Well Done Asad Beta...

deejayaqueel

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Posted: 12 years ago

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... 'Nuf said... No More. 😕😕😳😳

PS: Couldnt let it rest at 'no more'... so this is what happens in a country where a woman fighting for a rape victim herself is at the receiving end when the menfolk fail to bring the culprits to justice, letting them off with a warning...

And then slap the women for not knowing better...🤢

I know people will say many of us are making too big a deal of a rom-com... but if we pull back and look at the larger picture mentioned above, then the makers of QH appear in a poor light

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Posted: 12 years ago

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So much so for hoping that Asad's 'respect' for women extends to this point...

Sorry! we forgot, he already comes from a judgmental mindset starting with the assumption that the woman is to blame... which is why she only had to utter 'Mr. Khan...' and he let loose...

And now i am sure many people are going to scold me for not understanding his POV and talking about the slap when he is devastated about what the doctor pronounced about his mom...😕

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Roma

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Posted: 12 years ago

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OMG HE SLAPPED HER 😳 I still can't believe it

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Posted: 12 years ago

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i think asad ne jo kiya o think and zoya ne jo kiya o think tha ...and he is not judgemental yar

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: romiebee2002
OMG HE SLAPPED HER 😳 I still can't believe it

The harder thing i find to believe is that many people are justifying the slap, saying that she had it coming... obviously...

i mean whatever happened to the leads lauding her brave act... or taking on the onus of protecting their family from such obvious harm... i mean shouldnt he have warned the mother against the mama?

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Well said. Abusive relationships start with slaps and then, when people justify it, these slaps continue to more and worse things. We need to stop justifying this as OK even if it is from our favorite character. As women we should not OK these behaviors.

Either slapping is OK or it is not OK and in my book, it is not OK. there are other ways to express your anger, this is not one of them.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I am not KSG or Asads fan girl, but you know SH*T happens and in M & B stories heroes do things for which they regret later like Anything.

what AAK did was totally Wrong but you just have to watch it without thinking too much about the REAL world and its Morality. Asad is going to repent bad for this act .

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deejayaqueel

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sanjana-ARMAAN
i think asad ne jo kiya o think and zoya ne jo kiya o think tha ...and he is not judgemental yar

Arrey yaar i know where you are coming from... but just cant find it in me to condone 2 things

1. Man being justified in letting his emotions loose through such means... that is how DV is excused in India

2. HIm doing it for a person who actually should have been lauded... how many women for who Zoya would be a role model would be emboldened for taking such a brave step now?

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: deejayaqueel
So much so for hoping that Asad's 'respect' for women extends to this point...

Sorry! we forgot, he already comes from a judgmental mindset starting with the assumption that the woman is to blame... which is why she only had to utter 'Mr. Khan...' and he let loose...

And now i am sure many people are going to scold me for not understanding his POV and talking about the slap when he is devastated about what the doctor pronounced about his mom...😕

It is has NOTHING about not understanding is POV, it is about a culture where we condone slapping women as something that is justified period. There is no justification. We know he was angry and that is his reason but it is not OK or justify it and we do not have to accept it. We should be outraged and we should not be pushed down for holding that view - i see that happening a lot here on this forum and it really bugs me. I think it is very cultural. in the west, no woman would tolerate this but in india, so many women are accepting this as ok. There lies the reason why we have a much stronger stand against abuse towards women in the west compared to other countries. i am not saying women are not abused here, but there in lies a major difference - attitude.

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Roma

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: deejayaqueel

The harder thing i find to believe is that many people are justifying the slap, saying that she had it coming... obviously...

i mean whatever happened to the leads lauding her brave act... or taking on the onus of protecting their family from such obvious harm... i mean shouldnt he have warned the mother against the mama?

The things is that some viewers are supporting because what happened to dilshad was brutal I mean she could've lost her life and I agree with it and coming from Asad's POV everything accumulated but he shouldn't have raised his hand he could've done something else like release his anger on something else rather that directly on her because to him she seems to be the sole reason his beloved mother is in the hospital

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Well Done Asad Beta...

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