Right- So, Mala?

Right, so yeah,

I have taken a break from typing up my whatever-the-word-count-on-this-essay-is to write this because I for one am extremely frustrated. Also the amount of times I've typed a post like this and chosen not to upload is ridiculous. BEFORE I begin, I just want to say I'm not character bashing guys. I love every character (esp Mohini) in this show.

Now *holds hand* please for the love of everything that is holy don't shut your senses off to what I'm about to say, it's really frustrating when people write something and the audience interprets it as something else. (It's one of the reasons why authors hate people over-analysing work because the analysis misses the vital point)

I don't know whether anyone has picked up on this, or maybe y'all are just as sympathetic with Mala as the next character is on the show but why has everyone (besides Mohini, Sumer and Rudra) happily accepted her into the family? I cannot get my head around this.

Yes she has tried to explain herself to Rudra, but please, why the hell is he going to listen? For her (thanks to Dilsher) she is the evil mother who ran away with her lover friend.

And secondly, why the didly-in-squatting-hell (because squats are exercises from hell) has Dilsher not explained himself to Rudra? Technically he is all to blame here whether he did atyachaar on Mala or not, he has created this poisonous being called Rudra, fed him every bloody trust issue under the sun and yaha Dilsher-Banna is too busy running after his ex-wife?

I cannot understand this need to pity Mala man, she's human, she left for a reason, she got married to another dude, she needs to explain (and then everyone needs to understand) that she wasn't chained to Dilsher she was entitled to leave if he was being horrid to her, and then she got married. And then somehow (life is a circle folks) she came back into the Ranawat haveli and life is all sugar and candy for her, but Rudra? If anything she and Dilsher need to explain herself to Rudra, need to try and make him listen and understand.

I'm all for trusting the CV's and what have you but nah mate, when Rudra got slapped my heart broke. His father is to some crazy extent a role model, he has supposedly (all in Rudra's world of course) battled the loss of a run-away-wife, worked his limping leg and managed to maintain his dignity and then for him to be slapped by someone he holds so highly in some part of his brain? Nuh-uh Gauti.

Okay- my rant didn't make sense but for the life of me I couldn't type another word of my essay without getting this out there.

P.S: am I over-sympathising with Rudra? Nope.

P.P.S: I am not character bashing

P.P.P.S: I've watched Friday's episode a million times, needless to say I love Rudra. (Never fan-gurled so much in my life.)

Also guys if you're going to be negative and call me a crazy woman please just allow it. I open the floor for some constructive dialogue between myself and you guys.

love--------Unresed for my love, curledup!

Originally posted by: napstermonster

love

that's what the CVS want us to think...😆...all i can say it is Indian Daily soap...😊

Actually today and in the precape they showed/gave us hints that mala was in a abusive marrriage and thatz why she left.
I think this pus an end to all the things we have against mala.
Becouse who will except a women to stay in a abusive marriage.
And if u peeps thinks its to go qitha abusive marriages then Raam hi rakhe.

Afterall its an male dominated society.
Only females are blamed.

I totally agree with u.. what I feel is that both Mala & Dilsher r responsible 4 Rudra's poor state and they both should apologize and explain the real situation to him. what Dilsher did today was unacceptable. now I see why Rudra didn't like his father b4.. he may love rudra but he is not good father.. feeling really sad 4 Rudra..
P.S. If Dilsher was so abusive to mala, she did the right thing by leaving him.. I personally don't blame her 4 that (I shouldn't blame her). I'm just feeling sad coz after anything happens, Rudra is the one who suffers the most without him being wrong..

Originally posted by: CrazyBoy-.Hd.-

Actually today and in the precape they showed/gave us hints that mala was in a abusive marrriage and thatz why she left.
I think this pus an end to all the things we have against mala.
Becouse who will except a women to stay in a abusive marriage.
And if u peeps thinks its to go qitha abusive marriages then Raam hi rakhe.

Afterall its an male dominated society.
Only females are blamed.

Originally posted by: arshi_r_da_bst.

I totally agree with u.. what I feel is that both Mala & Dilsher r responsible 4 Rudra's poor state and they both should apologize and explain the real situation to him. what Dilsher did today was unacceptable. now I see why Rudra didn't like his father b4.. he may love rudra but he is not good father.. feeling really sad 4 Rudra..

Originally posted by: curledup

Yes I understand that I just don't understand what Dilsher is doing? He wants Rudra to live under the pretense that everything was all rainbows and unicorns and he isn't to blame but he wants Rudra to accept her? You get me right? I have nothing against Mala, and she had every right to leave

See I think rudra will know thebtruth soon.

And moreover wat dilsher did today was not totally wrong.
Coz he knows that mala wasnt wrong and he was unable to listen what rudra said.
Becouse no matter what rudra dont have a right to point on any women's character before knowing her story.

I know the slap was not also right but it also wasnt too wrong.

Mala's reason for leaving is just the tip of the ice berg. Dilsher may not have been the nicest of husband and maybe she couldn't handle it anymore as per the precap. But why leave her son behind. How could it be enough that she came back for him a month later. Why is it ok simply because she missed him while being married to Tejawat. No, she has no sympathy from me.