TuHir FF: Never Your Wife Again!! Ch-31 on pg57: The Grace of Distance - Page 56

Originally posted by: bpatil3

This song:

मैं दिल, तू धड़कन, तुझसे मेरा जीवन

काँच के जैसा टूट जाऊँगा, टूटा जो ये बंधन

मैं दिल, तू धड़कन, तुझसे मेरा जीवन

काँच के जैसा टूट जाऊँगा, टूटा जो ये बंधन

मैं दिल, तू धड़कन

तू ही खिलौना, तू ही साथी, तू ही यार मेरा

एक ये चेहरा, ये दो बाहें ये संसार मेरा

तू ही खिलौना, तू ही साथी, तू ही यार मेरा

एक ये चेहरा, ये दो बाहें ये संसार मेरा

खुदको भी देखा हैं तुझमें तू मेरा दर्पन

मैं दिल, तू धड़कन, तुझसे मेरा जीवन

काँच के जैसा टूट जाऊँगा, टूटा जो ये बंधन

मैं दिल, तू धड़कन

Wow!! U really are an expert at this!! Fabulous and beautifully apt song!!

Originally posted by: ElitePerfumer

Wow!! U really are an expert at this!! Fabulous and beautifully apt song!!

Tq😃

Actually this song is picturized on a small child n Rajesh Khanna.sung by Kishor kumar ji. But the lyrics fits here too, so.... 😃

Originally posted by: bpatil3

Tq😃

Actually this song is picturized on a small child n Rajesh Khanna.sung by Kishor kumar ji. But the lyrics fits here too, so.... 😃

yes I know and that’s why I was so surprised you could relate it to this situation- and it actually fit so perfectly!!

Thank you for the beautiful chapter again. Loved to read TuHir always , and amused by their companionship.

Mihir as assumed "choried" 😂 from Tulsi's desk??

She should be happy or angry for this act of him.??

Tumko chori kyun karni thi Mihir 😂😂. Anyways he disclosing why he did that was really cute, issko dekh ke Tulsi karein to kya karein, isski aisi harkat ki wajah se hi wo chance de rhi hai abhi😜.

The conversation started with light moments but became intense, she could find that hidden fear, restlessness, remorse, helplessness in his body language and eyes. His breaking down was necessary, by nature Mihir is very expressive, he cannot hold it for longer. Simple plain fact stated with so much stress, overwhelmed, deep down hidden emotions and pain came out. he admitting he just thought of he cheated her, how he will ever face her? until she cried been alone, he didn't understand her side of the story. Probably for the first time, Mihir felt it pained her too the extent she has become rock solid, the separation has damaged her soul,

Good that Mihir tried to find Tulsi's whereabouts here. He knew she was hale, healthy and safe at a distant place, building a new life of her own, creating something to secure her identity etc. Moreover, his reason to maintain distance was justified, he never wanted to divorce her, his logic they are connected by the sacred ritual called Marriage and still belong to one another, connected, and he don't want to loose her. He never thought of his life without her, neither he wanted any other to take her place in his life.

Rishta kitna bhi purana ho har din usse jeena padta hai, naye shire se shuru karna padta hai, wo bhi tab jab zindagi ke dorahe pe ruk k apni peeche aur aage ki jeevan ki gati dikhti hai.

Kya karsakti hai Tulsi, every word spoken by Mihir is true, his true feelings, his fear, his protectiveness and his immaturity too. But he has nothing but Sorry, and Tulsi cannot hold herself, since she loved this man unconditionally, she knew he is not doing it to get her attention, but he has put his heart out. life ki sacchayi ye hai ki ek dusre k bina life sochna bahot mushkil hai. Sirf Dil da mamla nhi barsoan se buni hui duniya hai . Mihir is always expressive so his life without Tulsi is nothing and he means it.Let Mihir find his solace in Tulsi's arms, Tulsi time legi to express in words but already moving towards him from the heart unknowingly , i think she is right.❤️❤️ Love is in the Air nhi, Balcony hogya hai, ye monument banega aage, Shobha will tease her mom someday

Writer, Fabulous job, every sentence, every word carries that weightage, emotion perhaps his feelings, thoughts, love.

