Anuj and his reactions on everything - Page 3

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

Based on my interpretation, Vanraj is a character a lot of people love to hate, there is something like a running joke here that he's the true hero of the show, because of the way the show constantly try to whitewash his almost black character - and other posts centered around this theme - I don't know if you misinterpreted that?

Otherwise there might be posts which appear to sympathise with Vanraj because he lived with Anupama for 25 years - that probably comes from a place of anger and hatred of the character of Anupama - and her character - God help her - looks completely damaged beyond repair. Of course they'll try to glorify her in the coming episodes, but it's probably going to look very unconvincing.

Baki about anupama, iss k kuch nehi ho sakte. In fact, it's not just about her character, pura show hi bhagwan bharose hai.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

People can hate her as much as they want. But it won't change the fact that she was victim in vanraj's case.

Those are probably impulsive, momentary reactions and maybe even something like reaching the limit of their patience. (again all this is merely my own interpretation).

But I completely understand where you're coming from. To me, when the show started - a lot of the original writings had promise and potential - it was so convincing how they'd shown the skewed power-dynamics between Vanraj and Anupama and all the systematic abuse that came along with that, and it looked very, very bad.

Baaki show ke baare mein pata nahi bhagwan bhi kuch kar sakte hai...but yes, bhagwan bharose.

Maya came as a shock to anuj. He never expected CA's real mom to come n claim her n take her away.

Anupama has three kids due to which it's natural for her to not love CA so much like anuj does.

If kavya too would have adopted she too would have behaved like anuj does.

Anupama actually forced her views on anuj n didn't let him talk himself to anu. If anuj would have fought case n anupama supported him n he still would have lost he would have satisfied that he tried but now it's natural for him to blame anupama.

Agar anupama anuj ko diya promise rakhti to.anupama ko bacha chor Kaha y jaata or Agar nahi rakhti to anupama pe anuj pe mental harassment ka blame lagte anuj anupama blame lahata ki.tum.kaisi maa ho

Anupama Jo.karti us pe hi blame lagta

Anuj behaved similarly when he came to know mukku loved vanraj - first he odered mukku to cancel project with vanraj and we will give him money than he wanted to hit vanraj with hockey than he threw bottles on wall - matlab vele dhikawa karna hai himmat kuch nahi hai aadmi main

That is till Mukku said choose me or anupama

Immediately he became bheegi billi and walked away with anupama

So anupama should say choose me or CA he will become fine

This man has no back bone to stand up and stick to one point or view basically anytime

He backs away when some pressure or threat is put others

he has no spine to stand up to his views till end

basically hes more of fence sitter cannot stand up to any one or to right etc jahan hawa behti hai woh behta hai aur iski hawa anupam ahai for last 27 years

Anuj is behaving that way because he's extremely hurt and he is unable to understand why CA chose Maaya inspite of him being the best father to Choti!

He's behaving exactly the way any father would, this behaviour of his might come across as being clingy and possessive but losing a child isn't a trivial thing even when the child isn't yours, especially when you don't know where you went wrong!

If Choti doesn't return ever he'd keep thinking he couldn't be a good father to Choti which is more than enough for a man to lose his sanity!

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Anuj behaved similarly when he came to know mukku loved vanraj - first he odered mukku to cancel project with vanraj and we will give him money than he wanted to hit vanraj with hockey than he threw bottles on wall - matlab vele dhikawa karna hai himmat kuch nahi hai aadmi main

That is till Mukku said choose me or anupama

Immediately he became bheegi billi and walked away with anupama

So anupama should say choose me or CA he will become fine

This man has no back bone to stand up and stick to one point or view basically anytime

He backs away when some pressure or threat is put others

he has no spine to stand up to his views till end

basically hes more of fence sitter cannot stand up to any one or to right etc jahan hawa behti hai woh behta hai aur iski hawa anupam ahai for last 27 years

Anuj was being an idiot I agree and blindly accepting whatever Anupama says is how he has been conditioned…

But I strongly disagree with the comparison between Mukku and CA, for starters CA is a 6 year old child whereas Mukku a grown up who could take her own decisions.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Anupama is thakela character no doubt on that. But I find it damn problematic when some paints vanraj as some maha purush & blames anupama for his abusive nature.

Anupama can be the most horrible person but still nothing can justify his behaviour towards anu.

Sorry tm for bringing anu again in your thread. I just couldn't stop myself.

I also don’t understand how can Vanraj be good all of a sudden how can they forget what he did only married people or very sensitive people here can understand how painful a wife can find herself if in d place of Anupama.

Originally posted by: magicalgirll

And i am seriously wondering how people can become so insensitive towards Anuj Anupama bakht andhe bakt they are.

why do people think that only mothers have emotions and are vulnerable? In many cases, fathers are more concerned and caring than mothers. fathers do cry seeing their kids in pain. Whats wrong in that. Maa roye to mahan, baap roye toh......

I have seen people crying for their pets.. here, is a child.. sorry, I am not making comparisons bw a pet and child. just to say.. are pets their bilogical kids?

Here, CA is family to him. he is very much attached to him. In anupama's absence and even when he was in wheelchair, it was CA who was with him all time.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

His reactions and shouting for CA who’s not his biological child is too much his reacting like a child I want I want CA who’s not a doll but for real she being a child understood her mom Maya though true or fake but Anju is weird.At least for me.

Parent's get into depression even when there is a miscarriage means for a child who didn't even came into existence. Anuj was living with child n who was calling him papa n cuddling with him. Obviously he will get attached. He dreamt of living with child getting her educated n married like any other father would.

Anuj never differentiated between biological or adopted child as he too wasn't. His parents didn't differentiated between mukku n him even after having their own child. Here anuj doesn't even have one so it's natural for Anuj to go into depression n get frustrated n shout after losing CA.