Originally posted by: TheGirlofRagas
5) Approaching the police
Sorry people might say that she is selfless, she might be but she is brave but it seems that she has a selfish motive too. Why she didn't approach the police when she was abused? People will say that she is kind, she keeps herself after others. Ok Right. But only a person who can help himself can help others. She immediately went to the police for Anjali, when she discovered the file, but not when she was abused both the times by Dev and Jagdale. She is repetitively talking to the police about Bittu's partner then why not during the time when she needed it the most. She also told that she doesn't trusts the police after giving the file to police.
Just one thing. I don't agree with this point of yours.
See I think Kirti mentioned that Dev was in the police himself and we know that in some professions people protect each other, including the police. Maybe Kirti didn't feel safe going to the police or maybe Dev was in a good post (like inspector or ACP).
Additionally, if Kirti is truly who we are seeing then I can tell you from personal experience that abused people don't immediately go to the police. I've volunteered with a women's shelter and many women say that it takes them some time to see the light. Originally, when the abuse starts, they make excuses for it or believe the excuses that the man is making. I was drunk. It won't happen again. I was just frustrated because of work. Etc, etc. Then it becomes a part of their life. It takes a real big impact for them to wake up from it and do something - like their kids being threatened or their own life being threatened or them talking to someone and realizing that they are being abused, etc. Other times, they accept that it's a part and parcel of life until one day they can't take it anymore and then they just walk away. It could have been the same with Kirti. She accepted it originally or made excuses and then one day couldn't take it and left.