Horoscopes: determine your destiny?

Many of us have janam kundalis, and they contain info about who we are and a prediction on what will happen in our lives. I have three debates that go hand in hand:

1. how much do you believe in these kundalis, that they control your destiny, or is destiny what you make it.

2. What if in an example scenario the person you loved had a horrible match with your janam kundali, and it would only lead to devastation. And suppose your parents were strong believers in the janam kundali, and were against the marraige but still let you decide. Then would you still marry him/her, or would you trust the janam kundali?

Of course this is sort of a serious debate but please take it as lightly as possible. And as always i dont mean to offend anyone. 😊

I do believe that janam kundali when read properly can be about 80% accurate. However, a lot depends on the other factors.

My own janam kundali doesnt match with the guy im getting married to n that makes my mom uneasy but its upto two individuals and their understanding of each other. our lifestyle and habits dnt match in the kundali n its true that we are polarities as far as that is concerened but over the past 8 years of knowing each other we have learned to find a middle ground.

On the other hand its true that i believe in destiny n the karmic life cycle but also that the only thing that can really alter it is prayers. It may sound like a religious statment but its a very simple truth.

Also like a saying i read in some astrologers place - "Forewarned is forearmed"

I believe in horoscopes and astrology in a very limited way. I have personally been to so many astrolgers that i have lost count . And guess what not a single person told me something that i didn't already know. 😆 Infact all they couldn't do was predict my future correctly EVER !!! So i guess a clever astrologer is a smart talker too and gets out the info that will help him make his "so called predictions". 😆

Like the lady whose hubby is cheating on her and she wants that confirmed will end up asking " Can u please look into my marriage and tell me will i be happy and contended"!!
Huge clue for the pandit ji dude who is gonna say "hmmmmmm let me see ..... It seems your rahu is over your Ketu and your moon is over shadowed by your Shani....so you will be having a bad dasha for the next 7 years.!!!! 😆

But serioulsy i have come across some people who have met jyotshis who could do amazing reading!! Therefore i don't completely descredit it.

Same goes for Kundli matching for marriage. Its safer to trust your gut than the kundli readers. I believe the kundli if read by the right person can be very helpfull and accurate. But where the heck are those people who can read it accurately???? 😊