Then his outrage at Suchitra jayaz hai, Tulsi knows he is going thru a lot of emotional turmoil. She tried to control, she avoided started the topic which is gonna help further. Tulsi can see his attitude, his every body movement, his moving nerve, his disgust, anguish, unsteady heart beat, abnormal breathing, the wrath, his holding the steering hard, handling him calmly, then the car moving brilliant writing.

Allowing him calm down, he looking at his daughter, watching closely Tulsi's way of working, admiring then sitting in a corner of her cabin, she teasing him if he choried any more cards of her to ease out, bringing him down to normalcy, he knows that he has earned that right to ask her directly if any required.

His secret conversation to plan something with Vaishnavi 😂, Mihir ka mind Tulsi k liye sahi daudta hai hamesha wo kitni bhi stress me ho, he will ensure she is his only sunshine now. 😂

Thank you writer i'm curious for the next part.

Tulsi's thoughtprocess, Mihir forgetting her, moving on with Noina, happily ever after leading a good life has been washed out completely, though she found it the moment she entered Mumbai, whatever performances Noina pulled, Tulsi was 90% sure it's false, but the remaining 10% also washed out today completely from her mind. Somewhere, her heart betrayed her to believe it completely. Again when it comes from the horses mouth directly, your hidden emotions pop up. Loved this too.

PS: sorry I couldn't write anything better, bcoz i'm speechless again the way you expressed Mihir, his heart, pain, his guilt for not respecting or understanding Tulsi's state and his anger, disgust shown at Suchitra. You justified every emotion of his brilliantly, as a reader I could conect him, sorry i'm short of words. You as a writer always win, I definitely admire you for this logical way of explaining the behavior of the characters. Take a bow, keep writing and entertaining.

chap 29.

What a welcome.. The Virani's in your story neither judge nor ask questions that could lead to awkwardness. They simply welcome people with open arms.

Giving a helping hand to Tulsi because of the fortuners height does show how much this guy cares for her, But why do men always seem to do these things after losing the people they love?It’s the little gestures that make it hurt even more, because they show that the love was always there—it just wasn’t expressed when it was needed the most.

Shobha: Best character.. She is always excited and genuinely happy for others.

Damini’s welcome was wholesome and sweet.

I once commented that maybe Gautam was going to bring Tuhir closer, but I guess Tuhir might actually bring Damini and Gautam closer instead. ..

Damini is observing their dynamics, the love they share, and how patiently they handle each other....

“Chhe saal. Aur toota hua dil.” Mihir should never forget this line or what he did to her.

The morning kitchen scene was fantastic. The simple gestures give a lot of hope for this relationship, while also reminding us that she is not the old Tulsi anymore—or maybe she never will be.

I'm excited for Tulsi’s reaction when she receives the gift from Pari, and for Mihir’s proud expression when she does.

The Damini–Shobha conversation was apt. It gave us a complete picture of what Tuhir’s relationship looked like from the family’s perspective.

What I really love is that no one questions anything between the couple. They simply observe, understand, and wait for them to sort things out on their own. That makes the family dynamics feel much more mature and realistic.

Again great chapter and it takes a lot to write..

chap 30 :

When i heard that he stole the cards, i genuinely laughed at his audacity. Like, here he was, on the verge of getting divorced, and he still went ahead and did something this cute.

But the conversation went from light-hearted to something so deep. Man, assuming he did certain things and actually listening to all this from him are two very different experiences. He was trapped with a psycho too, and that changes the way we look at everything.

The scene, the confession, the realization that both of them were in so much pain all these years... it was heartbreaking. Tulsi’s presence in his life is not just about love; it is a mode of survival for him.

Your writing is very mature and reads like that of a novelist. The emotions, the layers, and the character dynamics feel so natural that every conversation leaves a lasting impact.

Loved Mihir deleting Suchitra’s number 😂 and then making sure she deleted his as well. It was oddly satisfying. So, Noina is not even a good sister. She somehow took everything from her own sister too, but in such a subtle way that it never felt obvious at first. She is simply not a good human being at all.

The Bandhej scenes felt very natural. And Pari... man, the character growth this girl has had is amazing.

I’m eagerly waiting for the Mihir–Vaishnavi conversation. I feel like that has the potential to be one of the most important interactions going forward. We have an idea of Mihir's life without Tulsi... but here we can get to know about Tulsi's life without Mihir, or as Tulsi Virani .. but just Tulsi..

