Originally posted by: shubhK2308
I agree on the part of Anuj misbehaving or judging Maya on this basis...but as for Anuj treating her as a guest, I really don't expect him to because he never invited Maya to his house,especially to stay in that house. Anupama did, so it's all her doing.
I know many in this forum are miffed with Anuj's behaviour towards Maya, and I am not saying that Anuj is right or wrong, depends upon perspective...but I do relate to Anuj's hostile feelings towards Maya.
For Anuj, Anu is his daughter, even if it's been only 4 months since he has interacted with her, could be a very short time for people to understand on how he developed such a strong bond with CA, but I do believe time doesn't really define how deep and good can your relationship be with a person.
For Anuj, Anu is his solace especially with all the Shah drama, and if someone,be it the biological mother also tries to snatch away your kid, you are bound to act hostile against that person, for Anuj, Maya isn't CA's biological mother or a women suffering, but she is a person who is trying to snatch his kid away from him, so he is acting so, call it irrational behavior but that's how human emotions work.
I disagree
anuj is not treating her as guest
hes insulting and misbehaving like shes some low caste untouchable or slave of his and even sushma her friend
imagine your parents or hubby call someone to stay few days as guests at home just because you hate them for some personal reason can we ill treat them obivously no
same way anupama called them shes anuj family member
you cannot insult or ill treat guest no matter which family member called them to stay at home
Let anuj not forget this is not his house its built by his father and anupama is owner
he has no rights to treat maya or sushma or anyone so badly
shah family behaves worst when has he misbehaved like hes doing to maya and sushma now
hes allowing his family to misbehave too like anukush, barkha, dimpy, baa whats this
guest is not here for free food from anuj and maan they are not beggars that you insult them like this
in some of functions maids working at home comew for functions like wedding etc with their family are invited do we insult them at functions just because they are not as rich and maids at home? they are guests like any other relative or neighbour etc you cannot insult because they are maids low strata
Maya did not come to anuj kapaiya mansion on own shes invited by anupama. Shes not come here because she has no food to eat or place to stay etc at her home
anuj has shown his class and standards by behaving so badly which US educated behaves so in usa they do not insult because you are poor by calling to house or because you paint buildings or are maid etc
whats use of education and staying in us awhen you never progressed in life and have no idea how to treat people not as lucky as you and misbehave with them
and regarding CA being his solace, maya ahas no one in world no parents no sibbling no husband her only family is CA. Anuj has GK, malika, anupama, ankush, barkha, adhik, sara as family members. So anuj should give CA to mayaa as she has no one in world he has many. He can adopt 5 other orphans.
You cannot forcefully take away anothers child like that, she had not told to give up CA for adopton. If you want to adopt go adopt real orphans who have no one. Stop trying to steal from a woman who has no one other than CA.
Love to CA is all dram aby anuj and anupama,. Where was this love when baa was insullting her or shes treated like third class at shah home or when she needs them. Both are away from 8am to 10pm not at home barkha, adhik are more close to her and take care of her when these two are busy loitering in shah house or office etc . I do not mind adhik adopting her he loves her very much as can be seen by his smile and happiness in her company. I do not see any happiness or love in maan eyes or behaviour to that kid.
CA is no doll ke like hogayi to cheen lo kisi se bhi
Also whiose he to taunt maya that why she left in orphange? Sleeze men come to bars and areas where she worked. She did million times right by leaving CA in orhange or NGO. Thats what many poor labourers or prositute or bar dancers etc do leave child in NGO or orhange to safe gaurd kid from bad men like ankush, anuj, vanraj and tooshu.
By anuj and ankush behvaiour towards Maaya its provede she did correct to leave CA in orphange and not keep her with her for CAs safety. Even 5 year old kids are trafficked if you have no idea what happens in india and world. In orphanage where 4 year and 6 year were prostitute and rescued by NGO and kept in orphanges or foster homes. If you visit orphanges in india you can hear horror stories from kids and women. I guess although anuj was born in orhnage he never went and undestood reality of orphans or women like his real mother who were majboor to leave him in orphanage.
So anuj should shut up now hes one useless character who thinks too much of anupama and shahs who are mostly wrong and insults all others who are right. anuj is highly immature at 45 years and behaves like a 15 year old teenager sick love puppy and jhoru ka ghulam mostly. For anything his mother herself left him in orhange as she was working in a field where its danger for kids may be like mayaa profession. He should be last person to throw stones at anyone
Edited by myviewprem - 2 years ago
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