Crisp Bytes SC - 30th May - Page 5

Originally posted by: sraskumud

1st of all if i sound wierd today then dont bash me plzz ...kkk so cmng back for today's epi i'm with team kumud ..n her reactions too...cmmn guys we need to understand her ...what i thnk.she's not angry n saras...but on herself n her actions she did ...(u knw it). she may be feelng little bit scared for what happend( not guilty)...coz our society thnk 1 should be n limit n shuldnt crossed line before marriage n all...n that's why she is puzzled n thnk it too be sin..kumud is pride of parentsn family ..her parents trust her lot...n thnks that she wont do any thng like that at end of day its not boy but girl is blamed ...but their story is differnt n so their journey of love...

.but the way they both see their love is different n the way the society will c n judge is totally different n harsh.

.she know that she love saras..n their love is eternal but what...for saras he wont understand her feelings now for what happened.it will take tym...but i 'm sure he'll clear everythng..n will fully support her..n will gain her confidence n most important her faith in his love for kumud back again...

I won't bash you, I promise J

I understand society doesn't allow s** prior to marriage. What about kiss? What about staying out of the house entire night during pot making and other time? I understand social pressure and respect that. Social condition says no touching at all...as it will lead to s**. So if Kumud has such high social value...why did she allowed that. Why didn't she said No? She wants it but she doesn't want it.

SLB messed it up. Where was passionate and cute scenes?

Originally posted by: Infofan

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Arshiji - aapke charan kahan hai??? What a beautiful post. You have justified the episode really well. I would not rate it as high you did today.

I am not judging the morality of the act but I did think Kumud was being way too harsh on Saras. She is not blaming Saras though, she blames herself for loosing control. Scares me to think what penance they are talking about..

I understand that PMS is a taboo esp in rural settings and with her kind of upbringing and set of values. Completion of rituals, Gandharva vivah style without witnesses and her family giving her away is not sanction enough for Kumud to do the deed. So it is a sin for her. I just wish I had not heard her call it a sin though. I felt so bad for Saras. Uff, these raging haarrmonesss 😆

I wonder if there was there pressure from SP who likes to play it safe and pride themselves on their shows promoting values and morals to make some changes, to tone it down after the media went crazy with reports of bold scenes!! If PMS was such an issue, don't approve the script from PH.

I think so Nandy, while they went so far as to show PMS, the guilt and Rona dhona had to be shown to keep the ammas and aunties happy

I also wonder if this is it or are they going to show some scenes in flashbacks? If this is it, I hope the various writers of the articles, interviewers who ceaselessly hyped the PMS watched the 'bold and steamy' scene today. 🤣 Honestly, I was not expecting much but this was even less than I was expecting. It did not even come across very sensual IMHO.

I doubt If we will see any lovey covey scenes, it was like they could show PMS, but not make it look steamy , or good, kind of like the statutory warning on a cigarette packet, SLB must have been allowed this with a lot of riders

I did not like the pati parmeshwar ka charan washing either. Dear Lord.

The Desais seem to forget completely that Guman will be Kumud's mother-in-law. They think she will be happy with Saras, in LN's house!!

Dukhba pay attention to your daughter.

Bechara Gautam really sounded and looked unwell. Loved the way Saras paused before he said '''.. mistake of coming close to you. He is deeply hurt by her attitude.

Pregnancy being the possibility of marriage would be so cliched- I sincerely hope not, just the social stigma of PMS info getting out in public is cause enough for a rushed marriage to Pramad.

Arshiji, aapka post toh bahut popular ho gaya hai. I see so many new members and newbies posting here. Welcome to CB everyone.

Edit - she admits she does not want him to come close to her as she does not want to repeat the same mistake again. She is taking responsibility of loosing control, not blaming Saras.

Edit 2 - Nice parallels between Sejal and her amrud wala's wedding and Samud scenes.

Originally posted by: kaadal

Don't you think that would mean she didn't trust Saras nor understand his love for her ? I hope not, that would be really look bad on their relationship.

Originally posted by: smrth

Just watched it again...Kadal one edit correction in my post you quoted...I meant 'Guman was nailing/harping'...

And no Kadal, look again. She is not distrusting him. She specifically answered his query. And she is taking blame on herself, " I should have been more circumspect". She is not blaming him. She is more angry on herself. At the moment Her total attention is towards a 'moral boundary' that her parents have 'entrusted' on her. Look at the 'remorse' in her eyes...Right now this parental bond is superseding her new bond. And why not? In her eyes, this new bond will ascend to primacy over all other bonds when it will acquire sanctity of spousal bond. Now Saras is assuming this as already 'achieved'. And that's the difference between two viewpoints. I feel.

Originally posted by: arshicritic

Yes, I know what you are saying, but it was her social conditioning speaking

And since she this is her mental makeup, she should not have given in

It is only as wrong as you feel it to be!

And this is where she blames herself,

If she is so convinced that this is paap

Then she needed to stop herself, and she blames herself

And I blame her too, as she finds it so wrong, she shouldn't have allowed it to happen

But as to why she should think so, I understand

Originally posted by: Infofan

Are we going to see the dreaded moonlighting curse effect here now onwards?🤢

Originally posted by: smrth

Nandy...let us remember her accompanying dismay, " tumhe sirf 'paane' ki zid he?" She may well figure 'this' as ''acquisition'...which is what Guman was nailing!

@hgg, we may still have beautiful week...Saras will not give up easily...😆