In defence of Ganga - Page 10

Originally posted by: sidra08

Ganga is not meek but there is a lot much difference between her previous in laws and Singhs Singhs never asked her to be maid she is working on her own here while DS and Sumi initially stopped her but Ganga doesn't want to eat free ki roti she wants to help Singhs how much she can She is doing everything on her wish no one forced her and Sumi is not abusing her that she will give angry looks to her as compared to Rat and his family Yeah she can be angry at Sanchi she should not cry there but coming to Sumitra she is understanding Sumitra and Why she is crying at Sumitra's words as it increases guilt in her because of her a noble family like Singhs is suffering , because of her her benefactor's life got in danger and danger is hovering on him in future as well so its perfectly understandable of her being emotional here She is not so hard

Coming to Jagaya falling for her first and pursuing her would be completely unrealistic because after being beaten up emotionally having two failed relationships the guy is not in this emotional state to even think about love so how he can pursue her or fall for her first ?He has a lot many fears in him to give his life one chance in this direction which is realistic so he is going perfectly fine here if he hasn't fallen for Ganga first

Coming to Ganga its realistic and natural for her fall in love first She hated men because so far she only came across cruel men like Rat and his father She never knew good side of men as well Meeting with Jagaya how he helped her her view points changed for men because of it She met many good men here as well Jagaya , Bhairo , Basant , Shiv thats enough to change her hatred for men Perfectly understandable and moreover she has never fallen for anyone before this is first time for her but Jagaya has and failed there as well so its impossible for him to fall first and confess first He don't believe in himself he can be right life partner for anyone so how will he make Ganga believe he is right for her ?Jagaya is not in Shiv's situation or emotional state here that he can be Shiv for Ganga He himself is a broken soul Coming to Ganga its natural for her to fall in love with her benefactor who is healing her soul and making her dreams come to reality and also love her child so much She has made an emotional bond with him which is natural and she has been fighting with herself in temple she cannot think like this for Jagaya , feel bad seeing him with Sanchi what will people say but it is something out of her control as love is natural and bound to happen in which situation she is with Jagaya

I am sure she cannot realize it on her own that she is in love with him as she has never loved anyone before this is first time for her so she don't know what is love or she is in love so here Anandi or DS will play part and make her realize Coming to Jagaya he needs a lot much time to get confidence himself to believe this he has right to love and marry someone and this only that girl can make him realize who will love him and want him to be her life partner otherwise rest keep saying whatever it doesn't affect him much and on his own he cannot think in this way as he is carrying the baggage in him for his two failed relationships for which he is putting all blame on his head so obviously here the girl can work who wants to spend her life with him Accept him with his past and present and make him believe he will be good life partner for her

so in my view cvs are going perfectly fine with Jagaya Ganga's story

Originally posted by: Missesha

Leaving Singh's house does not mean running away. Ganga needs to be diplomatic on how she handles it. She can tell Singhs that they have done enough for her, they have supported her in the time of need and now it's her turn to stand on her feet and live the life that she always dreamt for Mannu. Singh's will surely feel proud and also respect her more for coming out bold at all times.

she said to them once didn't she what reaction she got? hurted them , now once again say that to them and they will ask one question from her can't you live your dreams staying here with us are we hurdles in your dreams then what she will say ? no i cannot because ????i have to become self independent so i am going away from Jaitser as working in Jaister hospital the Hospital is made by Singhs so that will again make her dependent on Singhs🤔

And it's not like she has to disconnect from them. She can always meet them time and again.

Sumitra 's problem is she should NOT be near my son in anyway because of her he is in trouble so You think Sumi wil be fine if she will say outside haveli but will meet with all including Jagaya Sumitra will give a broad smile and be very happy Never ever so Ganga can do one thing to please Sumi disconnect with Singhs and leave Jaitser and settle somewhere else otherwise nothing will change for her until she won't win Sumi's heart again somehow or Sanchi will trouble Sumi so much that it will make her Ganga was less than her and much better

The question here is why does Ganga need to leave. Simply because one Singh member does not like her stay there. And so Ganga must understand that she is causing inconvenience to them and hence must leave rather than getting insulted by Sumitra.

What about rest liking her they mean nothing to her?

As for her love for J or vice versa, it is a different topic altogether. She does not have to stay in haveli for him to realise his love for her.

she doesn't need to stay in haveli but to please Sumi madam she has to stay far away at mount everest from him so he cannot get her back home showing humanity again

And for her security, she could even get attacked n haveli.

No she can never be attacked in haveli Rat is not so strong he can come in house and get attack done on her He does attack behind back seeing situation finding a person alone He didn't got attack on Jagaya done in his house but finding him with Ganga alone in mandir so same he will do on Ganga

So really it's all about the fiercy, strong character's self-respect and not about the sacrifices of a woman, who lost herself because she got indebted to a family that sheltered her.

Fiercy strong character self respect doesn't mean one has to be hard like stone or egoistic She is a human being don't you think she desires to have a family or she has lost her self respect if she is soothing her soul to be near Singhs especially DS as she is getting family's love from her which she never got before Sumi's drama will one day make her leave but i guess she will be brought back but she should refuse

@TM, first of all, very good post..👍🏼
its not that ganga wants to stay her whole life with singhs...but she has to think of her child's welfare too, she can't let manu suffer because she needs to safe-guard her image of being a fierce & independent woman. well, when it comes to it, am sure she will walk out when she is ready to face the world alone.