As for Mitali, Munni, and Ritik... let’s see where that goes.

Oh my I missed two points two highlight :

First one at the dining table breakfast, where every family member has noticed Tulsi n Mihir's changed mannerism, they appreciated it, probably felt good n happy, but want to keep it to themselves. Aksar ye har ghar pe hota hai. 😂 beautiful narration of every member's self Thought❤️.

Secondly, Tulsi seeing Mihir's frustration, disgust and the rage at Suchitra's place wanted to say, but could not say to him but to keep it to herself that's again so sensible, self analysis and thoughtprocess.

"hamara rishta — woh sirf hamaari zimmedaari thi. Doosron ki saazish ko itni jagah dene ki zaroorat hi nahi thi.*

This is definitely an eye opener, which might help Tulsi her side fault too . 😃.

Chapter 30.. It feels like the emotional climax of Mihir and Tulsi’s journey you have built so far 😇🤗

The balcony confession is beautifully written. Mihir admitting that he stole her cards simply because he wanted something of hers to keep, celebrating her victory in private despite his own company’s defeat, and confessing that he drove toward Anjar multiple times but stopped to protect her all reveal his love through actions rather than declarations 😍

Tulsi’s response is equally compelling because she does not forgive him instantly. Her inability to fully let go of six and a half years of pain preserves the emotional authenticity of the story and makes their embrace deeply moving. The hug itself is one of the chapter’s finest moments (and much needed for TuHir shippers like me 😉). In a way it conveys comfort, grief, regret, and enduring love.

The quieter scenes that follow are just as effective. The cold chamomile, the exchange of water glasses, the silent breakfast, and the peaceful morning on the balcony all were lovely.

The visit to Suchitra is another highlight, with Tulsi’s compassion and Mihir’s firm yet dignified setting of boundaries perfectly reflecting their respective characters.

The Bandhej sequence beautifully reinforces Tulsi’s identity and the life she built independently, while Mihir’s observations of Pari and the workers allow his realizations to unfold naturally.

The only section that feels slightly extended is the concluding Munni-Ritik sequence, where multiple characters noticing the same emotional undercurrent creates some repetition. Love how Mihir notices Tulsi’s reaction though suspecting some backstory he is not aware of. Once revealed, hopefully he will realize how much she endured for family by herself as he was either busy or emotionally unavailable.

Overall, loved this chapter it shows that reconciliation is not the end of pain but the beginning of shared healing, making the final line “It wasn’t just, finally, the beginning” apt for the ending 🤗😇.

Originally posted by: bpatil3

Thank you for the beautiful chapter again. Loved to read TuHir always , and amused by their companionship.

Hey dear, thank you for this beautiful review! Yes TuHir are ultimate, aren’t they?

Mihir as assumed "choried" 😂 from Tulsi's desk??

Loved this Gif!! You guessed it right 👏

She should be happy or angry for this act of him.??

Yes correct she felt like laughing and couldn’t decide whether to be amused or angry until she remembered the divorce papers thing

This gif again! Could actually imagine SI as tulsi with this expression

Tumko chori kyun karni thi Mihir 😂😂. Anyways he disclosing why he did that was really cute, issko dekh ke Tulsi karein to kya karein, isski aisi harkat ki wajah se hi wo chance de rhi hai abhi😜.

That time he couldn’t say na - tumhare cards chahiye🤣🤣 ek taraf Tulsi ek taraf Noina dono bhadak jaati - yes correct!! He does cute harkaten even when seriously repentant!

The conversation started with light moments but became intense, she could find that hidden fear, restlessness, remorse, helplessness in his body language and eyes. His breaking down was necessary, by nature Mihir is very expressive, he cannot hold it for longer. Simple plain fact stated with so much stress, overwhelmed, deep down hidden emotions and pain came out. he admitting he just thought of he cheated her, how he will ever face her? until she cried been alone, he didn't understand her side of the story. Probably for the first time, Mihir felt it pained her too the extent she has become rock solid, the separation has damaged her soul,

Yes he had been drowning in his guilt and pain to understand the extent of her pain. He was too focused on holding on to the thin thread of their marriage being legally intact to think of anything else- that was the one thing tying them together and he held on to it with everything in him.

