see earlier, is happening now, when the damage is already done and when he had already crossed that line.

Yesterday's episode was really sad to watch. Not used to seeing Mauli so underconfidant and fragile. She was so affected by her mother's words, then that phone call and password crap stabbing her again and again and then she had a whole new level of realization when Kunal actually walked out.

Coming to Nandini, I think I realized where my expectations are going wrong. In the confrontation between Mauli and Nandini, I think she asked her, " Kaise karte hai yeh" . And that's exactly what I wanted Nandini to ask herself, something like, " how can I do this to her" but like I said before, she has gone too far ahead where she can only regret and merely acknowledge the fact that unfortunately Kunal happened to be Mauli's husband. Maybe that's why her guilt is failing to make me feel for her.
And I really need to know her thoughts. Worrying and caring for Kunal is all fine, but I need to see what her thoughts are about their future. Because that cafe conversation gave us the impression that they have got it all figured out.

In between Rajdeep managed to crack me up again. But this really shouldn't be happening. As much as I love his quirky humor, I do not want to like the character , and it looks like he has some sinister plan cooking for Nandini. I think Mauli's mother should adopt him 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Pamk06 - He has left the house, but what surprised me was the fact that he has not gone to Nandini (as mentioned in the precap) . Did he go off somewhere to do some contemplation?

This is what I wanted to see him do long back. Isn't it a little too late to be doing this now? But then again, had he gone straight to Nandini I still would have cursed him for chucking Mauli out of his life so easily. I think all that conflicting emotions that we wanted to see earlier, is happening now, when the damage is already done and when he had already crossed that line.

Yesterday's episode was really sad to watch. Not used to seeing Mauli so underconfidant and fragile. She was so affected by her mother's words, then that phone call and password crap stabbing her again and again and then she had a whole new level of realization when Kunal actually walked out.

Coming to Nandini, I think I realized where my expectations are going wrong. In the confrontation between Mauli and Nandini, I think she asked her, " Kaise karte hai yeh" . And that's exactly what I wanted Nandini to ask herself, something like, " how can I do this to her" but like I said before, she has gone too far ahead where she can only regret and merely acknowledge the fact that unfortunately Kunal happened to be Mauli's husband. Maybe that's why her guilt is failing to make me feel for her.
And I really need to know her thoughts. Worrying and caring for Kunal is all fine, but I need to see what her thoughts are about their future. Because that cafe conversation gave us the impression that they have got it all figured out.

In between Rajdeep managed to crack me up again. But this really shouldn't be happening. As much as I love his quirky humor, I do not want to like the character , and it looks like he has some sinister plan cooking for Nandini. I think Mauli's mother should adopt him 😆


For me, I just felt his leaving was very abrupt. Both times, his mother asked him to leave and he just went. He did not even try to explain or put his side of things, not even to his mother. Infact, when I look back, not once did he try to reconcile, try to explain nor his body language gave that indication. It was as if he was already prepared and ready for the aftermath. I thought his silence was his acceptance of his crime but I think it was also a sign of his helplessness because of his feelings. They have shown us many times that he cannot lie, even yesterday and hence I guess he could not tell Mauli that is Nandini who holds his heart and not her so he was silent.
I also like the fact he did not go immediately to Nandini which shows that Mauli devastation did have a impact on him and he is not an insensitive brute.

Yes, I think during the whole confrontation as @mango_pudding said, Mauli was only thinking that it was fling, physical attraction, a mid-life crisis on his part and hence I guess she was ready to forgive him. I think the whole family thought that they will reconcile as if its a glitch in a marital life. Yes, Kunal has made a mistake but lets forgive and forget for the greater good. Even Mauli was coming to terms of it. I think if it was only phone call, the damage would have been Ok but the password was the last straw. It actually screamed at her that he had seriously replaced her in his heart. HIs leaving home was the final nail in the coffin. Yesterday, in true sense, she broke completely.

Frankly, the more I see their reactions, the more I feel that we missed out on the path that CV's were taking. Like, I said before, it seems like the confession was not the start but the end and hence we did not see the guilt or those conflicting emotions at all on both of them. But, as you say, now that they have seen the impact of their actions, I want to hear that self talk or a conversation between them on the next steps and what they are thinking.

I do not like Rajdeep's character at all but his dialogues do make me laugh. Mauli's mom is another type of person that I hate. She is the perfect reflection of all those women, who just do not want to change with time. Like, who blames your own daughter for your SIL misdeeds man. Its the attitude, right, someone is already broken, break them more and they take pleasure in it. I would have expected that from the MIL but here too CV's have shown the exact opposite which is a welcome change.

Rajdeep is going to get that "Mahila morcha" to Nandini house. I hope this time they show her standing up for herself and not wait for Kunal to come and save her.

PS: Also, I was reading that one of the sublines of this show is that "'Pyaar ek se zyada logo se ho sakta hai..par Aashiqui sirf ek hi se hoti hai'".
I guess this is what they following and if I see the show from this perspective, leaving the EMA aside, it does make sense.




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