what sadhna is doing, its WRONG!!! - Page 4

it is not bad 2 be selfless , but everything hav 1 limit , & sadhna crossed all limits of tht . no offence 2 anyone .

Eevn vinu knew about mamiji why dint he tell ragini why blame sadi only

Originally posted by: zooni.blue

Eevn vinu knew about mamiji why dint he tell ragini why blame sadi only

Vinu is just a supporting character in this story of two sisters.Viewers doesn't expect to see this sort of news revealed by supporting characters just as everyone wanted to see only Ragini and how she would react to Sadhana's testimony and not Vinu thinking abt his sister's life and her husband!

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

The thing is as I mentioned in another post ki,

She is human, and due to her nature of thinking for others first and then her,

she was put on a pedestal.

I like Ragini , she is practical

I love Sadhana's character its very beautiful and one has to give hats off to her. Its just our human nature to love pure goodness.

Her khamiyan , well its part of her, that is she is Human. Bound to make mistakes.

My point was that

even though yudishter lied, gambled his marriage (even though he became a slave first) we Ignore his mistakes looking at the over all picture

Just like how we look at Karan as a dharm-veer and all that and we overlook the fact that he called draupadhi vaishya...

conclusion= human=err

So we just have to look at each character in their limit

Ragini is doing what ever she does to the best of her ability, love/hate/misunderstandings/confusion

Sadhana is doing what ever she does to the best of her ability love/sacrifice/stupidity/ego

and yes I do mention Ego

She to many might seem like an ego-less person but within her selflessness lies her ego... that is wanting to be the epitome of goodness.

Nothing wrong in it. Its cool I love that about her and applaud it. But hey not everyone can be like that at the same time its not always the sensible thing to do.

regardless..
We have to take them in their own shoes and not put each other in the others place.

We love sadhna for who she is
and Ragini ( just wanna slap her for her idiocy but I am positive she will turn around)

Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has a chance to repent.

Be that Sadhna or Ragini or Vasu or Kaushi

I am a new viewer of Bidaai so I am watching all the episodes from past two years collection.
Kaushi and vasu they are not pure evil

they are just selfish and self centered. Its nothing wrong but in the process they are hurting others thus it becomes wrong.

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Anywayz.. its a good soap and I applaud all the characters.

I agree for the most part that we all are humans at the end, and mistakes are bound to happen...but I don't think Sadhana has ego.....I really think she is selfless, and want's to give happiness to others....but in the process does make some illogical decisions....

I am amazed by your example of Yudhister and others from Mahabharat...you bring a whole new perspective...and yes, want to slap Ragini for her idiocy, but really hope and believe she will come around BIG time..and repent BIG time......

Welcome to the Bidaai forum...

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Regarding Mahabharata, instead of supporting Adharma over Dharma, think of what led to the Kurukshetra war...and if one is aware of Bhsima's life as "dwu" and then the incidence of Amba, his entire mystery of death will be known.

I do not want to establish anything here, as Sadhna's speaking truth touching the Bhagwad Gita can only be understood by people who knows the entire Mahabharata and how in Mahabharata, Dharma and Adharma was seggregated and the kurukshetra war was fought. Unless, people have a proper understanding of that, it is useless to even discuss Sadhna's speaking truth touching Bhagwad Gita...

In no way, can Sadhna's charater be demeaned... truth is truth and there is no denial..how many ids people make and how many times people advocate lie over truth, truth can never become lie...