Good that Mihir tried to find Tulsi's whereabouts here. He knew she was hale, healthy and safe at a distant place, building a new life of her own, creating something to secure her identity etc. Moreover, his reason to maintain distance was justified, he never wanted to divorce her, his logic they are connected by the sacred ritual called Marriage and still belong to one another, connected, and he don't want to loose her. He never thought of his life without her, neither he wanted any other to take her place in his life.

Exactly! He never wanted to divorce her and he would have never never have married Noina even though he kept promising her

Rishta kitna bhi purana ho har din usse jeena padta hai, naye shire se shuru karna padta hai, wo bhi tab jab zindagi ke dorahe pe ruk k apni peeche aur aage ki jeevan ki gati dikhti hai.

Very well said!!

Kya karsakti hai Tulsi, every word spoken by Mihir is true, his true feelings, his fear, his protectiveness and his immaturity too.

Exactly - his immaturity and itna sab hone ke baad bhi him trusting Noina when he himself couldn’t remember anything about that night!
Remember that scene before the tulsi plant - their confrontation before she left - rather than saying mujhse galati hui and all that - he could have told her the truth - Noina loves me and i don’t and I don’t remember anything about that night and she said something happened and she has been threatening me with suicide. If tulsi had at least some doubt - ki maybe nothing happened toh she might not have left that way. But agar husband khud bole - I did this mistake then which wife will doubt ki husband is being manipulated

But he has nothing but Sorry, and Tulsi cannot hold herself, since she loved this man unconditionally, she knew he is not doing it to get her attention, but he has put his heart out. life ki sacchayi ye hai ki ek dusre k bina life sochna bahot mushkil hai. Sirf Dil da mamla nhi barsoan se buni hui duniya hai . Mihir is always expressive so his life without Tulsi is nothing and he means it.Let Mihir find his solace in Tulsi's arms, Tulsi time legi to express in words but already moving towards him from the heart unknowingly , i think she is right.❤️❤️ Love is in the Air nhi, Balcony hogya hai, ye monument banega aage, Shobha will tease her mom someday

correct - tulsi knows him - she knows he’s emotional and cries easily yet has been holding himself as he doesn’t want to pressurize her by crying - but this is what happens in real life too - a light conversation often opens up the dam you built to hold your emotions. During serious conversations you are guarded - such emotional cascade happens only when one is not bracing

Actually aage jaake balcony pe everyone will joke and tease them

Writer, Fabulous job, every sentence, every word carries that weightage, emotion perhaps his feelings, thoughts, love.

Thank you dear, glad it came out well

Then his outrage at Suchitra jayaz hai, Tulsi knows he is going thru a lot of emotional turmoil. She tried to control, she avoided started the topic which is gonna help further. Tulsi can see his attitude, his every body movement, his moving nerve, his disgust, anguish, unsteady heart beat, abnormal breathing, the wrath, his holding the steering hard, handling him calmly, then the car moving brilliant writing

Thank you

Suchitras phone calls were a potent weapon against their marriage so he had to destroy that. And now that he understands how much he was manipulated, his rage is natural na. And of course, tulsi knows him inside out!

Allowing him calm down, he looking at his daughter, watching closely Tulsi's way of working, admiring then sitting in a corner of her cabin, she teasing him if he choried any more cards of her to ease out, bringing him down to normalcy, he knows that he has earned that right to ask her directly if any required.

Factory pahunchne tak bhi he wasn’t calm enough- so she wasn’t comfortable with letting him drive alone in that state so told him to sit for a while and then go

That cards toh nahi churaaye was because she smelt something fishy in his demeanor when she came back from her round.

His secret conversation to plan something with Vaishnavi 😂, Mihir ka mind Tulsi k liye sahi daudta hai hamesha wo kitni bhi stress me ho, he will ensure she is his only sunshine now. 😂

Exactly! His entire being is focused around her now!! Itna dukh diya hai so compensate toh karna hi hai plus obviously she’s everything to him. Vaishnavi se baat toh karni hi thi. Ye mauka mil Gaya

Thank you writer i'm curious for the next part.

