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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Go4welkin


Some times it's okay to be there for the man you love from bottom of your heart and make him see his mistake and fix him for future ...running away is not always a solution when true love is concerned. Everyone have flaws including your loved one, facing the situation is the right thing to do and straighten up your man who you know loves you but emotionally vulnerable...be there for him in time of need but make him strong emotionally for future. Everyone deserves a chance and when it is your true love then you can risk that much.

exactly my pov!
she is bearing all this shit because she loves him!
for one moment even i thought tht she should run away as delena said but then i thought what will be the point if she does this?
but she shoul be angry on him actually very angry on him till he redeems himself and actually begs her!
and because she loves him she will automatically forgive!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Go4welkin



Some times it's okay to be there for the man you love from bottom of your heart and make him see his mistake and fix him for future ...running away is not always a solution when true love is concerned. Everyone have flaws including your loved one, facing the situation is the right thing to do and straighten up your man who you know loves you but emotionally vulnerable...be there for him in time of need but make him strong emotionally for future. Everyone deserves a chance and when it is your true love then you can risk that much.



What a joke! This is not true love and frankly if it was then they would have ended up in the divorce courts faster than you can say the word!

This mills and boons ridiculousness is not love or even true love. It's just a way to bring some excitement into the emotion because love is quite boring and really not this dramatic and bored housewives will know that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmy18

exactly my pov!
she is bearing all this shit because she loves him!
for one moment even i thought tht she should run away as delena said but then i thought what will be the point if she does this?
but she shoul be angry on him actually very angry on him till he redeems himself and actually begs her!
and because she loves him she will automatically forgive!


Bingo ..someone understood my POV regarding this point. :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: delena90



Hey rivs,

I actually want Zoe to shun both brothers. They are seriously are a bunch of idiots - all of them!

Sad part is I am not sure Gul has the guts to have Z hate A and run off with another man - because at this point that's what she needs to do.


I would love to see a new man for Zoe...but not happening...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Go4welkin


Bingo ..someone understood my POV regarding this point. :)

thanks!
atleast we cleared smtng here!
an anyways zoya is not completely innocent and actually because of her doing tht evrybdy is in this position!
or atleast she had a part eventhough very small in all this!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rivya


I would love to see a new man for Zoe...but not happening...😆



Unfortunately! Seriously what happened to feisty Zoe? Why is it that all Indian serials make women stupid and weak in "love"? Either they believe the audience is stupid enough to buy this as love or they really read one too many m&bs
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90



What a joke! This is not true love and frankly if it was then they would have ended up in the divorce courts faster than you can say the word!

This mills and boons ridiculousness is not love or even true love. It's just a way to bring some excitement into the emotion because love is quite boring and really not this dramatic and bored housewives will know that.


Delena, we are not solely talking about love here, it is more a perspective of a bigger person. One just can't make decisions cold turkey because someone you love did something unexpected under emotional pressure, all I am saying is to be grounded and try to work it out than just giving up in spur of the moment. QH is not mills and boons, similarly, confining a generic thought process or approach to Love because the situation in discussion is related to love makes one myopic.
Edited by Go4welkin - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Go4welkin



Delena, we are not solely talking about love here, it is more a perspective of a bigger person. One just can't make decisions cold turkey because someone you love did something unexpected under emotional pressure, all I am saying is to be grounded and try to work it out than just giving up in spur of the moment. QH is not mills and boons, similarly, confining a thought process or approach to Love because the situation is related to love makes one myopic.



What is myopic is you expecting zoya to be ok with this situation because a man she "loves" asked her too. It is regressive to the t. And why are you contradicting yourself - you are the one who brought about zoyas decision as a sacrifice she made for true love.

As for qh not being like an m&b - I am sorry the love story is exactly like one that it is almost laughable.

At the end of the day this entire situation has been brought about thanks to the two brothers making colossally stupid decisions. For Nikhat, asad was willing to bribe but suddenly here he decided to be a man of honesty?

Fact is, asad has always been easily manipulated by Ayaan and this is what has caused this situation. And since QH (according to Gul) isn't meant to be a love story it would be refreshing to see zoya dump both men and go off with a third man. After all this story is about her life and her journey. And she can unite two warring families regardless of being related to them or not.
Edited by delena90 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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BANG ON POST..ALL OF THEM ARE RESPONIBLE FOR THIS MESS...MAINLY AYAAN & ZOYA!!!
HUMEIRA IS THE ONE WHO IS THE VICTIM HERE...POOR GIRL..NO ONE BOTHERS ABT HER...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90



What is myopic is you expecting zoya to be ok with this situation because a man she "loves" asked her too. It is regressive to the t. And why are you contradicting yourself - you are the one who brought about zoyas decision as a sacrifice she made for true love.

As for qh not being like an m&b - I am sorry the love story is exactly like one that it is almost laughable.

At the end of the day this entire situation has been brought about thanks to the two brothers making colossally stupid decisions. For Nikhat, asad was willing to bribe but suddenly here he decided to be a man of honesty?

Fact is, asad has always been easily manipulated by Ayaan and this is what has caused this situation. And since QH (according to Gul) isn't meant to be a love story it would be refreshing to see zoya dump both men and go off with a third man. After all this story is about her life and her journey. And she can unite to warring families regardless of being related to them or not.


I am not contradicting my POV. My main point of making this thread is to point out that Zoya is not the only victim and she has her share of mistakes that contributed to the situation and she can't just walk away from owning up to her mistakes and solely blame others. Later I said that Zoya choose to take the path of signing Nikanama because she felt to do it out of her love for Asad and if she want she could have walk out of the situation but she choose not to and it is a decision made by her and not forced on her, therefore, it is not a sacrifice ( as you thought I meant) and not a regressive act either because she is doing a temporary drama for the person she loves and trusts on her own accord. When she chose the path to do it for her love when she had chance to walk out and she choose not to then there is no point complaining about it later is what I was trying to say. Also, sticking by her man when partially she is guilty of the situation and trying to work it out wont necessarily taken as regressive. I didn't say sticking with the man is right or running away is wrong, if you notice, I said SOME TIMES it's okay to be there for the man you love. I didn't say ALWAYS. In the given situation Zoya has her share of mistakes so it don't come across as regressive if she owns up to it and help her man with the situation with short drama, which may cause some discomfort. She has every right to be angry with him and straighten him up for future for being a emotional fool. Just because she decided to not kick Asad out of her life won't make her weak or regressive is the point. If you still disagree then we agree to disagree.
Edited by Go4welkin - 11 years ago

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