Where was this Zoya when she was slapped? - Page 4

Despite what Asad says Zoya has tazeeb and adab -

Note that whenever Asad shouts at her in front of other people she never shouts back at him - she tries to reason but Asad has previously always been too mad to listen or look at her point of view due to his own hang ups (this week when Zoya was pulling Tannu's burnt skin we saw that this is changing and credit goes to Dilshad) .The same way even today when Dilshad was there Zoya was mute and giving her MIL a helpless look.

However if you note every time he has shouted at her when it's just the 2 of them - she has given it back to him -their first meetings, the episode with house rules, the meteorite shower night, after mangalpur when she makes paste for his hand. So today it was the same - she gave it to him in private plus i think she was really hurt for she is trying so hard to get his approval to say everything is real and not nakli - instead he said the opposite - even i did not realize how much she is trying to mould herself into the kind of girl he likes and i have watched the episodes sooo many times .

This is what Dilshad means when she says Zoya is very "samajdar". Appi and Jiju have raised her well!

strangely I was thinking it's no different than if my bro pisses me off at my uncles - i wait till we are in the car or alone and take it up with him or if i get pissed at my significant other we don't argue in front of everyone and air our dirty laundry for all to see - we do it in private coz despite all the differences we respect each other!

Now to the matter of Zoya not giving it to him when he slapped her is coz

1) She felt responsible for Dilshad being shot - Marium was in the city coz Zoya helped her

2) She was just as worried sick abt Dilshad as Asad was

3) She went to Asad to comfort him and if lashing out at her and blaming her helped him cope she took it silently - we can see from other cases too she will do anything for Asad

4) As my mom always advises that when someone screams at u and even if u scream back louder u will not have much impact or get ur point across to that angry / hurt person - u might feel better but the communication gap will be there regardless. however if u wait and later when the person has calmed down and talk it out rationally / reasonably when neither person it hyper or super sensitive you get the matter resolved much better - that's exactly what happened between Asad and Zoya when he took the black bitter coffee out to her