Originally posted by: Vibhishna
I am familiar with the fact that Radha was never a wife of Lord Krishna. And there are stories which say that she was in fact married to someone else. There are countless stories on how Radha's love was compared to that of Krishna's wives.As for Goddess Lakshmi taking it as humiliation that Lord Vishnu had accepted so many wives, I am not sure. I have read that the many women who had asked Ram to marry them were told to meet him in Dwapara Yuga when he will be incarnated as Krishna.The reason why Sesh Nag was born as Lord Vishnu's elder brother was this:When the time of Lord Krishna's birth was nearing, Sesh Nag asked that he be born as Lord Vishnu's eighth incarnation's elder brother. In the Tretha Yuga, when he was born as Lakshman - as the younger brother of Lord Vishnu's incarnation Ram, he was unable to prevent all the tragedies that happened to him (Ram). Lord Ram was banished from the kingdom, had to tread through all sorts of thorny paths and suffered so much. Sesh Nag did not want to see all this happen again. This time he requested that he be born as the elder - to protect him at all times. It was readily granted by Lord Vishnu.
I am reading a translation of Shrimad Bhagavatam right now and there is no mention of Radha in the original Bhagavatam. Yes, there is Raas Leela with the gopis and there is one special gopi there but there is no mention of her name. Radha as the name of the special gopi was more of a later invention it seems. All the gopis were married but it is mentioned in the Bhagavatam that when the raas leela was happening the gopis had a "double" who went about their daily chores and their husbands never knew that the gopis had actually left. Therefore, this is all leela again. The explanation says that the "doubles" doing their daily chores was just the physical body of the gopis and the ones with Krishna was their souls. So the souls were with Krishna while the physical body of the gopis was with their husbands.
For the wives, again it is just leela. It says that Krishna splits himself into 16,000+ Krishnas for the sake of his wives. However, when he goes to the Rajya Shaba in the morning only one Krishna leaves (the 16,000+ Krishnas merge into one Krishna). So again it all just his leela and maya, the illusion of 16,000+ wives and 16,000+ Krishnas.