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Anitha

@-Anitha-

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Well said 👏
I completely agree with u..
All three of them at fault..
Now my only symphathy is poor humeira😭
They messed everything... Stupid track

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Go4welkin

@Go4welkin

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: sowmy18
I completely agree with ur pov!
yes all three of them are respncibe for this mess!

and as far as i know zoya is just letting her frustation and depression out on smbdy with whom she can!
otherwise if she really thinks both bros r wong she would shout at them infront of evrybdy!
but no!
because she also understands their pov!

I see what you are saying but a progressive and mature lady should express her frustration in a different way ...I would love to hear Zoya say:

Ayaan, I didn't appreciate the way you both brothers took decision on my behalf but I still went ahead with this drama only due to my love for Asad and my trust in our love. We all contributed to this mess and we need to figure out a solution collectively to reduce further complications, please refrain making decisions on my behalf going forward and discuss with me on next steps.

- this would have shown Zoya as a women who have trust in her love and standing by her man in thick and thin but at the same time she is pointing out where bros went wrong and educating them to respect her as an equal and holding the fort for her future self respect without holding grudges against bros poor decision in fit of emotions and causing further confusion.

Edited by Go4welkin - 12 years ago

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SOWMYA

@sowmy18

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

I see what you are saying but a progressive and mature lady should express her frustration in a different way ...I would love to hear Zoya say:

Ayaan, I didn't appreciate the way you both brothers took decision on my behalf but I still went ahead with this drama only due to my love for Asad and my trust in our love. We all contributed to this mess and we need to figure out a solution collectively to reduce further complications, please refrain making decisions on my behalf going forward and discuss with me on next steps.

- this would have shown Zoya as a women who have trust in her love and standing by her man in thick and thin but at the same time she is pointing out where bros went wrong and educating them to respect her as an equal and holding the fort for her future self respect without holding grudges against bros poor decision in fit of emotions and causing further confusion.

Completely agree with u!

but cut the girl some slack!

she's just confused,traumatised and afraid!

she cant think much better than tht!

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RAJ

@RAJLUVRIYA

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

I agree with u. But i think gul give this dialouge to zoya just for the sake of trp. Because trp aunties like it. And dont get high hope this track is not going to end soon. I belive that zoya stick with this marriage but hope asad get to know that marriage is invalid in first place. Dont know when asad realize his mistake and try to fix it and bring zoya out of this mess. But if he trust in ayan then forget it. More torture in our way

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delena90

@delena90

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

I see what you are saying but a progressive and mature lady should express her frustration in a different way ...I would love to hear Zoya say:

Ayaan, I didn't appreciate the way you both brothers took decision on my behalf but I still went ahead with this drama only due to my love for Asad and my trust in our love. We all contributed to this mess and we need to figure out a solution collectively to reduce further complications, please refrain making decisions on my behalf going forward and discuss with me on next steps.

- this would have shown Zoya as a women who have trust in her love and standing by her man in thick and thin but at the same time she is pointing out where bros went wrong and educating them to respect her as an equal and holding the fort for her future self respect without holding grudges against bros poor decision in fit of emotions and causing further confusion.

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A mature and progressive lady would have shown both men the middle finger and left never to look back!

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Go4welkin

@Go4welkin

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: sowmy18

Completely agree with u!
but cut the girl some slack!
she's just confused,traumatised and afraid!
she cant think much better than tht!

To be honest, from where Zoya is now, she just can't afford to do any more mistakes for her own good. She better wake up and do right thing than being confused, afraid and complain. It's now nor never situation.

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SOWMYA

@sowmy18

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

To be honest, from where Zoya is now, she just can't afford to do any more mistakes for her own good. She better wake up and do right thing than being confused, afraid and complain. It's now nor never situation.

But she already did it in her own way!

she can do nothing more abt it!

atleast that's what i feel!

now all she can do is prove to asad tht farhaan is full of shit for nikhat and he sacrifised her for smthng as low and cheap as him!

tht will shut all their mouths!

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SOWMYA

@sowmy18

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: delena90

🤣

A mature and progressive lady would have shown both men the middle finger and left never to look back!

