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MoronsKiMallika

@MoronsKiMallika

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: curledup

I really feel to hug you right now. THANK YOU, Mala is to some extent resposible for Rudra, if she really loved him she should have used the power of her motherhood and Tejawat to get him into her life, she needs to own up to her fault not sit down and cry the Niagra falls into the haveli.

Whatever came out from Rudra's mouth today for Mala was because of Dilsher, he seems to slip in an out of the father role really easily.

Also I feel as tho your display icon reflects my inner self right now 😆

Awww.🤗...i am with you on this. Dilsher and Maala were always messed up and i have no sympathy for parents who destroy lives of their kids just because they were mentally and emotionally juvenile.

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MoronsKiMallika

@MoronsKiMallika

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: arshi_r_da_bst.

can't agree more with u.. 👏

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Aashifa

@curledup

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Siesta

Completely agree...the only person i feel for in this whole mess is Rudra.

Dilsher is a coward who cannot own up to his mistakes and fed Rudra poison for so many years and conveniently expects Rudra to accept his mother. I agree that Mala had the right to leave an abusive marriage but if she had the courage to do that in that kind of setting and background, why didn't she have the courage to take her son. So both the parents are at fault and Rudra has suffered and is suffering as a result of their cowardice, lies and mistakes.

Thats the funny thing with some parents (its not actually funny) but their actions have a direct impact on the child, and if its a bad one then it can result in what we have here. I totes agree, Rudra is a prime example of how much of an affect parents can have on their children

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Aashifa

@curledup

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

Awww.🤗...i am with you on this. Dilsher and Maala were always messed up and i have no sympathy for parents who destroy lives of their kids just because they were mentally and emotionally juvenile.

you and me both sista 😆

Edited by curledup - 11 years ago

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180506

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Really well said! I still have to watch the episode but even in the preview I felt conflicted- Rudra should not be able to verbally abuse his mother as there is so much more to the story but the thing is : NO ONE IS TELLING HIM THE TRUTH! Hell we don't even know what the truth is 100%. It's just getting a bit too convoluted for my understanding.

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kiran khurana

@.Kiran.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

I love you Ashifa! Thank you for this post. I haven't watched today's episode but I do not why the family members expect Rudra to take the first step and behave as if everything is back to normal. Why aren't Dilsher and Mala take the step? Why aren't they being forced to take the step? What have they really done to apologize for their failed parenting? What have they really done to make it up to their son? What have they done to make him understand?

Dilsher still hasn't talked to Rudra or apologized for the other day when he told him not to interfere.

Why is everyone expecting Rudra to listen to Mala? Why should he? Why doesn't she actually show him why he should give her a chance to explain? Why isn't she proving him wrong?

SO many question and no answers. Rudra is the only character in the show right now that I have sympathy for. All other characters are either annoying or I simply dislike.

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Arooj_007

@Arooj_007

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

I have not watched the episode yet, nor the precap, so if the creatives are suggesting that Mala left because of an abusive relationship, then are they being inconsistent... What happened to the fact about feeling the guilt for what happened to Mohini and leaving for that? Whatever...

Nobody should stay in an abusive relationship, I totally get that! So not holding anything against Mala for that, if that is the reason she left. But I still do not sympathize with her. You know why? Because she showed selfishness... If she left her child with an abusive man, then she is really messed up. Not necessarily physical abuse, but mental abuse! If she herself experienced that, then how could she leave her child in that mess? Whichever angle I look from, Mala is selfish and a coward... So no sympathy from me!! Dilsher is a scumbag who has been lonely for too long and is hoping he gonna get lucky with Mala one of these days😆 Ain't gonna happen😳

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CyberOstrich

@CyberOstrich

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

@ curledup- I have not seen todays episode but from what had been taking place in the last week- it has been disturbing to see Mala being glorified as some bechaari and abla naari here and just because she might be nice to others and loving as thakurain maasa- it doesnt absolve her of her guilt. If they showed today that she was in an abusive relationship- I do sympathise - but not for keeping Rudra in the dark for 15 years and absconding from his life. BUT what rankles me the most about her that IF she would not have found out that Thakur is a scumbag- then- would she have been so eager to come back to the family fold?

And Dilsher has dissapointed even more in this track- with constant toxic dose of 'khoobsoorat aurat' jaap and that to his very OWN SON- a very impressionable young kid- instead of being there for him and be his solace in the dark times when his mom left! even the worst of the parents try to shield their kids from ugliness in such cases! And now after 15 years- just because Dilsher is older and has suddenly become wiser- he's repentant and expects his son to forget everything in a jiffy?!! The thing I detest the most is that they are making Rudra the BAD ONE here- the VILLAN who refuses to see sense!! He has suffered the MOST here- whatever the reasons were and he has all the rights to be angry and not wanting to see the face of his mother- badmouthing her- wanting to run away is a very mild reaction IMO- people in his position would do much worse!

But this is a soap and everything will be hunky-dory in a few days and Mahaan Maa will be redeemed very soon- just because she gave birth to him- how can she not be mahaan?!