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I have come across a lot of posts applauding Zoya. Do she really deserve those applauds? May be not? While I respect your POV, I would like to put across my POV on why Zoya do not deserve the applauds.
To begin with Zoya was also at fault for this situation. Let's count it shall we?
1. Zoya decided to follow Tanveer in quest of truth on her wedding day without a proper plan and without informing Asad. IRRESPONSIBILITY.
2. When she came to know Tannu-Immi truth, she didn't use her phone to inform Asad instead choose to leisurely go by auto in order to deliver the news in person. NO PRESENCE OF MIND.
3. When she realized that Maulvi is congratulating them for Nikah and pics are being taken, she didn't bother to clarify with Maulvi, even if we give benefit of doubt that she want to rush back to KM, she should have ensured Ayaan to take necessary steps to clarify things to maulvi team on their so called Nikah. LACK OF COMMON SENSE.
4. Zoya should have given all details to Asad to the extent she understand how the Nikah confusion took place while they were driving to SM to give Asad chance to figure out loop holes or options. ABSENT MINDED.
5. Zoya didn't tell Asad yet about Tannu trying to kill her and Tannu-Immi truth, knowing how Dangerous Tannu is Najma, Dilshad , Imran and Asad may be very well be in danger. STUPIDITY.
6. While I understand that Ayaan and Asad didn't take her opinion when they decided on next steps to save Nikat, no one could have stopped Zoya if she decided to not sign the Nikahnama, Asad asked to trust in their love and sign it and if she trusted their love and signed it then she should stick to that trust and hope for the best otherwise she should have said NO and walked off from SM. Now it is too late to complain and show her frustration on Ayaan and singling him out for the mess. What she said today hold no value as it is too late for mouthing those words. LACK OF TIME SENSE.
Despite all these wrong actions, Zoya is getting applauds for uttering words that make no logical sense from timing perspective. In reality she is coming across as irresponsible individual who is not willing to own up to her mistakes and totally pushing fault on others when she had fair share in it.
Please keep in mind that I am not supporting Ayaan or Asad either, all I want to say is all are equally responsible for the mess and Zoya should be mature enough to own up to her mistakes and think what to do now and help Asad and Ayaan to think straight without giving in to emotions and demand them to include her in discussions going forward instead of crying over past/spilled beans or complaining that she has been victimized.
I know most of you won't like my POV and I may be in minority but I always speak my mind and totally understand if you agree to disagree with me.
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
Arjun
Sensational South
