Who is responsible for Ansh punishment?... - Page 5

Charisma you do have few valid points that Ansh is just a spirited kid but when he wanted to go to bathroom is ok but the way he did a mess in the bathroom was not ok... he threw everything on the floor. Every toiletery was either on the floor or emptied in the each corner of bathroom. He even used his saving gel and tube to paint on the mirror.. At that time Yash kept his peace and did not let Aarti know about that and just told servant to clean the mess. Aarti also left so many cloths on the bed that also Yash did not say anything to her. He the neat freak let this two new individual invade his space make it a mess because they also had a right to use that space and he simply did not tell anything but did what he had to do to keep his room tidy.

Originally posted by: evasumi

Charisma you do have few valid points that Ansh is just a spirited kid but when he wanted to go to bathroom is ok but the way he did mess in the bathroom was not ok... he threw everything on the floor. Every toiletery was either on the floor or emptied in the each corner of bathroom. He even used his saving gel and tube to paint on the mirror..

If you tell me oh it is ok for 5 years old boy to behave in a new house then I am sorry I beg to differ. He wanted to use the bathroom of his new daddy that is ok but the bathroom was being occupied and when he was told to go to another he inisisted that he wants to go there otherwise he will wet the floor right then and there now that is I call pure manipulation and aarti kept on calling him Ansh do not do that. Why in the world she did not take his hand and take him to another bathroom And when Yash came out the smart mouth made a remarks of Yash being naked like him.. Gosh the man was in the bathroom now tell me which 5 years boy talks like that??

I do not mind him to be spirited or witty but he should not be a smart mouth and tri to put down an elder in front of all.. Yes children are very innocent and they speak the truth without any hesitation but we have to teach them to speak it without hurting any one's feelings and at the proper time.

Yes Aarti is outspoken too and so is Ansh but to teach a child to hold his peace also is important.

The way he put the pin to hurt Yash so that he would not come near to his mom was very dangerous. That cause Yash high fever and he had to take shots for the infection... If by mistake if you ignore those things it could be very dangerous to one's health.

So if you do not teach your child to behave in certian way then he gets of a habit of having his own ways and could be dangerous to himself too..

So I think little punishment to let the child know that his mom or dad did not like his behavior is good for the child..

But I have said earlie also that what Gayatri did was totally wrong infact where his mother and father are dealing with him she had no right to punish him at all...

Yes Meg you are right on that point that it was added for the fun sake and so many of Ansh's dialogues too