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Posted: 11 years ago
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No, you are not over-criticizing or over-sympathizing. All said and done here, the facts are:

1. Rudra's mother may have been in an abused marriage but that is no excuse for not fighting for a son she claims to love so much. If your life is a mess, its sad but if that mess trickles into someone's life, its your problem. Mala had every right to walk out of this marriage but she had no right to destroy Rudra. If she had the guts to walk out of the haweli, she should have had the guts to fight for Rudra. I HATE people with selective courage.

2. Dilsher suddenly seems a convenient father. When Maala was not there, Rudra was his punching bag and venom foam. When Maala is back, Rudra is suddenly expected to forget the 15 years of hatred and disgust fed into him.

Nothing changes. Dilsher and Maala were always hopeless. They still are. And am sure that even the writers know it - it shows.

Good post.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: CrazyBoy-.Hd.-


See I think rudra will know thebtruth soon.

And moreover wat dilsher did today was not totally wrong.
Coz he knows that mala wasnt wrong and he was unable to listen what rudra said.
Becouse no matter what rudra dont have a right to point on any women's character before knowing her story.

I know the slap was not also right but it also wasnt too wrong.

To an extent I cannot justify the slap, Rudra is only spitting out what Dilsher fed him, he is in the wrong for accusing someone to be of 'low-character' and whatever comes under the defintion and yes he needed to be stopped but Dilsher can't blame him for saying all this.
For Rudra the whole concept of 'mother' is lost, especially on Mala and then to force it on him is like 'say what dilsher?'
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: curledup


I feel sad for him too, trust me (this has never happened to any other male character EVER!) but the sense of maturity and ownership to ones faults seems lost in the show right now?


exactly!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post.. What bothers and confuses me the most is Dilsher's behavior towards Mala. He seems ok with her even though he was the one who poisoned Rudra's head against her. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

No, you are not over-criticizing or over-sympathizing. All said and done here, the facts are:


1. Rudra's mother may have been in an abused marriage but that is no excuse for not fighting for a son she claims to love so much. If your life is a mess, its sad but if that mess trickles into someone's life, its your problem. Mala had every right to walk out of this marriage but she had no right to destroy Rudra. If she had the guts to walk out of the haweli, she should have had the guts to fight for Rudra. I HATE people with selective courage.

2. Dilsher suddenly seems a convenient father. When Maala was not there, Rudra was his punching bag and venom foam. When Maala is back, Rudra is suddenly expected to forget the 15 years of hatred and disgust fed into him.

Nothing changes. Dilsher and Maala were always hopeless. They still are. And am sure that even the writers know it - it shows.

Good post.

I really feel to hug you right now. THANK YOU, Mala is to some extent resposible for Rudra, if she really loved him she should have used the power of her motherhood and Tejawat to get him into her life, she needs to own up to her fault not sit down and cry the Niagra falls into the haveli.
Whatever came out from Rudra's mouth today for Mala was because of Dilsher, he seems to slip in an out of the father role really easily.
Also I feel as tho your display icon reflects my inner self right now 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yours is a post like many other posts that will get lots of clarification as the story unfolds...mine at this point and ESP after seeing the preview is...to redeem Mala are they going to crucify dilshers character?!?like seriously...Infact what I feel is at this point the cvs seem to be buying time to come up with what it is exactly that they want to show..in regards to reason for Mala leaving..with a conservative rajesthan Backdrop domestic violence would fit apt...other than that I don't see much...if so like I said then the dragon eyes will be directed to dilsher...for me honestly I don't even think much about it...let the owners of the story do the thinking on that one...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rithureuben

Mala's reason for leaving is just the tip of the ice berg. Dilsher may not have been the nicest of husband and maybe she couldn't handle it anymore as per the precap. But why leave her son behind. How could it be enough that she came back for him a month later. Why is it ok simply because she missed him while being married to Tejawat. No, she has no sympathy from me.

And you are right about the fact that nobody in the family cares about her current marital status. Only Rudra has brought it up today and earned a slap for his effort.
Since Dilsher has brought Mala in with the excuse of pati patni ka mamla, shouldn't he sort it out himself and soon. Why is he expecting his son to respect his ex wife after all the bitterness he has fed him.

The characters need to own up to their mistake, as a parent if you make a decision it affects your child right, so? I concur to an extent where I do sympathise with Mala because of her abusive relationship but I do not pity her like everyone else on the show *rolls eyes* Dilsher needs to get his act together

Originally posted by: -Sanayaholic-

Nice post.. What bothers and confuses me the most is Dilsher's behavior towards Mala. He seems ok with her even though he was the one who poisoned Rudra's head against her. 😳

trust me love we all are 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

<font color="#000033">No, you are not over-criticizing or over-sympathizing. All said and done here, the facts are:
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<font color="#000033">1. Rudra's mother may have been in an abused marriage but that is no excuse for not fighting for a son she claims to love so much. If your life is a mess, its sad but if that mess trickles into someone's life, its your problem. Mala had every right to walk out of this marriage but she had no right to destroy Rudra. If she had the guts to walk out of the haweli, she should have had the guts to fight for Rudra. I HATE people with selective courage.</font>

<font color="#000033">2. Dilsher suddenly seems a convenient father. When Maala was not there, Rudra was his punching bag and venom foam. When Maala is back, Rudra is suddenly expected to forget the 15 years of hatred and disgust fed into him.</font>

<font color="#000033">Nothing changes. Dilsher and Maala were always hopeless. They still are. And am sure that even the writers know it - it shows.</font>

<font color="#000033">Good post.</font>


can't agree more with u.. 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: preetal

Yours is a post like many other posts that will get lots of clarification as the story unfolds...mine at this point and ESP after seeing the preview is...to redeem Mala are they going to crucify dilshers character?!?like seriously...Infact what I feel is at this point the cvs seem to be buying time to come up with what it is exactly that they want to show..in regards to reason for Mala leaving..with a conservative rajesthan Backdrop domestic violence would fit apt...other than that I don't see much...if so like I said then the dragon eyes will be directed to dilsher...for me honestly I don't even think much about it...let the owners of the story do the thinking on that one...

yours is a point I wanted to touch on but I forgot to in all my anger, they're destroying Dilshers character to make Mala seem like to 'I sacrficed my life for all of you' kinda person and for everyone to love and pity her 🥱. The CV's are confusing us all
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree...the only person i feel for in this whole mess is Rudra.

Dilsher is a coward who cannot own up to his mistakes and fed Rudra poison for so many years and conveniently expects Rudra to accept his mother. I agree that Mala had the right to leave an abusive marriage but if she had the courage to do that in that kind of setting and background, why didn't she have the courage to take her son. So both the parents are at fault and Rudra has suffered and is suffering as a result of their cowardice, lies and mistakes.

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