Anuj and his reactions on everything - Page 2

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Don't know on what basis anuj is showing paagal panti main choti ko jaane nahi doonga

Technically anuj should be prepared ki choti jaa bhi sakti Hai

Anuj Technically nahi soch raha hai thst is weird thing about anuj

Anuj u have not legally adopted choti Jo tum bol.rahe ho.main choti ko jaane nahi doonga and blaming anupama and talking rubbish ki tumhare teen bache hai hai mere ek hi bacha hai

.it was u who stop anupama to go with picnic when anupama was ready to go with choti ij. Picnic nspite of toshu being paralytic

Originally posted by: Harish111

Stop differentiating between biological and adopted child. Many many parents love adopted child same as own and not everyone is narrow minded. In india we even taken example of yashoda who fostered Krishna as a better mother than his birth mother Devaki

Again ITS THE SAME DAY HE IS LOSING THE CHILD

What do you mean its too much? Is he obsessed for years? He cannot grieve for ONE DAY?

A father is not weird for loving an adopted child as one's own or grieving when they lose the child

Some of you people are made of stone. And i know what the issue is, you will do anything to justify Anupama's behavior. If Anupama was the one having panic attack, you will justify it as mother's love, but a father cannot love a kid, its "too much", its weird stereotyping

Originally posted by: magicalgirll

And i am seriously wondering how people can become so insensitive towards Anuj Anupama bakht andhe bakt they are.

Just one small point I wish to add here - I think there is too many things wrong with this show, and I'd blame the writing more than anything else. So there might be times people have some opinion that's critical of Anuj. This opinion has not mentioned Anupama, too.

I am not on anyone's side (at the moment, Anupama's character does look very scary to me) and I don't have too much information to work with here regarding this particular opinion, but this much I wish to convey that - an atmosphere where people find it difficult to express themselves/ be critical of Anuj, because of the fear of being labeled "Anupama andh bhakt" does not seem healthy.

Not trying to impose anything, but just wished to say this bit, because I've noticed many other instances in this forum.

you are mixing real people with the story no one is discussing their own life here and I want to talk about Anju shouting you know a few people is stone still you are trying to talk with this lifeless people for you weird not for me and I am entitled to my pov if you disagree that’s more than fine.

Why do you care about someone shouting in a fictional story? You cannot have it both ways, care about someone shouting in a story but then ignore the reason why they are shouting, saying these are not real people

I would have no problem if its was just a story. Unfortunately people take lessons from such "stories" and start differentiating between adopted and biological kids in real life. Then it stops being just an opinion or POV but starts affecting kids in real life

I wouldn't care if the opinion was that this dress doesnt look good or an actor is a bad actor or ugly or opinions like that as that affects no one

Adopted kids already have a millions problems in their lives without people teaching that they cannot be loved same as biological kids and that its weird if parents are sad and angry for losing them just because they are adopted

Originally posted by: Harish111

Why do you care about someone shouting in a fictional story? You cannot have it both ways, care about someone shouting in a story but then ignore the reason why they are shouting, saying these are not real people

I would have no problem if its was just a story. Unfortunately people take lessons from such "stories" and start differentiating between adopted and biological kids in real life. Then it stops being just an opinion or POV but starts affecting kids in real life

I wouldn't care if the opinion was that this dress doesnt look good or an actor is a bad actor or ugly or opinions like that as that affects no one

Adopted kids already have a millions problems in their lives without people teaching that they cannot be loved same as biological kids and that its weird if parents are sad and angry for losing them just because they are adopted

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

Just one small point I wish to add here - I think there is too many things wrong with this show, and I'd blame the writing more than anything else. So there might be times people have some opinion that's critical of Anuj. This opinion has not mentioned Anupama, too.

I am not on anyone's side (at the moment, Anupama's character does look very scary to me) and I don't have too much information to work with here regarding this particular opinion, but this much I wish to convey that - an atmosphere where people find it difficult express themselves/ be critical of Anuj because of the fear of being labeled "Anupama andh bhakt" does not seem healthy.

Not trying to impose anything, but just wished to say this bit, because I've noticed many other instances in this forum.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

For me Anupama is super annoying with her bohot bohot bohot or when she’s crying. No one is bhakt only discussing a show or a particular scene sometimes we like or sometimes we just dislike it. Here I just wanted Anuj to try to stop Maya in a more powerful way instead of crying and begging or asking Anupama to stop Maya if he himself can’t for me he needs to expect the same from Anupama seeing how stubborn is Maya. But the writing part now why they did not give the direct dialogues to Anupama explaining to Anuj what really CA said to her instead of twisting all the dialogues. Well these writers.

I think I'm able to understand you more. I don't think they have the capacity to do a proper full-fledged court drama or something (good they didn't, would have been a horror show probably), or anything else that's remotely logical.

Anupama backing down without a fight saying "it's all for Choti's sake" and just saying let her go, especially after seeing how Choti was manipulated and also Anuj's intense pain did not come across well, at all.

Also, regarding the other side, based on my interpretation - I think sometimes, people get so confrontational and passionate about this show because it makes mockery of such serious issues in absolutely horrible ways, that it might trigger them badly - maybe there are personal experiences or observations tied to this. I think you probably understand that.

So messed-up, this show is.

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

I think I'm able to understand you more. I don't think they have the capacity to do a proper full-fledged court drama or something (good they didn't, would have been a horror show probably), or anything else that's remotely logical.

Anupama backing down without a fight saying "it's all for Choti's sake" and just saying let her go, especially after seeing how Choti was manipulated and also Anuj's intense pain did not come across well, at all.

Also, regarding the other side, based on my interpretation - I think sometimes, people get so confrontational and passionate about this show because it makes mockery of such serious issues in absolutely horrible ways, that it might trigger them badly - maybe there are personal experiences or observations tied to this. I think you probably understand that.

So messed-up, this show is.

Anupama is thakela character no doubt on that. But I find it damn problematic when some paints vanraj as some maha purush & blames anupama for his abusive nature.

Anupama can be the most horrible person but still nothing can justify his behaviour towards anu.

Sorry tm for bringing anu again in your thread. I just couldn't stop myself.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Anupama is thakela character no doubt on that. But I find it damn problematic when some paints vanraj as some maha purush & blames anupama for his abusive nature.

Anupama can be the most horrible person but still nothing can justify his behaviour towards anu.

Sorry tm for bringing anu again in your thread. I just couldn't stop myself.

Based on my interpretation, Vanraj is a character a lot of people love to hate, there is something like a running joke here that he's the true hero of the show, because of the way the show constantly try to whitewash his almost black character - and other posts centered around this theme - I don't know if you misinterpreted that?

Otherwise there might be posts which appear to sympathise with Vanraj because he lived with Anupama for 25 years - that probably comes from a place of anger and hatred of the character of Anupama - and her character - God help her - looks completely damaged beyond repair. Of course they'll try to glorify her in the coming episodes, but it's probably going to look very unconvincing.