Revisiting... - Page 4

Originally posted by: eveline

That was my first thought too, why didn't he leave her?? But then, when I rewatched the scene, I realized some things. He didn't leave cause he couldn't. Cause its an instinct. A natural ungovernable instinct, where Paro is concerned. He can never leave her in trouble, big or small. He has to help, protect, her. If he had paused to think, he would have walked away. But he didn't think, he just did what came naturally and protecting her honor comes naturally to him. Keeping her decent was his duty in a way.

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

Eve u said it beautifully!!

What I love da most about des two is how awkward they get

haha...exactly. From Paro's side it is understandable cause the girl is an innocent (and with her even that is an understatement, lets just say I have never come across such a female character ) But when Rudy Boy gets all shy and nervous and bashful...it is shooo damn cute. They both look like adorable school kids in the pathos of their first crush 😆!!

Originally posted by: gangaprakash38

Dear Eveline,
I am usually in agreement with your posts but today you have to forgive me. That scene did not have any romantic or respectful value behind it. I would not be able to talk for others but for myself, the scene did not evoke the targeted reaction in me. This is simply because I found the character playing the active part was out of character. At best, he was looking like a pre-pubertal boy in his first sexual exploits! He was not ringing true to Rudra's character. The tone in the below lines is severe and please note Eveline, it is not directed towards you but towards the team who made this scene.

What was he doing tying her dori? Especially when he wanted her out of his life... Just because he saw her backless he felt pulled towards her? Has she lost her hands? She could have easily washed her hand and tied her dori.. can't she? Why does she need his assistance in this simple task? The emotional connect which needs to be there for him to go towards her is totally lacking... why you ask.. then tell me if a respectable man comes across such circumstance what would he do? He would have felt embarrassed ... would turn around and leave from there... he would not go to assist her. The only man who would take that step towards her would be the one who is willing to have a physical relationship or who already has a physical relationship with that woman. No other instance is acceptable. Why? Lets just say it was Maithili who was in the kitchen.. then what? Would he have taken a step towards her to tie the dori? What would be the audience's reaction then... Would it be respectable in any manner? I am glad KCM has full back blouses!

You know what would have been a real plausible response from Rudra at that time?.. it would be that dialogue of Rudra which he used later in the episode. That she was shameless. At best, I would have thought that's what he would have thrown at her before storming out and it would have been believable. Not walking towards her like a pre-pubertal virginal boy .. all shy and eyes averted!

Hope my rant does not cause too much offensive on this forum but that scene was totally contrived and patched up.

Hello, and true friends are those who speak their minds honestly and such friends should always be appreciated 😊!! Yes, Rudra acts like a shy boy around her cause in essence this is his first love, his first real attraction, his first crush. He has been around Laila, but without being emotionally involved. She did not evoke and invoke anything in him. So, Paro is his first and that makes him unsure and nervous and shy.

Originally posted by: sho-shweet

loved ur post! Couldn't see this angle after the shameless comment.

Neither could I at that moment, cause the comment was very unsettling. But the re watch opened some doors for me 😛!!

Originally posted by: Aarya4ever...

Such a lovely post !!! Paro is bringing real Rudra in front of us. The episode was superb especially that Dori scene and when she hides her face on her chest

Paro will be the one to drag, push and pull him out of his miserable existence. Yes, she will be the one who will reveal the real Rudra not only to the world, but to himself too.

Originally posted by: Cara86

Beautiful post eveline 👏

That is exactly what i saw...that is Paro's Rudra!

As i was watching the dori scene, its nuances were totally lost on me as i was too preoccupied about how it was gonna be misconstrued.

And that is what Rudra did. He took something so innocent and labelled it as shameless. Btw i don't blame him. He's currently fighting his inner demons regarding his views on beautiful women and his growing feelings and attachment for Paro.

Its almost as if when he's spouting this venom at her that its also a way to control and banish her from becoming a part of him.

In any case, i rewatched the episode and watched each scene purely for that moment and not in fear of what was gonna happen next and I truly loved it.

Rudra's actions speak louder than his words, hence he couldn't leave her in that kitchen in that state cuz somewhere deep deep down, Paro is Rudra's.

I think the scene was lost on most of us, cause the fear of what will follow, left it totally unnoticed. I was sailing in the same boat. In fact his violent reaction made me go back and watch the scene at leisure to figure out what exactly happened there, who did what??

A very well written post and much needed. We all forgot about the beauty and purity of that scene because of what followed. There are so many layers to Rudra's character that we can never anticipate how he's gonna react. Rudra however flawed has always been an honorable man.

You have explained it really well! I loved that scene 😳

Originally posted by: eveline

Hello, and true friends are those who speak their minds honestly and such friends should always be appreciated 😊!! Yes, Rudra acts like a shy boy around her cause in essence this is his first love, his first real attraction, his first crush. He has been around Laila, but without being emotionally involved. She did not evoke and invoke anything in him. So, Paro is his first and that makes him unsure and nervous and shy.

