Originally posted by: BHAVII
I think this is the first time i am commenting on your post So hello Napstermonster 😊. Usually I tend not to read so long analysis (Its just me) but i must say when i started reading this one i was totally awe struck with the flow of writing. No repetiion of the idea. No going round the round the bush. 👏 You gave synopsis of 100 episode in just one post and that too very beautifully written😃
Coming back to your topic. I will just like to add my two cents worth to these two para😳
As per your own write up she believed in whatever Rudra said to date. So what changed overnight? Why is it so important for her to know now only? Why is his confession/declaration so important? What would happen to her if she hears something otherwise?
I get points you raised, and I'll answer them, if I may, Bhavi. What changed for her, overnight, is the realization that Rudra is a man, and not a god or someone pure who has been preserved in amber, waiting for her, untouched, for fifteen years. That he had a life, a past, and a sordid one--with a woman. You can say--how can she be so incredibly childish...but I'd respond--that is Paro--the best friend of butterflies, the child-woman who was a willing bride chosen by a Nag Devta for a man she has never met.
The fairy tale princess she looks like is mirror the untouched, innocent, fairy tale purity she has inside of her--and this is something Rudra has just broken. I like the Laila plot being introduced now, because this fantasy of hers needed to break, so she become a woman and not a devotee of a god in her marriage. She believed that Rudra is her God--and so she cannot believe that he is, in fact, just a man. And he has been screaming at her to understand this since the day he sees the love in her eyes--that he is a mamuli insaan. Koi devta nahi. And that man has a past. Its now--a question of being his choice--whether he will choose her, as his woman, or Laila, as his woman.
It makes him attainable, in a way that as a God, she could never have gotten him. Now, as her husband, she can. And that was needed, for Paro to be able to deal with the other things that are wrong with Rudra. She knows he cares for her. I don't think its at all a gamble for her--she knows she matters. She needs him to admit it. And she is his wife, and for the first time, we are seeing her realize that makes her his partner, with rights, and not his bhakti, with floral offering, at his feet.
The so called no wife/no woman does not go through the trauma of life that she has gone through🤔. Their wedding is not done in scary way. I understand that she needs to know the truth but why push some one. Does it not contradict what she said that love can not be forced? I don't say Rudra is right but here even Paro is not correct. They both are meant for each other. The only good thing about this relation is their open line of communication. And i am glad that they are using it to fullest. Seedhi baat no bakwaas kind.
I love that she can actually say even one of these things to him, and not hesitate. It is the first time in my 5 years of Hindi-serial watching I have seen such open communication, and, more importantly, FULL, honest, no holds barred communication between a couple. Its incredibly realistic, and I appreciate that the woman is the one who initiates it. Eevn more impressive--the very masculine hero does not see being honest with her, or being true to his emotions as some form of unmanliness. It makes them HOTTER, this communication, and certainly makes Rudra much more attractive!
We have the storm in the name of Laila and what is this baisa doing? Asking her to stay?😲 You tell me which normal wife will do that. Most of the baisa here will make way for her exit but Paro is just being Paro
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