Crisp Bytes SC - 30th May - Page 6

Originally posted by: hotdogg

sorry...just personally did not get the hysterical reaction and blame game on saras...

However this could be the reason for kumud's reaction ...

- saras calls her to meet him.

- then he gives the speech about the auspicious ocassion and then about husband & wife.

- kumud is all lovey dovey...the garland thing is a very simple expression of her calling out to him as her husband, then the feet washing (found it pretty regressive personally)..

- then saras get more lovey dovey...the paint on face and wiping (did not understand the significance of what that was about)

- then he holds her back and then the PMS

from kumud's perspective...she was expecting simple lovey dovey stuff, but our dikra just did not stop at that and went all the way...with her consent of course...but she was in a blissful happy state just because of saras proposal and that the man of her dreams is finally going to marry her.. she would have done anything saras asked her at that time...

i am not saying saras is guilty or manipulative...just that his expression of love was in a different way...

..but if she was not expecting it, would she feel she was emotionally manipulated into PMS by saras...she went from light touching to PMS by saras...with nothing in between...

..imagine a traditional brought up girl, who has a certain clear perspective of what is right & wrong, who knows she is given the freedom to do as she pleases due to the trust her parents have on her...and on the day her wedding is announced she ends up having PMS..

its not about love, intention of love (she replies in the negative when saras asks her if she doesn't trust his love), whether she did it voluntarily or involuntarily, whether she could have stopped him (no way with her state if bliss, she would have followed saras to hell and back)..

..for her personally its about the line that has been crossed irreversibly...and falling short of all the trust her parents had on her...a breaking of a personal red line..therefore a personal failing...from which she can never come back...maybe that's the 'paap'he refers too,,,

the emotional grief / guilt will far outweigh the feeling of love momentarily...

Originally posted by: hotdogg

@infofan @smrth

banking on my theory of CVs sorting out things in 1-2 epi following a confounding one...

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Originally posted by: smrth

Thanks Hgg for putting the things in perspective...

I felt a directorial lapse; she was directed way too 'bitter' than needed for a remorse. And sudden shift from a rapturous coyness to a biting 'aversion'...if only a remorse with a tinge of wilful fondness for the moment, and she would have been better put, I suppose.

Originally posted by: smrth

Thanks Hgg for putting the things in perspective...

I felt a directorial lapse; she was directed way too 'bitter' than needed for a remorse. And sudden shift from a rapturous coyness to a biting 'aversion'...if only a remorse with a tinge of wilful fondness for the moment, and she would have been better put, I suppose.

Originally posted by: hotdogg

then the feet washing (found it pretty regressive personally)..

Originally posted by: Infofan

@ Hotdogg - great post

@ Samarth - bold - agreed

Can someone tell me what does ehsaas mean? Feeling/emotions?

Saras tells Kumud - bahut se ehsaas adhoore hain, unhe poora karna ka mauka do gi? (something similar) Is he seeking permission to take the relationship to the next level? Which adhoore ehsaas is he talking about?

I personally did not think he was at that point, PMS was a spur of the moment act for both.

Originally posted by: Infofan

@ Hotdogg - great post

@ Samarth - bold - agreed

Can someone tell me what does ehsaas mean? Feeling/emotions?

Saras tells Kumud - bahut se ehsaas adhoore hain, unhe poora karna ka mauka do gi? (something similar) Is he seeking permission to take the relationship to the next level? Which adhoore ehsaas is he talking about?

I personally did not think he was at that point, PMS was a spur of the moment act for both.

Originally posted by: Adiani

Eitherway, now there is a perfect setting for Miss Ekta Kapoor's style of family drama. Ghuman can accuse Kumud of stooping too cheap, to marry a rich man. Family honor, Kumud has to turn away from Saras. That will be the day of my yet another failed attempt to stick to a desi serial, sad.

Or typical SC way, Kumud standing up for herself. I'm pinning for it.

There is unanimous disapproval about Kumud's hysterical reaction today on the forum.

Wondering which sort of houses have they put TRP meteres.