YASH as a person........ - Page 3

I'm getting really sickk of all the people bashing yash's mom non-stop on this forum.....the only thing the poor lady did was say that she doesn't see a particular girl as her bahu, she didn't list the reasons out as she may not have wanted to say bad things about gurpreet on tv, yash's mom is a straight forward person, she doesn't belive in mincing words or sugar coating them and that is her minus point.....even hitmom has said that she doesn't think vrinda is suitable for her son, i don't see anybody calling her a pshyco??????? only because, vrinda took a step back and did not create a drama on stage like gur did, and blow it wayyy out of proportion....

I'm also sick of people here calling yash spineless, and gutless, why should he stand against his mom of 24 years, for a girl he didn't even know 24 days????? pray tell, it';s not like this was some divine love story, and they were soulmates, who were together for years....they hardly knew each other.......

wow, lots of emotions coming out for the partcipants. i understand how few of us feel out there and i am also agreeable that there were better ways to deal with the issues. for me i think it was a learning point for gurpreet. she realized her mistake and she improved after what happened. she is still very young and i think, learning from mistakes is a good journey in life. i feel both Yash & Gurpreet were right in their own places and hopefully this gives them a better understanding on how to deal with issues that might come up in life. just giving up coz another doesnt like, i feel is always not the right thing to do. in this matter, i feel both yash and gurpreet could have done much better to have his mom accept her. it's not easy for a mother to accept another lady in her sons' life just like that and that to if the person didn't hit of on the right track. i went thru similar event as how yash & gurpreet faced. all my advice is, remain calm, speak as how you want to be spoken to and put yourself in the other person shoe as you will understand better. life is fun if we decide to make it be. as for yash mum, i guess she needs to chill and let loose a little. perhaps she is so tensed at getting the perfect daughter in law but i feel, 1 can be mouled to be better by just the approach & guidance. it's not about getting a perfect daughter in law but i feel is to treat her as a daughter. gurpreet, i feel has to understand few things and not be so direct and blunt as at times it can be taken as rudeness. she might not see it as it was rude but others may. again my experience :-) sorry all readers, yash,gurpreet and aunty as i don't mean to hurt anyone's feeling with what i've wrote but it was merely my thoughts and feelings and i may be wrong. have a great day ahead and god bless :-)

i think both r right at there places ......gurpreet standing for herself dats wat every1 one should do for themselves.......but even yash is right standing up for her mother for wat so ever even if she is wrong .......bcuz for children parents do a lot and they should stand by them

Originally posted by: sumit.kumkum

yash is very very very very very very vbed boy

Originally posted by: sumit.kumkum

yash is very very very very very very vbed boy