If the guy wanted a physical relationship with her, he would have already forced himself on her. He had plenty of opportunities to use, abuse and molest the girl. But looking back you will notice, other than the break Paro campaign (where he was very honest about it to Paro), he has always maintained a respectful distance. If he wanted some kind of physicality, his actions would have been otherwise.

And if you observe carefully, his first instinct when he sees her bare back, is turning his face away and leaving. But then, his instincts take over. Its like he is forced to go and help her. Cause he just cant bear to see her in such a situation. His protectiveness for Paro rebels at leaving her in such a vulnerable state. Her honor means a lot to him. And if he was thinking at that point, he would have left, but he was just following his feelings and so couldn't help himself.

And no he wouldn't have done that with Maithilit coz she is his Bhabhi for God's sake. Draggin her or KCM in this seems totally inappropriate. How can we compare Paro and Maithili...its like comparing what you have for your brother with what you have for your love, husband, boyfriend...highly unappropriate comparsion!!

A point here, it was not Rudra that I felt was out of character, it was Paro. If a girl knows her dori is untied and blouse slipping off, why in the world would you turn around and show the guy your bare back. Your first instinct would and should be to hide your back. What should have been more important for a girl, not showing him her face or not showing him her bare back?? Her priority should have been her slipping garment, and not mooh dikhai to Rudra!! Also she could have washed her hands immediately...I didn't see Rudra stopping her or preventing her from doing so. Why stand there like a statue, showing what should not have been shown?? What was that I am so helpless that I cant even wash my hands and manage my clothes expression??

But to be honest, Its neither Paro nor Rudra, such senseless and illogical scenes are thrown in for enforced intimacy and manipulated romantic scenes. All cvs do this, if you look carefully, most of such hot scenes tend to be totally senseless and meaningless, yet they are pushed in just to satisfy our cravings for close romance.

Very good answer! I do have to say something about Paro though. She has always been shown to be the stubborn, innocent and naive girl. Now when Rudra told her to not show her face, she didn't understand the jist of that. She literally thought she can't show her face. So her first instinct when Rudra came into the kitchen was to turn around so he couldn't see her face. Then she realized "oh no my dori is untied" and you saw her arms moving to find the dori. She also tried to see from the corner of her eye if Rudra left or not. She was uncomfortable. She was even trying to hide it with her dupatta at one point but Rudra came to her rescue by then, unexpected from her side. That's why when she turned around to see him and she saw him right behind her, she was slightly shocked. I think that sort of falls in her character.

Originally posted by: eveline

Hello, and true friends are those who speak their minds honestly and such friends should always be appreciated 😊!! Yes, Rudra acts like a shy boy around her cause in essence this is his first love, his first real attraction, his first crush. He has been around Laila, but without being emotionally involved. She did not evoke and invoke anything in him. So, Paro is his first and that makes him unsure and nervous and shy.

If the guy wanted a physical relationship with her, he would have already forced himself on her. He had plenty of opportunities to use, abuse and molest the girl. But looking back you will notice, other than the break Paro campaign (where he was very honest about it to Paro), he has always maintained a respectful distance. If he wanted some kind of physicality, his actions would have been otherwise.

And if you observe carefully, his first instinct when he sees her bare back, is turning his face away and leaving. But then, his instincts take over. Its like he is forced to go and help her. Cause he just cant bear to see her in such a situation. His protectiveness for Paro rebels at leaving her in such a vulnerable state. Her honor means a lot to him. And if he was thinking at that point, he would have left, but he was just following his feelings and so couldn't help himself.

And no he wouldn't have done that with Maithilit coz she is his Bhabhi for God's sake. Draggin her or KCM in this seems totally inappropriate. How can we compare Paro and Maithili...its like comparing what you have for your brother with what you have for your love, husband, boyfriend...highly unappropriate comparsion!!

A point here, it was not Rudra that I felt was out of character, it was Paro. If a girl knows her dori is untied and blouse slipping off, why in the world would you turn around and show the guy your bare back. Your first instinct would and should be to hide your back. What should have been more important for a girl, not showing him her face or not showing him her bare back?? Her priority should have been her slipping garment, and not mooh dikhai to Rudra!! Also she could have washed her hands immediately...I didn't see Rudra stopping her or preventing her from doing so. Why stand there like a statue, showing what should not have been shown?? What was that I am so helpless that I cant even wash my hands and manage my clothes expression??

But to be honest, Its neither Paro nor Rudra, such senseless and illogical scenes are thrown in for enforced intimacy and manipulated romantic scenes. All cvs do this, if you look carefully, most of such hot scenes tend to be totally senseless and meaningless, yet they are pushed in just to satisfy our cravings for close romance.