Bas afternoon tak post karti hoon

Tulsi's thoughtprocess, Mihir forgetting her, moving on with Noina, happily ever after leading a good life has been washed out completely, though she found it the moment she entered Mumbai, whatever performances Noina pulled, Tulsi was 90% sure it's false, but the remaining 10% also washed out today completely from her mind. Somewhere, her heart betrayed her to believe it completely. Again when it comes from the horses mouth directly, your hidden emotions pop up. Loved this too.

Correct dear, it’s like jab aap akele hote hain toh dimaag me kitni he different versions bana lete hain

PS: sorry I couldn't write anything better, bcoz i'm speechless again the way you expressed Mihir, his heart, pain, his guilt for not respecting or understanding Tulsi's state and his anger, disgust shown at Suchitra. You justified every emotion of his brilliantly, as a reader I could conect him, sorry i'm short of words. You as a writer always win, I definitely admire you for this logical way of explaining the behavior of the characters. Take a bow, keep writing and entertaining.

Hey please don’t say sorry!! Everyone has a different strength - and if I wait for your reviews there’s a solid reason behind it - ur reviews make me feel that my words landed where I intended - so a big thank you for that.

I take a bow 🙇

Thank you so very much for this: it means a ton!

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Originally posted by: saloni_306

chap 29.

Hey dear, thank you for this beautiful review

What a welcome.. The Virani's in your story neither judge nor ask questions that could lead to awkwardness. They simply welcome people with open arms.

Yeah that’s what a family should be. Plus I am trying to show that a family who goes through something like what they went through during Noinas stay in SN - they have learnt their lesson after that. Plus because tulsi has returned, the family has realised the importance of being united

Giving a helping hand to Tulsi because of the fortuners height does show how much this guy cares for her, But why do men always seem to do these things after losing the people they love?It’s the little gestures that make it hurt even more, because they show that the love was always there—it just wasn’t expressed when it was needed the most.

exactly when they are newly married and for a few years or even 2 decades (if they’re madly in love with their woman like Mihir always has been) - men extend these small courtesies- like lending a hand when needed or pulling chairs when she sits-

But as time goes by, men tend to take their women for granted!! And then re-realise their value only after losing them.

Also I have made it clear repeatedly that love was never the issue - tulsi herself never denied the love they shared - her only stance is - love is not enough- respect and trust matter too

Shobha: Best character.. She is always excited and genuinely happy for others.

I love Shobha as a character too

Damini’s welcome was wholesome and sweet.

Glad it came out the way I intended

I once commented that maybe Gautam was going to bring Tuhir closer, but I guess Tuhir might actually bring Damini and Gautam closer instead. ..

I remember you said that and that time I wanted to say that it’s gonna be the reverse but I dint want to spoil future chapters for you

Damini is observing their dynamics, the love they share, and how patiently they handle each other....

exactly - Damini is seeing them exist contentedly in the unresolved
“Chhe saal. Aur toota hua dil.” Mihir should never forget this line or what he did to her.

he won’t! Uske toote dil ke ek ek tukde ko jodega.

The morning kitchen scene was fantastic. The simple gestures give a lot of hope for this relationship, while also reminding us that she is not the old Tulsi anymore—or maybe she never will be.

Exactly he’s the same she’s not the same - ye next chapter ke beginning ke ek scene mein bhi u will see

I'm excited for Tulsi’s reaction when she receives the gift from Pari, and for Mihir’s proud expression when she does.

Yes. Also aren’t you curious about his gift to her?

The Damini–Shobha conversation was apt. It gave us a complete picture of what Tuhir’s relationship looked like from the family’s perspective.

Correct! ye bhi zaroori tha naa

What I really love is that no one questions anything between the couple. They simply observe, understand, and wait for them to sort things out on their own. That makes the family dynamics feel much more mature and realistic.

yes because of 2 reasons - 1. Gayatri explained the family when she saw them meeting in balcony that they’re trying to rebuild something fragile and don’t need the additional burden of “being seen and scrutinized”

Also, when Angad and Ritik tried to pull their chairs closer on dhuleti, Mihir clearly and very firmly set a boundary - no one plays cupid and no one interferes or judges our relationship

Again great chapter and it takes a lot to write..

Thank you so much dear. I really am touched that you understand how much it takes to write

Thank you so much again dear!!

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