But obviously zoya cannot do tht!

if she had not been alone and maybe she had not had all the trajeies in her life tht she had maybe she will not be pining for asad somuch as much as she does!

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Go4welkin

@Go4welkin

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: delena90

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A mature and progressive lady would have shown both men the middle finger and left never to look back!

Some times it's okay to be there for the man you love from bottom of your heart and make him see his mistake and fix him for future ...running away is not always a solution when true love is concerned. Everyone have flaws including your loved one, facing the situation is the right thing to do and straighten up your man who you know loves you but emotionally vulnerable...be there for him in time of need but make him strong emotionally for future. Everyone deserves a chance and when it is your true love then you can risk that much.

Also, please don't forget the fact that Zoya had her share of mistakes to bring this situation in to play, therefore, she owes that much to Asad.

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karan-007

@karan-007

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

I have come across a lot of posts applauding Zoya. Do she really deserve those applauds? May be not? While I respect your POV, I would like to put across my POV on why Zoya do not deserve the applauds.

To begin with Zoya was also at fault for this situation. Let's count it shall we?

1. Zoya decided to follow Tanveer in quest of truth on her wedding day without a proper plan and without informing Asad. IRRESPONSIBILITY.

she did that bcoz she wanted to save najma not for fun she didn't informed asad kyunki wo nah jata he would have not trusted only

2. When she came to know Tannu-Immi truth, she didn't use her phone to inform Asad instead choose to leisurely go by auto in order to deliver the news in person. NO PRESENCE OF MIND.

aisi baatein ph pe bolte hai kya n she was not even sure that imi n tanveer had something

3. When she realized that Maulvi is congratulating them for Nikah and pics are being taken, she didn't bother to clarify with Maulvi, even if we give benefit of doubt that she want to rush back to KM, she should have ensured Ayaan to take necessary steps to clarify things to maulvi team on their so called Nikah. LACK OF COMMON SENSE.

yu see wedding wasn't planned with ayaan so she got panic things like that happen wen yu get to hear yu r married to someone n she has no experience of 3 4 wedding like that varna sure ayaan se bolti

4. Zoya should have given all details to Asad to the extent she understand how the Nikah confusion took place while they were driving to SM to give Asad chance to figure out loop holes or options. ABSENT MINDED.

for that she had to tell imi is tanveer ke hone wle bache ka baap

5. Zoya didn't tell Asad yet about Tannu trying to kill her and Tannu-Immi truth, knowing how Dangerous Tannu is Najma, Dilshad , Imran and Asad may be very well be in danger. STUPIDITY.

tannu isn't dangerous to najma till the time she is getting money from imi n tannu won't hurt asad neither dilshaad itni strong nahi hai

6. While I understand that Ayaan and Asad didn't take her opinion when they decided on next steps to save Nikat, no one could have stopped Zoya if she decided to not sign the Nikahnama, Asad asked to trust in their love and sign it and if she trusted their love and signed it then she should stick to that trust and hope for the best otherwise she should have said NO and walked off from SM. Now it is too late to complain and show her frustration on Ayaan and singling him out for the mess. What she said today hold no value as it is too late for mouthing those words. LACK OF TIME SENSE.

wow she trusts his lov so she should do marriage a chance next she should have kids also bcoz of that 😆 n they say better late then never atleast she said it

Despite all these wrong actions, Zoya is getting applauds for uttering words that make no logical sense from timing perspective. In reality she is coming across as irresponsible individual who is not willing to own up to her mistakes and totally pushing fault on others when she had fair share in it.

watever mistakes she did she was always in mess but who gave right to brother to put her in mess

Please keep in mind that I am not supporting Ayaan or Asad either, all I want to say is all are equally responsible for the mess and Zoya should be mature enough to own up to her mistakes and think what to do now and help Asad and Ayaan to think straight without giving in to emotions and demand them to include her in discussions going forward instead of crying over past/spilled beans or complaining that she has been victimized.

seriously yu r thodi supporting ayaan n asad yu r only saying zoya should play passing the parcle for 3 months after 3 months should go to asad duniya jo bhi bole ki wah 3 mahine chote bhai ke saath uske baad bade ke saath kya ladki hai but she has to bear it right as she should help ayaan n asad😆😛

Edited by karan-007 - 12 years ago

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