God need a Sadhu/Priest/Nun? - Page 6

Originally posted by: angie.4u

Got to agree with with this part ! if everyone became a monk who wud do the dishes, laundry & attend to the plumbing 😆

Originally posted by: Summer3

I think it is worse when married men with so much responsibilities run away from home; whether to become a sadhu or to live with another woman like Saifoo.

Originally posted by: gumsum

Originally posted by: Summer3

Yes but for a man to leave a wife and kids is not good.

If the wife and kids leaves a man it is fine.

Since I do not know the facts of the case I shall reserve my comments.

thanks for pointing it out.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

In my opinion, if you no longer love someone and cannot perceive a happy life together; then sometimes the wisest decision you can make is to walk away. It is best to leave at a point where one can settle differences and be polite and civil. If you choose to be married even when everything is over, you choose to live a lie. A life built on a lie is nothing but an illusion and when these illusions come crashing down, a lot more people are hurt and a lot more emotions are at stake. One can fulfill their responsibilities, even if the marriage is over.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

In my opinion, if you no longer love someone and cannot perceive a happy life together; then sometimes the wisest decision you can make is to walk away. It is best to leave at a point where one can settle differences and be polite and civil. If you choose to be married even when everything is over, you choose to live a lie. A life built on a lie is nothing but an illusion and when these illusions come crashing down, a lot more people are hurt and a lot more emotions are at stake. One can fulfill their responsibilities, even if the marriage is over.

I have seen people missing their wives, just after two or three days whn the wife has gone to her parents... For two or three days or weeks they are so joyful, bt the fourth day they start missing the wife. And I have said to my friends, "You always wanted to get rid of your wife. It is good that she is prolonging her holiday -- enjoy!!😉....Then he reply 'Yes, it is true, when she is here I feel like killing her. Bt when she goes somewhere else I feel so alone, that I go on writing letters and sending mails and phone calls sms. -- 'Come back soon without you, life is not life!' "😊 thats why I feel whole of life has becom just a utility😊

Originally posted by: Believe

There is no point in torturing each other......Marriage is a utility....some situation it is a need, it is not a celebration. Everything in life has becom so mundane, so burdensome, but you don't know what else to do, where to go..... Everybdy is suffering his own suffering. Yu cannot change places. Even if it were possible to change places you would not change, becos our own misery is at least ours and we are well acquainted.....

I have seen people missing their wives, just after two or three days whn the wife has gone to her parents... For two or three days or weeks they are so joyful, bt the fourth day they start missing the wife. And I have said to my friends, "You always wanted to get rid of your wife. It is good that she is prolonging her holiday -- enjoy!!😉....Then he reply 'Yes, it is true, when she is here I feel like killing her. Bt when she goes somewhere else I feel so alone, that I go on writing letters and sending mails and phone calls sms. -- 'Come back soon without you, life is not life!' "😊 thats why I feel whole of life has becom just a utility😊

Wow ! just look at the turn of events here. we were discussing God,- sadhu/priest/nun...... somehow we reachd discussing marriage, separation, slavery !!! But reading in reverse order I finally traced it back to my own comment ..🤣