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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow...beautifully analyzed...I have no words to describe...just a thought pops up...Words do matter...it matters a lot.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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beautiful post...welldone..explain the character of rudra and paro as they should be..full justice with them...good job..bravo
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Posted: 11 years ago
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OMG Naps!
What an amazing, beautiful, emotional, wonderful, well written post you have made.
Your wise words on not love but what a marriage should be really tugs the heart strings.
Every word you have written is true for the characters of Rudra and Paro.
Their journey has only yet began.
The future is yet to come.
Lets now enjoy their present.
Very well said. 👏
BIG BIG BIG HUGS from me. 🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you for the wonderful analysis on our Paro baisa, in Chandler's words 'can it be more clearer than this'. Everything is clear, the clouds have open up and I can see the sky clearly. Thanks!!!
Edited by shirinfarhaad - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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such a beautiful post, i enjoyed it immensely 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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...Paro's challenge here is to grow a copy of her heart in him and nurture it till it mirrors her own.

Only then will he accept that the heartbeat he experiences is not his but Paros. And probably then will not be crestfallen, as he would be otherwise, when she leaves and then get her back.

Basically, Paro is readying him to emerge stronger, understand, accept and respect her deal with Bholenath and then get her back too. Coz she cannot come back on her own. Promise jo kiya hai usney...

Hiral



Hiral!

Its such a pleasure to read your opinions here, because honestly if you right and they are deliberately building up Rudra's development intentionally, it would be a first for Indian serials. And I agree they need to, as you point out-- precisely because the CVs need him to be developed enough to NOT sink into a self destructive spiral when Paro leaves him. Such growth would be incredible, and I, for one, would be amazed and impressed.

I think that your analysis works, even if you see it as an instinctive thing Paro is doing.In tonight's episode he proves that he recognizes that the biggest form of love is one where there is sacrifice, were there is no expectation in the love other than just...the act of loving. He says he sees it in Paro, and this gives me a great deal of hope that he will understand her tyaag, when it comes, and not harm himself, or her, because of it. Thank you for bringing this up--no one else did, and I love you for it! Please do comment more, and I'll look up your comments as well since they are very insightful!

-Love,
Navin

Navinsa,

The pleasure is mutual dear. I love you too.

Frankly, I fail to see any difference between my Rudradev and his Parvati when it comes to matters of the heart.

You know they are like the gaps between the fingers of our hands, interconnected in every way. These gaps are filled when clasped by another hand, preferably of our loved and revered one, always.

Inseparable and mirrors of each others' soul.

Their sensitivity about each other is mind boggling and seldom found in runoff the mill couples, a plethora of whom claim to be madly and deeply in love with each other only to expose their claims when chinks of inequality, expectations and incompatibility start falling from their polished armors.

Frankly my Rudradev and Paro, they do not need anybody else as they are an universe amongst each other.

A beautiful world filled of love and longing. Sometimes I fail to understand why do they even speak.

The silence between them is so beautiful coz their souls converse constantly through their eyes.
And THIS is not a regular at all. It is a very unique trait and occurs only those who are so blessed or are the chosen ones.

I keep on reading in the forum that Paro is god's chosen one due to her rock solid faith in her Bholenath and so be it, but I think that mhaara Rudradev is my God's own child and that's why he has suffered so much to attain nirvana or God's love. And this nirvana comes to him in form of the another chosen one: Paro. His Paro.

I know the classic argument here is that God never lets his chosen ones suffer but what I am saying is that Rudra has suffered so much in his life of nearly three decades that there has to be a closure.
A closure that brings him neverending happiness and peace so that he can breathe pure and fresh air and not carbondioxide.

And as I see, both are changing. They were bound to.

Paro because she has began to understand that her Superman is human, that too an extremely scarred one and Rudra because he is fighting with himself for preparing towards taking baby steps in to an unchartered territory of humungous and unending love, happiness and peace.

Despite the entire Forum's almost collective call to see the old Rudra back, i think it may not happen to that extent or so soon.

He has been stung by love and trust me the feeling is so powerful that it dumbs down the negative emotions mainly like anger and restlessness or his tandav so to say.
He has mellowed and it's the first thing to experience when love happens.
There comes a time when presence of the special person calms you down so much that you would not like to go back to your old self as it hurts you big time now.
And plus you are extremely happy in the shadow of that beautiful person feeling so secured that negative emotions are often kept at bay. They are there but almost useless.

But all this is a figment of my own imagination and I am no Saurabh Tewary.

I got hooked to this show coz I was and am zapped by the similarity it mocks with my marriage so far ... but now with saas bahu appeasement tracks... the less said the better... I understand that this is how the business of television show is... however, despite this my Rudradev and his Parvati are treat to my eyes, heart and soul.

And I don't know where have I started and where am I going.. if I keep on going like this... see?

Rudradev has made me completely wayward I tell you...😆 anyways...
someone whom I love like crazy once told me that it takes at least eight births to know a person in and out ... and at least five years to know your partner in a marriage.
It took exactly five years for Nehal and me to figure out where we stood in our marriage and we did find us standing together...

One thing I am super confident about, going by personal experience, is that my Rudradev and his Parvati will soon find each other and how! and their journey together is going to be celestial...

Oh god.. I have goosebumps... and everyone says that Rudradev and Parvati are fiction???...

Edited by hiralnehal - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: napstermonster


Guinea:

I always love reading what you've commented because half the time I'm going "uhuh" and nodding my head to whatever you've said--so your appreciation means a great deal! Husbands are funny creatures, in a way-- the good ones are worth the work, and the best ones take the MOST work. I found myself watching the Paro of the past two weeks with steadily increasing levels of...well...shock.

My own nails curled into my palms as I watched Laila pollute the screen--and I kept thinking that I cannot get a handle on this girl! Is she numb? stupid? mahan to the point of being an alien? --until finally i stopped looking at what Paro was doing from the typical perspective of "Mine! Hands off, bitches" and started looking at it from the viewpoint of a really naiive, really young, really VERY much in love innocent-- and not the jaded harpy I am!

And hence, the post. I hoped it would at least remind those of us long serving members of "The Marriage Games" to take stock of the men in our lives, and remember why we married, and who we married, and appreciate them for a moment, for the men they are, and the wives they let us be.


I just read this napper baisa ...your liking and more importantly reading my posts means a lot .😃 At the end of the day what we are watching is a beautifully mounted daily soap ( personal opinion ofcourse 😆 ) it can go whichever the creatives / channels want ..., it will have no effect on our lives.

what you said in the last paragraph of your post hit home like anything . Simply wonderful .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _SilverLining_

I think this is more or less what has been in our minds, us who had been trying to defend Paro's actions from the beginning but no one but you could have put it this beautifully! As I read it, I got this feeling of satisfaction, I can't even explain it properly but this post explains Paro's character so aptly, I just felt really good reading it. I m not married but atleast I can try to understand those last few lines. Too beautiful for words, Napsterbaisa!!!



this is EXACTLY what i was thinking.. you know Navin.. I understand where this story is coming from.. did for a long time now, and like she said we have tried a lot to defend Paro, trying our best to put in to words what we felt.. but never as successfully as this..

and reading your post I realized i just felt sorry for the people who don't still get the beauty of this.. beauty of these 2 complex characters.. your post was so heart touching and beautiful that.. i honestly moved on from being angry.. i just felt very sorry cz its so beautiful and a person is lucky who can embrace the beauty of this..

take a bow Navin, u have exceeded urself!! 🤗

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post baisa loved it.
Bang on post.

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