In defence of Ganga - Page 9

Originally posted by: shankythebest

Ganga falling for jagya is far more realistic than jagya falling for ganga.Jagya is not going to fall in love so soon.He is now busy in becoming a good person and to rectify his mistakes.

Originally posted by: samvi.

I totally missed this thread and am glad i found it now.

Ganga does not need any defence here in the first place. Not because she is right or wrong but because no one in this forum is accusing her, blaming her or asking her to get out of haveli. We just pointed out that even after listening to sumi's worries she is not shown to be given any thought to it let alone planning to leave the place. In turn Sumi who also has valid points is being the one accused completely.I had high expectations on Ganga at first. She was fierce , smart, humble though helpless. now it's like she is only humble , understanding,a cry baby and is still helpless with all the fierceness gone to ashes. This is just a disapproval message given by her supporters and not plain criticism. So this defence thread is totally uncalled for.

This Ganga story is not similar to Shyam-Sugna's story in any case let alone being same and comparing the past sumi to present sumi. That was a love story..and love stories don't have any rules in them!

Ganga is a stranger here. And Sumi pitied her and let her stay in her house on hearing her story. It is not like she had been rude to her from the beginning. And in Sumi's eyes not just Ganga , no girl can ever be equal to her angel Anandi for whom she even left her Son. Here as Suchi said, as every one kept comparing G to A, it put Sumi off which is natural ...it just put her off...she never made a fuss about it at first. Only after she felt that Ganga was/ is and will continue to be a threat(RAT challenged that he will come back to take revenge) to her son, Sumi started getting flared up! That is not insecurity...that is the fear of losing her Son. Why the hell would Sumi feel insecure about a stranger who is almost like their maid! No mother would entertain this idea when her son's life is at stake with no fault of his. Mothers can be excused for being that much selfish(or having that much concern) for their children. If she has some soft corner for the guest/stranger/victim who seeked her refuge then the mother would think of arranging some safe place for the stranger rather than letting her stay at her home and take the risk. Only Haveli won't be a safe place for G. It's not like this is some Bruce Wayne's pent house where no one can reach her there😆.

Coming to this topic about Sumi getting irritated at Ganga for mannu-oil thing. I wonder who kept that oil bowl near a toddler in the first place! And how could his mother be so irresponsible when an old woman and a pregnant woman are present in that house. What's the point in getting angry at mannu whether it is sumi or ganga? The fault lies on that person who kept that bowl beside mannu. Seriously Gehna has gone through a lot to get pregnant...and imagine what would have happened if she slipped and fell down! My maid's baby threw my home theatre remote in a bucket of water and it didn't work after that😭! I had to only blame myself for keeping it in her reach...and then my maid for bringing her baby here in the first place! I don't see any point in chiding the toddlers who can't even understand it. Anyways did Sumi scream at Mannu? or at Ganga? Cause it would be stupid if she screamed at mannu!

Originally posted by: hina13

Ganga is not having a slave mentality Mannu did a mistake which could cost Gehna a lot thats why she was angry at Mannu not that she was pleasing her master Mom's even beat their children when they do a mistake to stop them from doing it again Ganga was not pleasing Sumitra there Ganga hugged her child because she felt bad screaming at him when Gehna stopped her not to do so it was only mistake done by a child

Interpret it as you want but Ganga is not someone who will be angry at anyone without any reason or to please someone Ganga just cannot think about running away from this house insulting people That will be huge insult to DS and Jagaya who are not at fault here They brought in her home and kept her with love and care there How can she think about running away like this For now neither she is self sufficient neither she has anywhere to go so what she can do Obviously her brain won't think in this direction Running away from Rat's house she knew she can get help from Jagaya and she always wanted to run away from that cruel house but here where she will go and moreover even her heart to desires to have a loving family which she never got before She has made one special bond with Singhs If one Sumi is not accepting the others love her to the core so after all she is human being as well her heart is not willing to leave to the love and care of rest people who are so nice to her treat her like a family member so how she can think of leaving so early ?

@hina - mannu did a mistake?😲 Is he even of the age to understand what is right or wrong or that he should not spill oil on the floor?

Ok, taken for granted that he did a mistake for which his mother scolded him. Then why did she hug him and say she will never again do it? It means she realised that not the child, but she made a mistake scolding him.

Who said she has to run away form Singhs house? What we are discussing here is that she has to start thinking in terms of moving out of that house. No body is considering her as a prospective bride for jagya. She is like Makhan in that house. They also love Makhan a lot.

Oh yeah, dadisa has said that she will get her married once jagya is married. So maybe ganga's plan is to hang around till then. In that it is okay to take the abuses and scold the child. Just a matter of few days or months, isn't it?

Originally posted by: Shinya

@hina - mannu did a mistake?😲 Is he even of the age to understand what is right or wrong or that he should not spill oil on the floor?

Ok, taken for granted that he did a mistake for which his mother scolded him. Then why did she hug him and say she will never again do it? It means she realised that not the child, but she made a mistake scolding him.

Who said she has to run away form Singhs house? What we are discussing here is that she has to start thinking in terms of moving out of that house. No body is considering her as a prospective bride for jagya. She is like Makhan in that house. They also love Makhan a lot.

Oh yeah, dadisa has said that she will get her married once jagya is married. So maybe ganga's plan is to hang around till then. In that it is okay to take the abuses and scold the child. Just a matter of few days or months, isn't it?

Originally posted by: SPuja

We cannot equate Shyam-Sugna with Ganga-Jagya. Shyam was in love with Sugna, they got married (after which he got beaten up by men (perhaps servants) accompaning Pratap's mother). Sugna was not living with Shyam's family before marriage. Here so far Jagya has not shown any feeling like love towards Ganga. Hejust saved her out of humanity and is her well-wisher. What Jagya is doing for Ganga, even a brother will do for his sister.

Sumitra's concern about her son's safety is alright, what is wrong is this sudden change. She (and the whole family) already knew what sort of person Rat is. Instead of making faces now, she/other family membersshould have discussed this issue when they gave shelter to Ganga. If Ganga is living with them, the best course would have been adopting her as daughter. That way,her living with themwould have legal sanction as well as society sanction. I hate when they show people teasing women (like when Ganga went on bike with Jagya) why show suchmentality again and again?

Ganga was anywaygoing to leave Rat and would have lived alone, if not given shelter in haveli. However, they changed her charecter, otherwise, she would have lefthaveli even though it would be difficult for her to study living alone, or atleast she would have requested for some job, so that she is self-sufficient and not living as dependentonSinghs.