Right- So, Mala? - Page 5

Originally posted by: babyji

MKM, first of all ...great to see you...pl do this often...Ok now to the point ... don't you think Paro is being unreasonable with Rudra too ? Right now,he needs to get out just get out & be with her so shouldn't she have atleast done that for him ? He is going through so much, does he not need a break ? Isn't Paro being hopeless too ?

Originally posted by: loveanime

I salute you guys and bow down humbly.

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In all that is holy can you please tell me how does this new revelation make MALA the abusive wife look any better. An abusive husand cannot be a good father, just like an abusive mother cannot be a good mother.

Infact mentally I was pleading in my mind for the writers to make Mala leave her family because she was in love with Tejawat becaue that I can understand and it redeemable. What she supposedly did is a million times worst because a good mother would never walk away from her child and leave him at the mercy of an abusive parent. I want to like her character only because of all the preaching Paro is doing becausebeing irritated at Mala means I am pissed at Paro too.

Couples can fall out of love especially if there was not much love to begin with, people get divorced for this reason, and move on with other partners. It might be traumatic for the children but here in the west when the parents get divorced there is joint custody so children turn out alright and are not too damaged and if there is love kidsdo understand parents are not together not because of them and it is notTHEIR FAULT. All this generous thinking did not happen in Rudra's case. The parent who walked out did not think of his well being only sought to rescue herself and the parent who was left behind didn't let the boy live. Mala is abused but from what is shown she didn't put any fight to hold on to Rudra, as a mother did she not consider how will her son live with a man who is abusive, how is phone calls to her BIL ensure Rudra's safety. Infact Dilsher ended up doing what Mala should have feared when walking out, he did abuse his son emotionally and made his childhood miserable. It is a whole other problem that she went on pick another traitorous husband, so it was in Rudra's good fortune that he didn't grow up with Tejawat. But the tragedy of this situation is neither Dilsher or Mala should have raised him because both would have ruined him either ways.

I understand Dilsher for not speaking up, if he was the tormentor he is not going to own up to it. What is he going to tell Rudra yeah I tortured your mother she walked out on me, but I didn't let her take you, look onthe bright sideshe ended up withTejawat so it all worked out and oh yeah I tortured you because I was just pissed at your mommy for running off, btw never mind all that I have changed I am such a jolly fella now and mummy after two abusive marriages she has learned her lesson too or atleast I hope so, so give us a big hug and a chrismas smileson so we can be one big happy family. If I was Rudra I would just pack my bags and walk out with or without Paro.

Originally posted by: _SenbonZakura_

I might not be the right person to answer you.. And my answer may not make any sense either. But ohh well.

Paro isn't really being hopeless.

She had vowed, almost more than once, that she'll heal him. That she'll make him happy. Teach him to live life again.

Now see, he may have accepted her love... He may have accepted that he loves her.

But one mention, one word, one memory of any random object pointing towards his mother... And he goes back to being the ice cold one again.

He becomes frigid. He becomes emotionless.

And think what would happen to Paro's emotional state. Going from happy to confused to dealing with his sudden anger.

She wants him to be whole again. She doesn't like him broken. She is not Laila. She wouldn't take him if he is this battered.

That is why she is so adamant on this issue. That is why she is saying, "Manne sab theek karne deejiye Major-saab."

Agreed, that neither Mala nor Dilsher deserve to be forgiven by Rudra.

But sometimes, you forgive not to let the other person off the hook, but to move on and become better yourself.

That is what Paro wants.

Never be confused that she is doing this for Maa-sa or Bapu-sa... No. Nothing except Rudra matters.

Originally posted by: _SenbonZakura_

I might not be the right person to answer you.. And my answer may not make any sense either. But ohh well.

Paro isn't really being hopeless.

She had vowed, almost more than once, that she'll heal him. That she'll make him happy. Teach him to live life again.

Now see, he may have accepted her love... He may have accepted that he loves her.

But one mention, one word, one memory of any random object pointing towards his mother... And he goes back to being the ice cold one again.

He becomes frigid. He becomes emotionless.

And think what would happen to Paro's emotional state. Going from happy to confused to dealing with his sudden anger.

She wants him to be whole again. She doesn't like him broken. She is not Laila. She wouldn't take him if he is this battered.

That is why she is so adamant on this issue. That is why she is saying, "Manne sab theek karne deejiye Major-saab."

Agreed, that neither Mala nor Dilsher deserve to be forgiven by Rudra.

But sometimes, you forgive not to let the other person off the hook, but to move on and become better yourself.

That is what Paro wants.

Never be confused that she is doing this for Maa-sa or Bapu-sa... No. Nothing except Rudra matters.

Originally posted by: Erika1

yes the heroine wants to heal the hero, but she herself knows that it will take TIME. So why the heck is she rushing him and trying to force her ideology onto him, if she loves him enough than she should accept him warts and all.
And right now I see from his erratic behavior that its getting a little too much for him, so she should consider his feelings and go away with him for a few days. If the mother could have waited 15 years to see son again then a few day wouldn't make a difference for her would it.
And if mother really like her son she would have found some way of keeping in touch with him, if not with him then with what he is doing, getting in touch with uncle who doesn't know where hero is is not good enough for me.
These two parents doesn't deserve to have kids is my opinion. Now the hero become the father punching bag.

He is a bsd officer and I wish the creatives will maintain some sort of aura around him, leave him with some of his masculinity for crying out loud, the father didn't need to SLAP HIM.
I am terribly upset with this.

I can slap the creatives instead.🥱😆

Originally posted by: curledup

Essentially what the CV's have done and do pardon my French, is, they've screwed over Rudra (really wanted to use the F word) and asked Paro to clean up the mess

Originally posted by: _SenbonZakura_