Message to BVPH & PATS
Message to BVPH & PATS
The decision you have take to quite is not right just because your mom is sick & cannot commit to BV. It looks like you have developed a bit of ego in yourself. Acting as anandi looks like you did not learn much from the character. In this world there are a lot of family who stay away from parents and leave them alone during working hours but try to find a way out for the problem. Below is an incident:
Father Aged 60 have kids but wife passed away at a very early stage. He underwent major eye operation but no one was with him when need only a distance relative stated with him but that person was also working but gave the best support to him after office hrs.
Having elderly parents having kids but both husband & wife are working so they engaged a person to take care of them & kids less than 5 years while they were away for work. They work very hectic. Leave home early & come back very late only off day for them no holidays noting else but still tried to spend time with them & also they parents are supportive & understanding to them due to busy lifestyle.
You are so young but not matured enough to manage things even you are not married yet. Then you image how would your life be when you are married? You want to see your future at a bright side with the current situation when you cannot manage now then how it is possible when you reach a high level when life would be busier then what would you do? Being a girl set a good example as working women who can mange home & career. There are so many successful women you can find. My suggestion is do come back to BV but do not show you attitude to people our life is short so set a good example. You must know how to convene them to achieve what you want in a nice manner. This generation it is not very easy for both the parties to get a suitable person. So hope you do come back.
BVPH you do have commitments for this show. But please do give ample of time not just let go her off. Give some break or see that she get at least some time to rest to settle her personal issues. Which will indirectly help her and also she might mange herself. Do bring her back if possible. One such incident: She is a girl. Holding an import post(very stress full) in the company she is having cancer & have aged mom who is sick always but she need to go regular medication. Company used to give her time off & also they gave her a break for short time she came back but still the working style she did not change she was dedicated work as before she left the company but in between she still some time fall sick but manages her work & home. Please do keep aside you ego & give her a chance and accept her again.
Please do not forget that today what the BV stands is not alone it is a team work. Even if one does a single mistake it will affect everyone.