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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

When Alekh is straight away denying Sadhna as his wife, and also approved Vasu's decision of throwing Sdahna away, where does the lawfully wed thing come? And Sdahna is not a person to demand alimony. Rather she and Vasu did one favour to each other as per Vasu;s dialogues.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Pandavas tried everything possible before the Kurukshetra war, likewise, Sadhna did everything possible to get the money and at last did her best and bothered noone , as she herself is convinced there is nothing left from Alekh's side and her signing divorce papers might free Alekh.

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Suchi-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Its a funny thing you mentioned mahabarat...

How funny is that people criticize Sadhana for the lie she has spoken in order to not create more misunderstandings vs. the truth she spoke in the court.

And their complain being " if she is standing by the truth and will always speak to truth then why does she lie at other times"

They forget that yudhishtir though always being known to tell the truth lied about ashwadh-dhama to dron.

Yudishtir's lie does not make him a lier in the eyes of those who follow Bharatam

So similar is the case of sadhana that her lie should not demean her character in totality as the purpose behind that was different.

not to mention the cheating of Arjun in killing bishm

and the Kapat of Bheem in killing duryodhan

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Just a thought

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Meetu_Anu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: suman2
Being Selfless is one thing and being logical and handling life in a practical manner is one thing. Sadhna is a good human being but I didnt like her during this Mamiji sickness episode. Here are few things -

1 - She didnt tell anyone about Mamiji's sickness and promised the doctor she will arrange money. By this she unintentionally worsen Mamiji's condition. If Ragini would have known this she would have given this money and her mother would have been better.

2 -What if something would have happened to Kaushalya ji in those days when Sadhna was trying to arrange money ?

3 - Why didnt she tell Ragini ? I mean whatever differences she has with her, she has no right to take away the RIGHT of a daughter. A daughter should have right to serve her parents in time of need. If anyone would have hide something so serious about mother (even though I am going through my own share of pain) I would have never forgiven that person. Very few children get chance to serve their parents and I wont allow anyone to take the right away from me.

4- Losing in the dance competition ?? Why ?? Ragini would have felt bad ..thats fine..She can explain it to her..that its for her own Mom. I agree to the topic starter that there is something called Self dignity and by signing the divorce paper she lost it.

This is my POV and as I said earlier..being selfless is one thing..being good is one thing..but being foolish is another.

Suman

👏...very very well said yarrr..... you know being selfless is one thing and thinking logically and acting is different..

Here Sadhana is telling Lie upon Lie to Mamaji regarding arrangement of money...where did her truth go???????........

She decides to do everything for Mamiji alone..without telling anyone or taking anyone's help.. Why?? coz she does not want to hurt someone....woww..but in this act if something happens to Mamiji then who will be responsible???? Ragini is it....whom people are blaming left right and center.......

well...... people should act as per situation logically...epically when it is connected to someone's life ..tomorrow if something happens to Mamiji..Ragini might blame sadhana.. then again people will point at Ragini.....woww..

Ragini or at least Ranveer would have helped Sadhana in this situation..when she can sign the divorce paper's and take money from a fake person like Vasu... who stopped her from going to Ragini or Ranveer.... isn't this Fact

Edited by Sh_ka_su - 15 years ago

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432525

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: suchitra_1
Its a funny thing you mentioned mahabarat...

How funny is that people criticize Sadhana for the lie she has spoken in order to not create more misunderstandings vs. the truth she spoke in the court.

And their complain being " if she is standing by the truth and will always speak to truth then why does she lie at other times"

They forget that yudhishtir though always being known to tell the truth lied about ashwadh-dhama to dron.

Yudishtir's lie does not make him a lier in the eyes of those who follow Bharatam

So similar is the case of sadhana that her lie should not demean her character in totality as the purpose behind that was different.

not to mention the cheating of Arjun in killing bishm

and the Kapat of Bheem in killing duryodhan

kya baat kahi hai hug u yaar sach main jis sach ko lekar itna drama hua court main ab use sach ki watt laga di ab kahan gai sach bolne ki aadat usne is serial main jitna jhooth bola hai shayad kisi aur ne bola hoga jhooth per jhooth phir bhi uske fans uski goodness batayenge aur humain bahkayenge i am not biased like u yaar hum to kahete hai hum ragini kko support karte hai khulam khulla aap bhi kaho kya insaan ko geeta per haath rakhkar hi sach bolna chaiye vaise jhooth bolna chaiye kya kya baat hai
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Just a thought

kya baat kahi hai hug u yaar sach main jis sach ko lekar itna drama hua court main ab use sach ki watt laga di ab kahan gai sach bolne ki aadat usne is serial main jitna jhooth bola hai shayad kisi aur ne bola hoga jhooth per jhooth phir bhi uske fans uski goodness batayenge aur humain bahkayenge i am not biased like u yaar hum to kahete hai hum ragini kko support karte hai khulam khulla aap bhi kaho kya insaan ko geeta per haath rakhkar hi sach bolna chaiye vaise jhooth bolna chaiye kya kya baat hai

Edited by yshd_sharma - 15 years ago

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Suchi-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

The thing is as I mentioned in another post ki,

She is human, and due to her nature of thinking for others first and then her,

she was put on a pedestal.