dont worry i know😊 lol @ some people random😆

wow, when i started this thread just YESTERDAY, i didn't expect to get this much reaction nor views. i mean i have over 1000 views, i'm kinda surprised!!! thanks to all for participating in the discussion :) anyways, now on with the topic...
so, i didn't read every single response, but i have read quite a few, and here's what i have to say: once again, i do NOT think sadi is a bad person NOR do i believe being selfless is bad. also worth a mention, i said in my post, "MUCH OF IT (NOT ALL OF IT) is wrong" indicating that i'm not saying sadi is entirely wrong.
now with that being said, i would like to point out that just cause i said sadi should've asked ragi, ranvir, or alekh for help after the competition, doesn't mean i think she should've been the only to ask for help. i agree, vinu, naniji, mamaji, they could've asked for help too. but my topic isn't about them, its about sadhna.
now moving on to sadhna. like i said, i will never, NEVER find any logic as to why sadi didn't ask ragi, ranvir, or even alekh for help AFTER she lost on purpose. i had no problem with her not telling any of them BEFORE she lost, but after wards, yeah, you better believe i did. first of all she lost on PURPOSE, that too for an absolutely moronic reason. what's more important, ragi giving her pati a trophy and 5 lakh ruppes (who already btw is FILTHY RICH, that ranvir) or saving mamiji's life? ughhh, so yeah, that part annoyed me. but i still would've let it slide, if she asked any one of those people i mentioned above for help. instead, she goes asking VASU for help; who not only held a disgusting condition in front of her, but also belittled her, made her do something she absolutely did not want to do (signing the divorce papers), oh and someone who absolutely has no concern for kaushi!!! she goes and asks someone like THAT for help. it was such a foolish, FOOLISH decision to make. sadi's plea to vasu for the money, was absolutely UNNECESSARY, especially when she had so many other options in front of her!!!!! seriously, all of you people who are trying to justify her actions, what would YOU have done if you were in sadi's place? would you have done what sadi did? or would you have done what i'm saying sadi should've done, which was asking ragi, ranvir, or alekh for help instead of vasu...???? i just don't understand how anyone in their right mind could truly believe what sadi did was right.
now on to the next things: its true, sadi has no self-respect, no self-esteem, no self-pride!!!! i agree, those qualities are not good for a person to have IF they have too much of them (good example, someone like vasu), but they are necessary. if you don't have the courage to stand up for yourself, you'll end up like sadi; someone who EVERYONE walks all over, yells at, and takes advantage of. and that is what i'm saying here. don't be like that my fellow women, cause no matter how good your intentions may be, this world is cruel, and it is necessary to put your foot down when needed, or else, this cruel world will take advantage of you just like it did to sadi!!!! though i will admit, sadi slowly, VERY slowly, but surely has started to show signs of standing up for herself, she certainly has a long, LONG way to go.
anyways, now lastly, i would just like to say that, i think many of you here are misunderstanding me. i don't, even for a second, doubt sadi's goodness. i know she's a very kind-hearted, good-natured person, and believe me, i love that about her. but at the same time, i want her to have self-respect and be able to stand up for herself. why do you all think i ask this of her, because i don't want to see her in pain anymore. i'm not saying she become selfish like kaushi, or vasu, etc. but at the same time, i want her to put her foot down when needed. cause if she doesn't, there'll be a LOT more pain ahead of her. and that is exactly why i'm saying all this about her, because i love sadi, and i don't wanna see her in pain anymore. and to finish it all of, just wanna say that: sadi is NOT perfect, therefore she definitely can and is wrong at times, so to whoever sadi, "SADI CAN NEVER BE WRONG", i completely disagree with you my friend.

Sadhna has her own way of looking at things some people might like some might not. She does err at times as it is human tendency is to err but her intention is always to spread happiness and whatever she does is from her heart, no show off, no boasting etc. She wastes no time in self pity and works to solve the problem rather than crying about it all the time, that is why she is an inspiration to many.

That does not mean she cannot err. She makes mistakes tries to amend them if she realizes them and does not run away from situations. I do not support her losing on purpose in the dance competition. I also wished she would have at least talked to Mallika about the loan despite knowing the rule of 6 months for an employee to get the loan. Since mallika has soft corner for her, she might have approved, worse case she would say no only. However I don't approve her of begging money from Ragini or Ranvir. Just my 2 cents.