I like Ragini , she is practical

I love Sadhana's character its very beautiful and one has to give hats off to her. Its just our human nature to love pure goodness.

Her khamiyan , well its part of her, that is she is Human. Bound to make mistakes.

My point was that

even though yudishter lied, gambled his marriage (even though he became a slave first) we Ignore his mistakes looking at the over all picture

Just like how we look at Karan as a dharm-veer and all that and we overlook the fact that he called draupadhi vaishya...

conclusion= human=err

So we just have to look at each character in their limit

Ragini is doing what ever she does to the best of her ability, love/hate/misunderstandings/confusion

Sadhana is doing what ever she does to the best of her ability love/sacrifice/stupidity/ego

and yes I do mention Ego

She to many might seem like an ego-less person but within her selflessness lies her ego... that is wanting to be the epitome of goodness.

Nothing wrong in it. Its cool I love that about her and applaud it. But hey not everyone can be like that at the same time its not always the sensible thing to do.

regardless..
We have to take them in their own shoes and not put each other in the others place.

We love sadhna for who she is
and Ragini ( just wanna slap her for her idiocy but I am positive she will turn around)

Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has a chance to repent.

Be that Sadhna or Ragini or Vasu or Kaushi

I am a new viewer of Bidaai so I am watching all the episodes from past two years collection.
Kaushi and vasu they are not pure evil

they are just selfish and self centered. Its nothing wrong but in the process they are hurting others thus it becomes wrong.

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Anywayz.. its a good soap and I applaud all the characters.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

I see alot of new people, who come to bash Sadhna's character, are these mutltiple id cases????/just a thought...

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Regarding Mahabharata, instead of supporting Adharma over Dharma, think of what led to the Kurukshetra war...and if one is aware of Bhsima's life as "dwu" and then the incidence of Amba, his entire mystery of death will be known.

I do not want to establish anything here, as Sadhna's speaking truth touching the Bhagwad Gita can only be understood by people who knows the entire Mahabharata and how in Mahabharata, Dharma and Adharma was seggregated and the kurukshetra war was fought. Unless, people have a proper understanding of that, it is useless to even discuss Sadhna's speaking truth touching Bhagwad Gita...

In no way, can Sadhna's charater be demeaned... truth is truth and there is no denial..how many ids people make and how many times people advocate lie over truth, truth can never become lie...

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432525

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

for kind information humain yahan per bahut knowledge hai mahabharat aur ramayan ki kise proper knowlege hai yeh batane ki jaroorat nahi hai yahan per new bie aa rahe hain multiple id se sadhana fan bhi kuchh jayaada badh gaye hai is baat ka bh mujhe doubt hai aur jhooth jhooth hota hai kisi beti se yeh chhipana ki uski maa bimaar hai jhooth nahi kis i ki jaan ko dance competion per depend kar dena yeh sense ki baat to nahi sauda karna yeh sensible baat hai kya sach bolne wala hamesha sach bolta hai chahe situation jo bhi ho

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sh_ka_su

👏...very very well said yarrr..... you know being selfless is one thing and thinking logically and acting is different..

Here Sadhana is telling Lie upon Lie to Mamaji regarding arrangement of money...where did her truth go???????........

She decides to do everything for Mamiji alone..without telling anyone or taking anyone's help.. Why?? coz she does not want to hurt someone....woww..but in this act if something happens to Mamiji then who will be responsible???? Ragini is it....whom people are blaming left right and center.......

well...... people should act as per situation logically...epically when it is connected to someone's life ..tomorrow if something happens to Mamiji..Ragini might blame sadhana.. then again people will point at Ragini.....woww..

Ragini or at least Ranveer would have helped Sadhana in this situation..when she can sign the divorce paper's and take money from a fake person like Vasu... who stopped her from going to Ragini or Ranveer.... isn't this Fact

@red....yes ragini was just so welcoming....i wonder why sadi didnt go to her...hmmmoh yes....ragini didnt want to see her face thats why😆